I need a man to truly make love to my ass

[Hitchiker69]

When I'm fucking a woman I take my time, and 'dance' with her ass. I mean I change up stroke speed, depth, angle.
I also grab her and move her ass where ever I want her. We usually start missionary, then I'll turn her on her side,
maybe sit her on my lap as I sit on the edge of the bed. Usually finish taking her face down from behind

I try to find every move that feels best for me, and what she responds to. And I try to make it last.

When I'm fucking a man I usually just bang out a load, hard, deep fast strokes with no variety. Either doggy style, or he's face down, with me on top. And men use me the same way.

Only once did I ever fuck a guy face to face, and that was great.

I'd love to find a man who would fuck me like I fuck women. And I'd love to find a man who wants me to fuck him like a woman. It just seems so much more intimate and satisfying.

Maybe that's the problem...too intimate for man/man sex.

I want a versatile man to take as my lover.

Is that too much to ask?

 

[fire515]

not at all too much to ask. just simple wants and needs

 

[none2_none2]

Well to be honest, there is a difference between "making love" vs sex. It isn't about body parts but about love. My orientation is to be inside a man, and I crave certain males' asses. However, no matter how much I may desire a man's ass, there is always a distinction between sex and love. You make love to a human being, you fuck body parts.

I miss sex so much since ED has taken over my life. Still, I love my partner of 17+ years. If it was only about his hot body and ass, then it wouldn't have lasted this long. If a genie could grant me the wish of being able to fuck and cum as much and often as possible, but with the stipulation that it had to be with someone other than my partner, I'd pass. Why? Well that is the difference between love and lust.

Finally, as to versatile, we are all oriented differently. There are probably more versatile men than otherwise. Still it is best that someone be themselves. Case in point, so many have this idea that if you just had the right partner, you would enjoy _______. That just isn't true for everyone. When I was young and naive I was fooled into believing that "top" was only something a hung man could be. I bottomed not because I liked it, but because I thought that was my lot in life. I began to believe that the "sin" of m2m sex was the desire to be intimate with a man, but that the sex was supposed to be miserable and/or unfulfilling. Finally, one day a kind man let me top, and for the first time m2m sex was divine! I still bottomed a few times after that - then because I thought it was selfish to be otherwise. then with the AIDS crisis, I asked myself, WHY am I doing something that I NEVER enjoyed the least bit. It was just so unnatural to me. So I decided to be true to myself. I never raped anyone, and I never deceived a guy into bottoming for me with the expectation that I would want to flip-flop.

Now, maybe I had missed out on some encounters because of that, but at least I was being genuine to who I am and how I function.

I will always crave a man's heart, and yes I have a weakness for hairy, muscular men's behinds. I will never really crave penises. It simply cums with the territory of m2m relationships.

Men are not all cut from the same cloth. Again, there are probably more versatile men than tops/bottoms. So if you are not finding what you say you want, you have to ask yourself if you are looking in the right places. Plus, I don't know if you are married or not, but the more you desire someone special, the more you have to be free to dedicate yourself to such an individual. If you already have a full life, and just want good sex on the side, than realize, that you don't have as much time to dedicate to such a partner. So your pick of the litter is greatly diminished.

 

[FL30]

Well to be honest, there is a difference between "making love" vs sex. It isn't about body parts but about love. My orientation is to be inside a man, and I crave certain males' asses. However, no matter how much I may desire a man's ass, there is always a distinction between sex and love. You make love to a human being, you fuck body parts.

I miss sex so much since ED has taken over my life. Still, I love my partner of 17+ years. If it was only about his hot body and ass, then it wouldn't have lasted this long. If a genie could grant me the wish of being able to fuck and cum as much and often as possible, but with the stipulation that it had to be with someone other than my partner, I'd pass. Why? Well that is the difference between love and lust.

Finally, as to versatile, we are all oriented differently. There are probably more versatile men than otherwise. Still it is best that someone be themselves. Case in point, so many have this idea that if you just had the right partner, you would enjoy _______. That just isn't true for everyone. When I was young and naive I was fooled into believing that "top" was only something a hung man could be. I bottomed not because I liked it, but because I thought that was my lot in life. I began to believe that the "sin" of m2m sex was the desire to be intimate with a man, but that the sex was supposed to be miserable and/or unfulfilling. Finally, one day a kind man let me top, and for the first time m2m sex was divine! I still bottomed a few times after that - then because I thought it was selfish to be otherwise. then with the AIDS crisis, I asked myself, WHY am I doing something that I NEVER enjoyed the least bit. It was just so unnatural to me. So I decided to be true to myself. I never raped anyone, and I never deceived a guy into bottoming for me with the expectation that I would want to flip-flop.

