i miss sex

[Raine82]

This is a post for everyone who loves sex and really misses having it!!! If you have any tips for me on how to get laid (who know it was so hard for an attractive, smart young woman), feel free to share. Or you can just commiserate with me!

 

[bodybuilder3]

the easiest way would be to hook up with me

 

[Stiffy Says...]

Just do yourself a favor...

don't get to missing sex so much that you have it with someone you later regret. That is one sucky situation to have to detach yourself from - trust me.

Good luck, and till you do get lucky, happy playing

 

[SweetErika]

Tips? When an average looking woman asked 100 male strangers if they wanted to have sex with her, 99 said "yes." A similar looking male got no positive responses from female strangers.

Is it really any more difficult than just asking? Probably not. However, the more selective you are, the more difficult it is obviously. What are you looking for (a relationship, or just a fuck)? Where are you looking? What kind of qualifications must the person have?

As for tips, a friend with benefits can be quite an asset (as can a collection of toys). Do you have any friends who fit the bill while you're looking?

 

[zhukov1943]

>>>When an average looking woman asked 100 male strangers if they wanted to have sex with her, 99 said "yes."

Did she actually have sex with those 99 guys? Or was she just another "cock-teaser"?

 

[Bobmi357]

>>>When an average looking woman asked 100 male strangers if they wanted to have sex with her, 99 said "yes."

Did she actually have sex with those 99 guys? Or was she just another "cock-teaser"?

I've heard about this or something similar. There have been several psychology experiements run on college campuses. And yeah, the gal didn't go to bed with the guy.

As far as the original poster is concerned, I'm curious as to why he/she is in a dry spell?

 

[Kurt_C]

This is a post for everyone who loves sex and really misses having it!!! If you have any tips for me on how to get laid (who know it was so hard for an attractive, smart young woman), feel free to share. Or you can just commiserate with me!

The best way is to learn how to communicate. Learn to read body language, learn how a woman thinks, learn how to listen, learn how to articulate your needs. You may think this is bogus, but only about 20% of people know how and only 5% are very good at it.

It is not hard you just have to education yourself, and practice it.
Those same communication skills will make oyu more successful in everything you do in life.

Next education yourself on sex.. Lit can be a great place for that.

Stop by my thread how to make love all the time, it may help.


Kurt

 

[Missingmeds]

I had a long talk with a much younger man about this very thing not so long ago. He said that he doesn't date women his age, that he only wants older women.

The reasons that he stated for this were several but two stuck out right away to me. The first, he said, was because women his own age (20) or thereabouts, didn't know what they wanted or couldn't tell him.

Then he said something that I found very insightful for someone of his age. He said that most women in his age group didn't know anything about their own bodies.

He said that he didn't want to spend the time to teach these young women about themselves. That they should have learned that long ago before they ever got to the college level of education.

Bobmi, it is good to see you posting here.

 

[hardstrokin2003]

out of all the things I miss I miss my mind the most..... sex comes in a close second!!!!!!

 

[Kurt_C]

I had a long talk with a much younger man about this very thing not so long ago. He said that he doesn't date women his age, that he only wants older women.

The reasons that he stated for this were several but two stuck out right away to me. The first, he said, was because women his own age (20) or thereabouts, didn't know what they wanted or couldn't tell him.

Then he said something that I found very insightful for someone of his age. He said that most women in his age group didn't know anything about their own bodies.

He said that he didn't want to spend the time to teach these young women about themselves. That they should have learned that long ago before they ever got to the college level of education.

Bobmi, it is good to see you posting here.

Great point!!!!

Again it is all about communication, if you can't articulate what you want or need, your lost. But there is more to it than that.

Good open non-judgemental communcation is very important:
you should be able to talk to your partner abuot anything, goals dreams, wildest sexual fantasies, fear etc... without fear. If you can do that, I'd run away. This is called trust. This is also good to tell a women, you'll be surprised on how she'll respond to that statement.

Also arm yourself with sexual knowledge. Sex is the most important part of a relationship, followed by communication (it is har to separate those two). So know your body and learn all her spot. Find her g-spot, her U-spot, her X-spot and remember that all women have these, but each is unquie in how you stimulate them. If you don't know what these spot are, you have work to do. The there is you, men can have multiple orgasms too!! How do I know this... I have them and can control them (while most of the time if i want them). What does this mean to you? You can stand hard as long as you want, and have as many orgasms as you can handle. If you can do that women will love you in bed!!

All you need to do is a few exercises and in 4 to 5 weeks oooh baby!!!

 

[Raine82]

thanks for the responses, everyone... i suppose the 99/100 positive responses among men is in my favor. too bad i can be a little choosy! well here's to hoping a good man comes along soon....

 

[teasing_tim]

thanks for the responses, everyone... i suppose the 99/100 positive responses among men is in my favor. too bad i can be a little choosy! well here's to hoping a good man comes along soon....

I'm here now

 

[sailorswife22]

Go to a bar. Scan the room. Walk up to the most attractive man, look him in the eye and say, "You're coming home with me and you won't need your pants."

Works every time.

 

[krimsonsoul]

i must say i miss the weight of a nice warm breast in my hands, the way the sway back and forth as she bounces up and down on me or grinds.

also the smell of a woman close to me the way her whole body feels next to mine. the smoothness of her skin, the warmth of it. how her mouth feels kissing and suckign on me, the tightness of a nice warm wet pussy pulling on me. the taste smell and touch\feel in general. yes its been way too long

 

[sailorswife22]

I don't miss sex. I miss making love. I miss the passion and the unexplainable desire. I miss knowing that the one I love wants to be one with me even if it's only for a moment.

 

[Bridget69]

Can't really give out any advice. I'm going through a dry spell myself.

 

[babydoll2u]

I don't miss sex. I miss making love. I miss the passion and the unexplainable desire. I miss knowing that the one I love wants to be one with me even if it's only for a moment.

I second that emotion

 

[yesYesYEsYES]

miss it....I forgot what it is

 

[Curious_Fem]

Re: Just do yourself a favor...

don't get to missing sex so much that you have it with someone you later regret. That is one sucky situation to have to detach yourself from - trust me.

Good luck, and till you do get lucky, happy playing

I have no advice on how to get laid, but I can wholeheartedly agree with this post. It is very sticky - trust me too.

Good luck, and have fun in the process.

 

[Winemaster]

getting older

I enjoyed reading the beginning of "friends with benefits"...good.
what I miss is the Passion of it....finding the person who makes your heart beat when she walks in the room and you know you will be with her...and you can't wait. I don't have any advice here it's just that I say - if you have it keep it going..unless someone is going to get hurt.