FlamingoBlue
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It is just that sometimes their behavior is unacceptable to me and I move on. That was one of my major problems; seperating people from their behavior.
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What kind of behavior? What are we talking about hon?
FlamingoBlue
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There are certain behaviors that I find offensive in people. Rather than list them, when I see them in people that are important to me, I try hard to seperate the behavior from the person. If the people are not im portant, I will generally ignore them, or move on.
In the end, its called accepting people for who they are. In some cases where the people are not an important part of your life, it is very easy to do because you can put distance between you and them. In other situations, its far more difficult, eg., a sibling, a parent, your boss, etc.
As for me, I try hard to listen to what people say about my behavior. I don't always do as they ask, but I always listen. I have listened to what others have said about me on this BB and in some cases I have made positive changes. Elsewhere, when the "evil" blue gets the better of me, I backslide. I am trying, but sometimes it is very hard, paticularly when I feel attacked. That's the trial lawyer in me.
One thing about the good ole U.S.A. We have the freedom to accept or reject pretty much anything, compared to the rest of the world. That's why when I return from travelling outside the U.S., I am grateful I live here.
So, in conclusion, what was your question, Tiggs?
In the end, its called accepting people for who they are. In some cases where the people are not an important part of your life, it is very easy to do because you can put distance between you and them. In other situations, its far more difficult, eg., a sibling, a parent, your boss, etc.
As for me, I try hard to listen to what people say about my behavior. I don't always do as they ask, but I always listen. I have listened to what others have said about me on this BB and in some cases I have made positive changes. Elsewhere, when the "evil" blue gets the better of me, I backslide. I am trying, but sometimes it is very hard, paticularly when I feel attacked. That's the trial lawyer in me.
One thing about the good ole U.S.A. We have the freedom to accept or reject pretty much anything, compared to the rest of the world. That's why when I return from travelling outside the U.S., I am grateful I live here.
So, in conclusion, what was your question, Tiggs?
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Hell, don't know anymore. How 'bout a kiss hon? lol http://smilecwm.tripod.com/sally/liplick.gif
FlamingoBlue
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No more flirting, for me.
A kiss would be fine, but it would have to be chaste. I'm married, you know.
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A kiss would be fine, but it would have to be chaste. I'm married, you know.
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Awww, it's ust a lil cyber peck on the cheek. Your wife will never know. 
Hee hee hee... http://smilecwm.tripod.com/net2/love.gif
Hee hee hee... http://smilecwm.tripod.com/net2/love.gif
FlamingoBlue
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I don't think I could live with the guilt
but as long as I'm going to feel guilty anyways, why not have a cyberfuck, instead. Uh oh, I think I'm flirting. OMG, now what will become of me?
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but as long as I'm going to feel guilty anyways, why not have a cyberfuck, instead. Uh oh, I think I'm flirting. OMG, now what will become of me?
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Hee hee hee...
What's your e-mail addy hon?
What's your e-mail addy hon?
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