Now, maybe I had missed out on some encounters because of that, but at least I was being genuine to who I am and how I function.

I will always crave a man's heart, and yes I have a weakness for hairy, muscular men's behinds. I will never really crave penises. It simply cums with the territory of m2m relationships.

Men are not all cut from the same cloth. Again, there are probably more versatile men than tops/bottoms. So if you are not finding what you say you want, you have to ask yourself if you are looking in the right places. Plus, I don't know if you are married or not, but the more you desire someone special, the more you have to be free to dedicate yourself to such an individual. If you already have a full life, and just want good sex on the side, than realize, that you don't have as much time to dedicate to such a partner. So your pick of the litter is greatly diminished.

This is true about both sexes, not just men. It is a human need to be wanted/desired.

Some people can be monogamous and some can't.

sometimes when you're having sex, you're making love. sometimes, you're just trying to bust a nut - have an orgasm.

 

[Hitchiker69]

You misunderstood my post completely. Or perhaps I shouldn't have used the phrase 'making love' to my ass.

I know what love is, and that's not what I'm looking for. I just want better quality sex with a man. I want more than humping.

When I have sex with a woman, whether I met her an hour ago or I've known her 20 years, I always give her sex that is a completely different style than I've ever given or gotten from a man.

My point was I'd like to find a man with whom who I can give and get the style of fucking I always give a woman.

Nothing to do with love, or being true to myself. Just quality sex.

 

[klippert]

You misunderstood my post completely. Or perhaps I shouldn't have used the phrase 'making love' to my ass.

I know what love is, and that's not what I'm looking for. I just want better quality sex with a man. I want more than humping.

When I have sex with a woman, whether I met her an hour ago or I've known her 20 years, I always give her sex that is a completely different style than I've ever given or gotten from a man.

My point was I'd like to find a man with whom who I can give and get the style of fucking I always give a woman.

Nothing to do with love, or being true to myself. Just quality sex.

You want man Sex... that makes more sense

 

[fitandfresh]

not at all too much to ask. just simple wants and needs

Hell yes.......a good hard pounding then a long slow loving one......hmmmm

 

[2wayroad]

I like it both ways, but my favorite is to have my legs over his shoulders. I love feeling that dick deep and seeing his face when he cums. It’s been a long time since I was properly fucked. My regular trusted bareback top moved. Everything since has been awkward or incomplete. It’s hard to find a good top. Many want to be one, or say they are, then perform terribly. The last guy I tried with shot his load before he even got the tip in.

But yeah, I would like it how you describe. Even better is pound me first and seed me deep, then a second round later in my cum lubed ass, slow and deep, face to face.

 

[carln3346]

this thread is making me sooo horny

 

[michael2956]

Maybe start like this?

https://66.media.tumblr.com/67233b92f61d996c99e16763625a7107/tumblr_p9gy6vSkbM1w1dc7qo1_250.gifv

Then, move on you like this?

https://66.media.tumblr.com/42a044d...3be983bc4fa5058f5c18ed8842c7bb0874d06ae9.gifv

Then finish on top....looking into your eyes as I cum?

https://66.media.tumblr.com/e53fb71.../7d966e341a117e72069ff10b9089ffe123dcdc99.jpg

 

[2wayroad]

Nice! I absolutely melt my ass eaten until it’s sloppy wet. No better way to foreplay into getting you cock in my ass!

 

[bookworm69]

I like it both ways, but my favorite is to have my legs over his shoulders. I love feeling that dick deep and seeing his face when he cums. It’s been a long time since I was properly fucked. My regular trusted bareback top moved. Everything since has been awkward or incomplete. It’s hard to find a good top. Many want to be one, or say they are, then perform terribly. The last guy I tried with shot his load before he even got the tip in.

But yeah, I would like it how you describe. Even better is pound me first and seed me deep, then a second round later in my cum lubed ass, slow and deep, face to face.

love the position that you described. love the ease of depth and love to see the expression on his face as he takes my cock s-l-o-w-l-y ... both of us waiting until I get balls deep. also, like to just work the head in and pull out and push back in, just to tease us both. during orgasm, love being watched as he milks my cock and how me and my cock respond to every clench and twitch of his ass. big yes to face-to-face.