I miss cymbidia

[Guest]

She may be AWOL but not forgotten. May she return soon.

 

[Guest]

 

[MissTaken]

I miss her, as well.

 

[spankableBelle]

we weren't pals, never spoke directly to one another here or in PM...but she had a certain knowledge, as do all here that i admired...a forthrightness in her thoughts and feelings and opinions...i don't know what happened as i don't follow this board all that closely due to my own feelings about certain things and outcastdom, but i do read posts and try to contribute when i can and i miss seeing her own posts, reading of her experiences, sharing in the road that has been her submissive journey...i learn many things that way...

so, i, too, miss her...

belle

 

[Daddyslilpet]

I miss her as well. Hoping she will return

dixi

 

[WriterDom]

You could click on "report this post to a moderator" and it would end up in her mailbox. Of course, it would also go to James and RS and they might not appreciate it.

 

[Sandia]

I hope she comes back, and
I think she will.

 

[Persephone36]

I hope she comes back as well. And knows that there are so many of us that miss her involvement.

P.

 

[Titania1616]

i hope shes just gone on a much needed vacation, i miss her too. i'm kinda new, but we emailed back and forth a bit before she left. shes so wonderful, and i think her absence here left kind of a void where she should be.

 

[boz]

...., and i think her absence here left kind of a void where she should be.

Maybe she feels a void too, where she misses us,

But, there's more of us, so if you add it up, we collectively must miss her more than she misses us, 'cause there sure are a lot of us here that miss her.

 

[Titania1616]

Maybe she feels a void too, where she misses us,

But, there's more of us, so if you add it up, we collectively must miss her more than she misses us, 'cause there sure are a lot of us here that miss her.

most definately

 

[Lancecastor]

The Void.

Maybe she feels a void too, where she misses us,

But, there's more of us, so if you add it up, we collectively must miss her more than she misses us, 'cause there sure are a lot of us here that miss her.

While it is true that many of us miss her, her void may be void in some states, making it difficult to feel our voids and/or their fullness.

Some voids she feels may also be negative voids, a possibility we cant avoid...even if, like me, we wish we could.

Because, if I could avoid her avoidance, it would allow me to more properly be devoid of feelings of missing her, which, frankly, I'd like to also avoid.

So, as you might imagine, this all leaves me with a void, too.

One I'd like to fill.

I miss filling my void.

I really do.

So, I too hope she voids soon.

And avoids avoiding the void I wish I could fill.

Lance

 

[Ulyssa]

Like all of us, she has real life complications.

we weren't pals, never spoke directly to one another here or in PM...but she had a certain knowledge, as do all here that i admired...a forthrightness in her thoughts and feelings and opinions...i don't know what happened as i don't follow this board all that closely due to my own feelings about certain things and outcastdom, but i do read posts and try to contribute when i can and i miss seeing her own posts, reading of her experiences, sharing in the road that has been her submissive journey...i learn many things that way...

so, i, too, miss her...

belle

I watched cym carefully leave an inhospitable site to return to Lit when she felt her strength had returned. I was sorry to see her leave, but this is a regular occurrance in her life--the sort of thing which people enjoy labeling as drama queen stuff whether it is deserved or not.

Reality is always more and less than the words typed out in a forum such as this. Sometimes it is very difficult for mature people who try to choose their words carefully to have to deal with the slapdash, stream of consciousness juvenalia which younger minds use as substitutes for genuine communication. Wordplay for the sake of wordplay is occasionally kind of cute, but too much of it soon becomes tiresome.

Allow cym to recuperate. Send her an occasional email or PM to say something simple and/or loving. She seldom replies when she hits bottom like this, but she remembers--fondly.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: The Void.

Originally posted by Lancecastor

While it is true that many of us miss her, her void may be void in some states, making it difficult to feel our voids and/or their fullness.

Some voids she feels may also be negative voids, a possibility we cant avoid...even if, like me, we wish we could.

Because, if I could avoid her avoidance, it would allow me to more properly be devoid of feelings of missing her, which, frankly, I'd like to also avoid.

So, as you might imagine, this all leaves me with a void, too.

One I'd like to fill.

I miss filling my void.

I really do.

So, I too hope she voids soon.

And avoids avoiding the void I wish I could fill.

Lance


Sheesh, call me shallow, call me stupid----- I don't understand a word of this but I do think it is complimentary.

 

[Cirrus]

I miss her contributions, her knowledge, and her way with words. I miss her opinions and her sense of humor.

But she needs to grow up and get a handle on her emotions before she comes back. She doesn't do this board, any of us, and most importantly herself any good by getting overwrought every other day.

 

[Lancecastor]

Re: Re: The Void.

Yes, indeed, mine are complimentary words, though obtuse and playful, too.

I see no need, to reinforce Cirrus's post, to become bent out of shape as a collective over any one poster who has trouble remembering this is a Board...a place to exchange ideas....and not a life & death chain match battle royale bout for some kind of BDSM Supremacy or whatever the hell it is the people here who wig out on a regular basis are wigging out about.

