I miss women.

[Ms_Lilith]

It's been like 3 years since I've so much as kissed a woman. I miss the smell of a woman, the softness of a woman's hair, the softness of a woman's skin, the slower, more graceful movements of a woman..... I miss kissing lip-glossed lips... I miss the taste of a woman's mouth, noticing her sparkling earrings as I run my fingers through her hair...


*sigh*

 

[Guest]

Mmmmmmm, I can certainly appreciate that.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Oh I do too......nothing like the touch of a woman~or to be touched by one.....

 

[Cigan]

Hmmm, being a gay guy I can't say I can relate to your specifically missing women, but I understand the missing of intimate touch in general. I feel for you.

Here's to hoping neither one of us has to wait much longer.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Oh I have intimate touch. I'm very involved with a wonderful man that I love. But He's a man. And men can't do what women can do. And women can't do what men can do. I just need to have both, I think, lol!

*sigh*

 

[Hooper_X]

It's been like 3 years since I've so much as kissed a woman. I miss the smell of a woman, the softness of a woman's hair, the softness of a woman's skin, the slower, more graceful movements of a woman..... I miss kissing lip-glossed lips... I miss the taste of a woman's mouth, noticing her sparkling earrings as I run my fingers through her hair...

Are you sure that you aren't a lesbian, seriously?

 

[Etoile]

Are you sure that you aren't a lesbian, seriously?

Why should she be? Bisexuality is valid.

And to tell the truth, Vixenshe, I applaud you not seeing a woman while you're in a committed relationship. I can tell from your post that it's hard, but I've always maintained that same-sex cheating is still cheating.

Hmmm. Maybe ask him to wear lip gloss? *smirk*

 

[Hooper_X]

It isn't a matter of should, it's what is or isn't. The post indicated that the poster really loves and misses women, and is enduring a hardship due to the lack of romantic involvement with a woman. So the obviously question, in the absence of any other information, is why not a woman?

I didn't mean to imply that bisexuality is invalid. The post expressed a desire for a woman, with only a vague implication of a female/male relationship. There was also a regretful tone to it. That's why I asked.

I don't understand why true bisexuals are expected to conform to a religiously based concept of monogamy. It must be hell to perpetually deny that aspect of their sexuality. Then again, I don't believe in monogamy in any real sense, so my opinion is certainly subjective.

 

[Etoile]

But there is other information. She said she's very involved with a wonderful man that she loves.

As for monogamy...I'm in a poly lifestyle myself, so I know where you're coming from. The important part, though, is that all parties should be aware of the situation. I've known too many male/female couples who have broken up because one or the other was seeing someone of their own gender "because they needed it," but without consulting their partner. My point was that same sex cheating is still cheating.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I've known too many male/female couples who have broken up because one or the other was seeing someone of their own gender "because they needed it," but without consulting their partner. My point was that same sex cheating is still cheating.

Hear, hear...which is why I much prefer poly relationships, with openess and honesty on ALL sides.

Vixie...I know what it feels like to feel an absence (or a lack) but I know things are well with you so I won't worry bout it over much.
(After all, you can call me on the phone and we can discuss these things!! ) I can't claim to miss women as I am happily ensconced with a female at this time and working on the male to that equation as well. But I know, intimately, how badly it feels when you are missing those light soft touches and sweet kisses only a lady can provide.

pet

 

[Hooper_X]

But there is other information. She said she's very involved with a wonderful man that she loves.

I responded to the primary post of this thread, in which no man is explicitly mentioned. I neglected to read the thread in its entirety

I agree that bisexuality is no excuse for duplicity. But, I also feel that people of every sexual orientation are forced to conform to an institution (monogamy) that is mainly a function of the judeo-christian desire of men to control the reproductive lives of their female relatives. If the societal pressure to force a square peg into a round hole, so to speak, wasn't so oppressive, I wonder would people lie to the extent that they do regarding their sexuality.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

To begin, pet, lovely, that avatar is breath-taking.

For those who wonder about my relationship: Yes, I am in a wonderful relationship with a Man I adore. I worship the ground He walks on, and He is much the same with me. We're best friends, and we're lovers, and we are... my best friend says we're perfect for each other. She's never liked one of my partners more.

As for women: I am allowed to play with women any time I like, as long as He knows it's happening, though He doesn't feel the need to be there. All He wants is honesty. I've had miniature romances with a few women, but none in person in the last 3 years... they were online, with hopes of meeting, but those hopes fell through. I have just not found the RIGHT woman to be with... and my problem is that, while I'd love her, HE has my heart... she can have part of it, but He owns it, and will share only so much of it. It's something of a complicated situation...

And Etoile... There has been no one that I have wanted enough to cheat on Him for... I can't imagine losing Him over something as stupid as my libido. Even though I'm allowed to be with women, I don't just want to find a lay somewhere, and put that dimension into our relationship, if it's not something that might be somewhat permanent. I don't know if that makes sense.

And in the end... while I am not another woman, I do know what I like... and often my self-pleasure is based on female-female fantasies, memories of past loves, past girlfriends, etc. So while I'm not kissing lip-glossed lips, etc, I can remember the smells and tastes... and hope that in the future, I'll get to experience them again.

 

[strawberryopera]

vixenshe, i feel you darlin.

while my situation is different, i feel the same way.

as im drawn towards my own gender, for purely sexual reasons, i find the possibility of being with a woman, so soft, smell, the beauty of a woman's touch, her skin - everything you've said, potentially gone if i pass thru this curtain...

 

[norcalman662003]

To begin, pet, lovely, that avatar is breath-taking.

For those who wonder about my relationship: Yes, I am in a wonderful relationship with a Man I adore. I worship the ground He walks on, and He is much the same with me. We're best friends, and we're lovers, and we are... my best friend says we're perfect for each other. She's never liked one of my partners more.

As for women: I am allowed to play with women any time I like, as long as He knows it's happening, though He doesn't feel the need to be there. All He wants is honesty. I've had miniature romances with a few women, but none in person in the last 3 years... they were online, with hopes of meeting, but those hopes fell through. I have just not found the RIGHT woman to be with... and my problem is that, while I'd love her, HE has my heart... she can have part of it, but He owns it, and will share only so much of it. It's something of a complicated situation...

And Etoile... There has been no one that I have wanted enough to cheat on Him for... I can't imagine losing Him over something as stupid as my libido. Even though I'm allowed to be with women, I don't just want to find a lay somewhere, and put that dimension into our relationship, if it's not something that might be somewhat permanent. I don't know if that makes sense.

And in the end... while I am not another woman, I do know what I like... and often my self-pleasure is based on female-female fantasies, memories of past loves, past girlfriends, etc. So while I'm not kissing lip-glossed lips, etc, I can remember the smells and tastes... and hope that in the future, I'll get to experience them again.

 

[Hexiegirl]

Hi Vixen! I'm in a relationship like you are, with a man who lets me be with other women with his knowledge. I also let him be with other women with my knowledge. Sharing is great but not necessary for both of us. I haven't been with a woman for a couple of years, other than just kissing my friends. I do miss it. I just can't find any women that are interested