I know that I try to be as careful as possible when I do meet someone offline. But because I work long hours, its really tough to really go out there in the single world and find someone. Also, every so often I get daring and just go for it. I wish all of you luck. In so far as what is a few extra pounds, part of being careful is asking questions, i.e. looks, hobbies, etc etc. I totaly agree with the no expectations statements, thats the best outlook in situations like this good - GOOD LUCK AND BE SAFE.