I need help and fast

[BK_7_98]

I am a 19 year old virgin, I have had my first proper sexual experience about 2 months ago. I also should say that for a few years now I have suffered with panic attacks. While the panic attacks are under control I still get the racing thoughts.

With the girl I was with everything was going fine, I had met her on a friday night and by the time we got home we had both had a skinfull. I got her into bed and although it was my first time I knew what to do through extensive knowlege of porn. Then, when i was about to enter her I realised my dick was only half erect. I tred anyway but it wouldn't go in and within seconds had gone limp. Nothing that I tried for the rest of the night got me nearly aroused enough to try again and that includes bj's.

I'm now with another girl who I broke it off with the previous girl to get with. we've been together for a 1 1/2 months but nothing had happened for lack of a place to do it in. Finally it happened and everything was going brilliantly, we had been drinking again but nothing like last time. Then she handed me a condom to put on, I did and tried to insert myself but my dick was shrinking as if it had been dipped in freezing cold water. This is a girl I really like who has got a lot of experience and I know she's gagging for it and is ready to try again. Theres a free house and I need to make sure it wont happen again today or tommorrow night.

SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

 

[wetnhorny_slave]

if you think too much about it it will only make it worse! just try to to take things slowly and let your body build up. it sounds like your psyching yourself out.

 

[curvacious]

take your mind off yourself and focus on her for a little while. If you think about things too much, things will probably continue to stay the way they are. Make her feel good (kissing and touching, etc) until you can't stand it anymore and then go for it.

 

[exvitermini]

I'm 25 and it even happens to me. You just get so anxious about pleasing her and want it to be hard so badly that you psych it out. Can't do that. Relax, man. Just take it easy, do the kissing and touching and when it's hard enough, it wont' go away. You're too young to start worrying about ED. Some Viagra would be a good insurance policy, though, to make sure your first time is less eventful!

 

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[Guest]

Alcohol doesn't help, with, I might add.

 

[princessa]

hey, if nothing works, go ahead and see a doctor... but if you can masturbate without that happening, i'd say it's just a bit of anxiety... still, going to a doctor might be a little embarrassing but might help... good luck

 

[Ram Unreal]

This is such a natural occurence it's funny!

I had a few experiences like that when I was first being sexually enlightened all those years ago..... *remembers*


Best thing to do is just kissing and touching until you're so lost in the ecstasy of it all that when it does happen you'll wonder what all the fuss was about.

Relax and don't dwell on it, it does make it worse otherwise. Try just to have oral sex/foreplay for now and you'll soon stop worrying about everything and you'll be fine.