I like spanking - but why?

[FurryFury]

and you have such a nice ass. Just right for spanking and..........

Thank you!

*grins*

Fury

 

[kiwichyck]

Thankyou all for your replies.

Pray, please continue the discussion.

 

[raven2]

The idea of spanking arouses me - but only from the receiving end.

In contemplating a response to your question, I am imagining a guy bent over my lap...... kneeling on the bed with his rear-end presented to me..... bent over a desk..... etc.

My reaction to this mental image is extremely negative (from a personal arousal point of view). I mean no disrespect to anyone with these comments, but a guy in a submissive or vulnerable position in my bedroom would really turn me off.

That's my first reason. My second is the fact that I am just not comfortable administering pain.

I'm sorry if that sounds narrow-minded or unadventurous, but that's just the way I am.

I suppose I could imagine a situation in which we were intimate in the missionary position, and a guy told me to start smacking his rear end. But he would have to be very aggressive & commanding in his words/tone/etc. in order to overcome the negative impact on my arousal of what he was asking me to do.

I don't know if that answers your question, WriterDom. If I think of a better way to explain it, I'll let you know.

Alice

Quick Hijack..... Hi Alice. Now back to our regularly scheduled program.

 

[Heartless Bastard]

Hi kiwi. Nice subject..
To say I like spankings is a understatement.
The view and feel of someone ( ) laying over my lap her butt up so exposed to me so humble, the feeling of my hand as it strikes, the look of her butt as it gets pink. The sound of her moans and whimpers. Everything exposed open for my fingers ....mmmm. I'd have to say the ones I like to administer are more on the erotic side ending in sex usually (is that so bad?) but one for punishment has it's merits even thought I am usually thinking of diffrerent things when I think of punishment.
Yes I like them too. If you like to watch - see them as much as feel them. Check out the link to the thread in my sig.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Thank-you HB. I did as you suggested. There are some hot, hot pictures in there.

Do I like spanking? Not me.



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Hi kiwi. Nice subject..
To say I like spankings is a understatement.
The view and feel of someone ( ) laying over my lap her butt up so exposed to me so humble, the feeling of my hand as it strikes, the look of her butt as it gets pink. The sound of her moans and whimpers. Everything exposed open for my fingers ....mmmm. I'd have to say the ones I like to administer are more on the erotic side ending in sex usually (is that so bad?) but one for punishment has it's merits even thought I am usually thinking of diffrerent things when I think of punishment.
Yes I like them too. If you like to watch - see them as much as feel them. Check out the link to the thread in my sig.

 

[WriterDom]

I like spanking... pussy

 

[Blushing Bottom]

*purrrrrrrrrrrrrr*

I like spanking... pussy

 

[TameHer]

Mmmmmmm

Do I Like Spanking?? Lets see.......... HELL YES ! Strictly Sexual for me, Has nothing ot do with Punishment. Laying over my mans lap.......feel of his bare hand rubbing my ass........his fingers exploring my body mmmmmmmm I get wet just thinking about it!

 

[Guest]

Hello all

I've been lurking around here for quite some time and during my reading I've been able to face up a lot of things that scared the hell out of me.

As the title says, I like being spanked. We started with the hand, and have since experimented with a range of household items. My favourites are simple school rulers. We have a plastic and a wooden one.

Now my DH struggles with this. He feels like he needs to know the WHY. I'm confused and uncertain about this. I do like the pain (well, the sting) and the spanking is all the sweeter if he has to hold me down to deliver it. I thought it was totally a sexual thing, the sweet contrast between stinging blow against a hot tongue on my clit. Now I discover that even without the sexual contact, the spanking itself will make me dripping wet and super aroused, but I don't feel any of the recognizable sensations of arousal until the spanking stops and I am touched elsewhere.

Mainly though, I just enjoy being spanked because it makes me feel like a dirty brazen naughty hussy and nobody knows but us!

So tell me dear fellow lit'ers. Why do you enjoy being spanked?

And on another note. We are considering moving right along to floggers. I still find the idea kind of intimidating, although a couple of quick swats with a bunch of fishing nylon gave an interesting, not unpleasant feeling

Thoughts?

If you crave certain kinds of stimulation it could be telling. If as a child you loved swinging, moon walks, gymnastics, and as an older person you love roller coasters and impact sports, the more impact the better . . .

I love Sho-to-kan karate and become aroused when we spar in class. (I jump my husband as soon as I get home.) I think these things may be a part of it.

My husband says he loves my squirms and wiggles and struggles. He loves the sounds I make, and he loves how MY arousal stimulates HIS. But he also enjoys paddling my butt - it excites him, the nasty perv.

But I am curious, kiwi.

Does your DH become aroused while spanking you? I mean, does he spank you merely because he knows you enjoy it or does he enjoy the experience, too?

Because if he does become aroused, why on earth must you figure out WHY? Don't over-analyze something wonderful!

I don't worry about why I love the taste of chocolate melting on my tongue.

 

[FurryFury]

When we first started, my husband said he was doing it only for me. He didn't know or admit it turned him on. Now he does. I think some things take time and reassurance to be okay.

Fury

 

[kiwichyck]

But I am curious, kiwi.

Does your DH become aroused while spanking you? I mean, does he spank you merely because he knows you enjoy it or does he enjoy the experience, too?

Because if he does become aroused, why on earth must you figure out WHY? Don't over-analyze something wonderful!

I don't worry about why I love the taste of chocolate melting on my tongue.

Yes he does. I think the problem mainly comes afterwards when he surveys the results of his handiwork! Also, I like it a lot rougher than what I think he expected.

For example, the other night I was 'backchatting' him and he was 'subduing' me on and off over a couple of hours. 99% of the time he was 'swatting' me through my jeans. When my pants ended in disarray around my knees and he saw my very red bruised behind, he commented that it was all good until he saw it. A discussion then followed about how my arse looked a lot worse than what it felt. He still seems uncomfortable about the marks tho.

As for the analysing. Well, myself, I am quite happy to accept things for simple reasons. I like chicken cause it tastes good. I press a switch and my computer turns on, I enjoy spanking cause it turns me on. I can live with that. Hubby is an entirely different kind of person. Honestly, he can give me a list of reasons on the why and when and how he likes anything.

Truthfully I often find his need to analyse irritating, but during the last few months where we have been branching out sexually, his insistance on detailed discussion and analysis has been extremely thought provoking and helpful for me.

 

[Heartless Bastard]

Mmmmmmm

Do I Like Spanking?? Lets see.......... HELL YES ! Strictly Sexual for me, Has nothing ot do with Punishment. Laying over my mans lap.......feel of his bare hand rubbing my ass........his fingers exploring my body mmmmmmmm I get wet just thinking about it!

Are you stalking me again? Daddys gonna spank!

 

[TameHer]

LOL HB
Good MOrning Sexy man

Wherever there is a SPANKING thread, I will find it lol. Mwahhhhhhhhhh Sweety