auldmantime
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- Aug 2, 2005
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Here is my problem. I am nearly 60, been married 35 years to a woman I love dearly, but have not had any sex for 5+ years, have not had satisfying sex for 10 years or more, and my wife has no desire for me (or others for that matter) at all.
I have decided that 2015 is the year where this all changes meaning that I am going to look outside my marriage for sex. The problem is I have no idea how or where to meet women who would be open to such a situation. Obviously I am going to steer clear of friends, acquaintances and local women for the sake of discretion so that means I need to meet women I have never met before. I have looked at the 'senior dating' sites, but the ones I have tried all seem to be scams.
Just to describe myself a little, I am tall, average build, play sports, have graying hair, professional, well travelled, well dressed, funny, eloquent, intelligent, charming, kind, generous, caring, and love women unreservedly. Not a movie star hunk, but not bad looking and very presentable in all situations.
In other words, not a complete waste of time. I am also away from home most weeks during the week, so there are plenty of opportunities.
So here are my questions for any mature women who might be generous enough to help me out. Where do you go on a regular basis that a guy could start a conversation with you and maybe click?
Bars, Restaurants, grocery stores, bookstores, clubs, etc.?
What sort of advances are most acceptable to you? Direct, compliments, flirtatious, humorous?
Any other advice you have will be very welcome. If you want I can keep you up to date with my progress during the year. Thanks.
I have decided that 2015 is the year where this all changes meaning that I am going to look outside my marriage for sex. The problem is I have no idea how or where to meet women who would be open to such a situation. Obviously I am going to steer clear of friends, acquaintances and local women for the sake of discretion so that means I need to meet women I have never met before. I have looked at the 'senior dating' sites, but the ones I have tried all seem to be scams.
Just to describe myself a little, I am tall, average build, play sports, have graying hair, professional, well travelled, well dressed, funny, eloquent, intelligent, charming, kind, generous, caring, and love women unreservedly. Not a movie star hunk, but not bad looking and very presentable in all situations.
In other words, not a complete waste of time. I am also away from home most weeks during the week, so there are plenty of opportunities.
So here are my questions for any mature women who might be generous enough to help me out. Where do you go on a regular basis that a guy could start a conversation with you and maybe click?
Bars, Restaurants, grocery stores, bookstores, clubs, etc.?
What sort of advances are most acceptable to you? Direct, compliments, flirtatious, humorous?
Any other advice you have will be very welcome. If you want I can keep you up to date with my progress during the year. Thanks.
