I wouldn't say its 'difficult'....as much as it is crossing the line...and going for it. Married cur. again, I have chat with plenty of guys. We have the same conclusion. mustering up the nerve....
I tend to find it difficult to find a special friend. I am not someone who comes up and askes a guy if he wants to have sex. And I have never had a guy come up to me and ask. I guess when you find someone in a place like this, then it would be the "mustering up the nerve" kind of moment. That is just my thougths.
yea, it would be nice to have a "special friend" with benefits. If nothing else just to sit around, watch some porn discuss sex and jack off each other. Unfortunately, if my wife finds out that I ever did that much less have a desire for it then I would be dead or at least divorced
I agree with everyone so far ... The threat of being turned down or "found out" is extremely limiting.
Right now I'd settle for a guy to email/txt with