That being said, I hope she is well and if and when she chooses to come back that she and her compatriots communicate in a cogently clear and welcoming way when discussing or debating, as diatribes of a personal nature will surely only result in another round of Flame-O-Ramas.

On that note, I hope it has become crystal clear that I can mud-wrestle with the best of them...that I aint leaving no matter how much baloney gets sliced, and that I'd rather nude jello wrestle with them anytime as a way to get my laughs.

Peace, out;
Lance

Originally posted by Lancecastor

While it is true that many of us miss her, her void may be void in some states, making it difficult to feel our voids and/or their fullness.

Some voids she feels may also be negative voids, a possibility we cant avoid...even if, like me, we wish we could.

Because, if I could avoid her avoidance, it would allow me to more properly be devoid of feelings of missing her, which, frankly, I'd like to also avoid.

So, as you might imagine, this all leaves me with a void, too.

One I'd like to fill.

I miss filling my void.

I really do.

So, I too hope she voids soon.

And avoids avoiding the void I wish I could fill.

Lance


Sheesh, call me shallow, call me stupid----- I don't understand a word of this but I do think it is complimentary.

 

[MotorCitySam]

I think of each member of this board as a friend and like with any friends, I recognize that sometimes they do not live up completely to their better natures. And as a friend, I forgive.
Cym was not blameless in events here, but neither was she solely responsible.
Having said that, she was a wise and caring counselor to me and I miss her presence greatly.
I believe the board will acheive it's greatest potential if each of us watchs more to our own behavior and judges that of others less.

 

[mskittykatt]

I think of each member of this board as a friend and like with any friends, I recognize that sometimes they do not live up completely to their better natures. And as a friend, I forgive.
Cym was not blameless in events here, but neither was she solely responsible.
Having said that, she was a wise and caring counselor to me and I miss her presence greatly.
I believe the board will acheive it's greatest potential if each of us watchs more to our own behavior and judges that of others less.

Very well said Sam thank you. i miss her too... and i miss the me before i had to worry about everything i said being twisted around and i miss reading peoples experiances, knowlege and play without wondering if it was safe to flirt with them, ask questions or wonder what they might have meant by a statement.

so, for me personally i am a bit more careful about what threads i choose to post to, and when i open my mouth i make sure that i mean what i say and i say what i mean.

i will be the happy kitty i was before by choosing people, places and things to involve myself with that make me purrrrr!
(we need a happy kitty icon here)

 

[Lancecastor]

Cym was not blameless in events here, but neither was she solely responsible.

I believe the board will acheive it's greatest potential if each of us watchs more to our own behavior and judges that of others less.

Yes & Yes.

Your statements are pithy, as always, Sam.

Lance

 

[Lancecastor]

so, for me personally i am a bit more careful about what threads i choose to post to, and when i open my mouth i make sure that i mean what i say and i say what i mean.

I think these are fine developments.

We could all benefit from more thinking before posting, in my view.

Lance

 

[Guest]

As a very quiet lurker in these parts, I wish cymbidia well and I hope that she will return.

 

[Mr. Bootie]

I miss Cym too, and I feel cheated.

We were supposed to go to a munch meeting together. I wanted to meet her and get together with Cym. I feel cheated. Now, another person that I know and love has left the boards because of Cym leaving. ( Lilfrk ) So Cym and Lilfrk. I love and miss the both of you. Hurry back to us. Please.

(((HUGS))) and 's



kgboot
aka "Mr. Bootie"

 

[Lancecastor]

What I really miss....

....is the volume and variety of posts to consider.

They are now fewer in number, so the brain exercise involved in assimilating the variety of thinking here is reduced.

But I don't miss the overwrought, self-absorbed, insecure picking apart of people's posts...the charges of insensitivity to some person's (unknown and/or irrelevant) past hurt during discussion of ideas....the male-bashing...the name calling....the hypocrisy inherent in page after page of *hugs to your in your time of distress* from people who are equally as quick to string together a raft of posts filled with language that would make a stevedor blush....the heirarchical cliques....the mugging and attempted programming of newbies...and the general precedence of raw, often bitter, emotion over rational discussion.

While I wish cym well and hope she's fine, I don't miss her bi-weekly blow-outs at a different man on the Board.

Hopefully, the post volume will go up and the name calling will stay at its current low ebb with fewer peaks of pique.

So, no, I don't miss cym and those who rode shotgun on her every word. If they do return I hope they'll do so with less drama and clique-ish bullshit.

In fact, I think the level of discussion here is now more intelligent and the level of rancor is sharply reduced.

So, no, for those reasons, I don't miss Cym.

Lance

 

[Persephone36]

I think the majority of the posts on this thread speak for themselves.

IMHO.


P.

 

[Persephone36]

As a very quiet lurker in these parts, I wish Cymbidia well and I hope that she will return.

OOT

Nice to see you here, Manx.

Didn't we have this conversation on the GB about coming on over to this board a few days ago, huh, huh, huh? Temptation will get you every time.

P.