I know it's been said before...

[Aeroil]

Not in my universe.

hehehe, but you're not around very often Netz, and the dom's certainly aren't going to keep us in line.

 

[LilyMelb]

Mmmmm, a nice thought...

I only know as a bi femsub, I've only ever played with femsubs and male Doms... but think it'd be wild to play with a male sub and his Mistress or Master... lol, don't know I'd convince my very heterosexual Dom of that, tho...

But more seriously, a female sub friend of mine says she just can't get her head around male subs - which she admits is a complete bias - but because she's a sub, she feels men should be dominant. I disagree utterly with her (the above fantasy should prove that), but I have chatted to other male Doms and one or two (only one or two thank the gods, a true minority of them) have come out with the same gender-bigotry...

I think it's because they (as with my friend) they align D/s with gender... whereas I see no relation between the fact I am a woman and I am a sub... I am both, but one does not necessarily mean the other. (I'm a feminist, for the gods sake, hehehehe... sub and feminist, go figure, lol...)

So a question here - do you male subs out there feel it is more difficult to be sub and male than it is to be sub and female? Total subjective answers are warranted with such a question...

Does my post make sense? Heh, I've had one too many sparkling wines tonight.....

Love Lily

 

[Maximumtest]

Burning Bras

So a question here - do you male subs out there feel it is more difficult to be sub and male than it is to be sub and female? Total subjective answers are warranted with such a question...

I don't see any connection really between gender and sumbissiveness... I think that went out the window when women started burning their bras back in the 60's..... my only question is why their aren't more dominant females... i'd love to be collared, caged and put into my rightful place at the Mistresses feet.

 

[Aeroil]

I don't see any connection really between gender and sumbissiveness... I think that went out the window when women started burning their bras back in the 60's..... my only question is why their aren't more dominant females... i'd love to be collared, caged and put into my rightful place at the Mistresses feet.

I think we've covered this before, it's a social pressure thing, there pretty much is no social pressure pushing women to be sexually domianant, whereas there's quire a bit pushing them away from it.

As for your question LilyMelb, there are only a few problems, one being that arere are a few biased M/f people who think that nature put them in that role and should to us too. I personally have only encountered one person like that, but it is very irritating.
The only other problem that I can think of, is of coruse being is that domme's are too rare! .