I need a Girlfriend

[ChefChip]

please. I am trying every outlet to find a girlfriend. I can't go to bars, I'm to young. I have asked everybody I know, but I don't know enough people. I just wish I had someone to talk to and hug when I get home from a long day of work. I just "need somebody to love. "

Mike

 

[ChefChip]

looking but not posting

I'm still looking, lot of you have looked at my thread but no responses? why?

 

[PhilFantasy]

goodluck

Take up a sport/hobby that girls do as well. Hang-out with them as friend, you'll soon find one that wants more than that... Drama might be good, cos actresses are hot, hot, hot... or, join a band/be a dj? That's when women want to talk to YOU. ;-)

good luck buddy,

Philo

 

[pinkdahlias]

Hi there...

Hi ChefChip,

I read your post and unfortunately, I do not live in the area, I'm in Georgia, near Atlanta. But if you'd like we can talk, be online friends. It never hurts to have more friends! Anyway, you can e-mail me or PM me if you want to chat.

pinkdahlias

 

[Guest]

 

[tupak187]

Just relax and live your normal life.

Trust me, not having a girl isn't the end of the world. its a nice thing to have, only if it done right. Don't go off and be with the first girl that says yes. BE A MAN!!! lol.

Be yourself, and the ones that still stick around, are the ones you have a chance with, and the ones you would ENJOY being with.

If all else fails, Prostitution.

Good Luck.

P.S. start saving up. They're not cheap.(girlfriends that is)

 

[Ukin]

Heres a piece of advice.


Women don't usually find desperate men attractive.

Chief... I do recall saying the same thing to you when you first started posting my friend.

Another bit of advice...be a regular of a couple of threads, get to know people.

Contrary to most of male thoughts on here..the ladies do not "jump" at the chance of having sex with total strangers.

 

[Suzi]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....

Ukin...seems like I said the same thing myself (that women would not jump at the chance to have sex with a stranger)...can't remember what thread though Nice avatar btw

 

[Ukin]

Re: Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....

Ukin...seems like I said the same thing myself (that women would not jump at the chance to have sex with a stranger)...can't remember what thread though Nice avatar btw

Lol..thank you Suzi...cute name too..yours I meant..blonde by any chance?

 

[Ukin]

Re: Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....

Ukin...seems like I said the same thing myself (that women would not jump at the chance to have sex with a stranger)...can't remember what thread though Nice avatar btw

PS...Love your Occupation

 

[Shaq]

Heres a piece of advice.


Women don't usually find desperate men attractive.

Hence a lot of women are alone and wonder why.


He's not desperate he's honest. He's looking but isn't finding what he wants and he has come to the board to see if he can find a woman here interested in a relationship.


Here's another piece of advice: Keep trying!

 

[ChefChip]

lay off man, if you don't ahve anything to contribute to the advancement of my cause, back the hell off. I don't care what you think. In general I think these board are just a good place to get my feelings out. I ahppened to feel that way that night and I just posted what I felt. If you can't be constuctive go find a large moving object, like bus, and jump in front. I don't want to hear wheather some dude thinks I'm desperate or not, I just wanted to get my name out and tell people what I am looking for. so get bent!

 

[Guest]

 

[Shaq]

He said he NEEDS someone to love.
Thats desperate, women want a man who wants thm, not needs them.

He feels the need for companionship. A natural need, a common need. It's need almost everyone feels he's honest enough to say it.

If he took your advice he would be maintaining a non chalant attitude just to bolster his image.

If thats not how he's feeling that isn't what he should do.

He's serious. He's looking for someone. He feels the need for love so he's looking for it.

That isn't desperation, that's emotional maturity...if women don't find that attractive then they have questionable values in my opinion....

 

[Guest]

 

[Shaq]

Quit crabbing at me. Or I just might have to spank you!!


Actually. His post sounded very desperate to me, and if there is one thing I have talked with other gals about is desperate men.

His thread sounds desperate, I gave him a little advice. He should expect feedback in a message board. Right??

I personally find self confident men attractive.


A person must love oneself, before they can love another.

I'm not saying your feedback was bad...I was just saying I dont think he should change his approach if that is how he feels...

To pretend to just happen to have a passing interest in a woman could cause him to be overlooked by someone who wanted to judge how serious a poster was....


And I'm not crabbing at you...but I do like crabs...and mussels...and oysters are good...fish is good for you...shrimp and I aren't on good terms after that incident at the restaurant....

 

[ChefChip]

thanks for the back up man. I have been looking other places and I might just get what I need. YOu can't judge my position based on the words. Shove it

 

[Guest]

 

[ChefChip]

Sorry

Just so I don't scare off any potential friends, Im just venting at Ukin because he has been the bane of my existence for a month now. Otherwise, the rest of you are cool

Sorry once again

 

[Guest]

Re: Sorry

 

[ChefChip]

no, just Ukin, I hate him. sorry

no worries

 

[Shaq]

Shaq. for you

*gets off of horse*

*removes hat and bows*

 

[Ukin]

no, just Ukin, I hate him. sorry

no worries

Copy of quote from a PM: thanks for the post
hey ass hole, wanna fight. why can't you be a supportive dude. you have to be an ass hole. I'll fight you, come on you pussy. I'll meat you in the middle of the country, Chitown. High noon. August 28 Navy Peer. LEt's get it on.

Dear Chef...all I was trying to do was to offer advice. We have all been there, where you are now... but you have had incessant threads that virtually plead for women..all I was trying to say was do it another way! There are other ways to do it too...like I said, stick to say two or three threads...you WILL find someone. Just the ladies don't tend to go for the type of thread you have started. However...no-one should hate anyone Calm down, relax, find interesting threads and above all...try and have fun

 

[John Roberts]

Quit crabbing at me. Or I just might have to spank you!!


Actually. His post sounded very desperate to me, and if there is one thing I have talked with other gals about is desperate men.

His thread sounds desperate, I gave him a little advice. He should expect feedback in a message board. Right??

I personally find self confident men attractive.


A person must love oneself, before they can love another.

I have to agree with Emerald_eyed on this one....
I am going through a break up right now...I have no one...it really hurts but one has to be happy with oneself before a relationship can be successful.
Some say we travel through time with a group of soulmates, even when we find them we may not be at the same stage of developement....and a mismatch.....one is drawn more than the other.....but if you keep yourself open you will find someone eventually.....keeping working on your own personal growth, learn to nurture yourself and surround yourself with people that make you feel good and feel good about yourself....
When you feel good about yourself women pick up on it....they are drawn to you.
JR

 

[ChefChip]

ok Ukin, but the callenge is still on the table. I will take your advice under consideration.