I Need Help!!!!!!!!!!

[dressedtokill59]

OK HERE IT IS ME AND MY GF HAVE JUST RECENTLY DECIDED TO START HAVIONG SEX AND SHE IS A VIRGIN ANDSO SHE IS really TIGHT AND I AM BY NO MEANS A SMALL MAN AND WE TRIED THE OTHER NIGHT BUT IT WAS HURTING HER TOO MUCH TO CONTINUE SO I WAS WONDERING IF ANYONE HAD ANY SUGGESTIONS IF YOU DO PLEASE REPLY AND LET ME KNOW WHAT TO DO. THANK YOU

RICH

 

[Chuckwrox]

LOTS of LUBE.

 

[chicagophotoman]

lube and go slow, let her adjust to you a little at a time. dont just shove it in, use fingers before hand, gradually working more fingers in at a time. She'll widen up eventually, just enjoy the fact that shes so tight now

 

[sxylegs]

OK HERE IT IS ME AND MY GF HAVE JUST RECENTLY DECIDED TO START HAVIONG SEX AND SHE IS A VIRGIN ANDSO SHE IS really TIGHT AND I AM BY NO MEANS A SMALL MAN AND WE TRIED THE OTHER NIGHT BUT IT WAS HURTING HER TOO MUCH TO CONTINUE SO I WAS WONDERING IF ANYONE HAD ANY SUGGESTIONS IF YOU DO PLEASE REPLY AND LET ME KNOW WHAT TO DO. THANK YOU

RICH

You could also buy a small vibrator and insert it before hand which will cause the muscles to loosen up......then you can use it on her clit when you finally get inside.......

Good Luck...

 

[y=mx+b]

yes, take it slow, perhaps warm her up with a nice session of oral sex first.

 

[dollface007]

these are all good suggestions...use them. Get her good and excited beforehand and then let her be on top so she can control depth and speed.

 

[idoyoganaked]

Her on top is definitely the best way to start out. Once you've been doing that for a while, feel free to change positions but it's easiest to start out with her in control. And astroglide is very nice

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by idoyognaked
Her on top is definitely the best way to start out. Once you've been doing that for a while, feel free to change positions but it's easiest to start out with her in control. And astroglide is very nice

Sorry this isn't always the case. Yes she has better control in this position but she's also more vulnerable being so exposed (as compared to man on top). Don't assume this is the case.

 

[idoyoganaked]

My boyfriend and I also recently started having sex, me also being a virgin beforehand, and him also being rather large. Me on top works best for us to start with because I can control how much goes in at a time since it can still hurt a bit at first. After 5 - 10 min of that, I'm good for any position