I have a real question

[Kajira Callista]

*gets out the tape measure*

 

[JMohegan]

*gets out the tape measure*

Somehow you seem to always have that handy, KC....

 

[Kajira Callista]

Somehow you seem to always have that handy, KC....

s'my job ya know

 

[Etoile]

and condoms can be turned inside out and re-used.

LOL, I hadn't heard this one before. That's pretty sadistic.

As for arashi...there's nothing wrong with being a switch.

 

[graceanne]

I don't know about the rest but chocolate does make you skinny.

Yeah, but only if you eat it standing up. Cause then the calories melt into the floor. *nods*

 

[graceanne]

Nah, then u just grab the nearest person, and use them as a sheild, and pick up all the pieces of chocolate that fall on the ground, unwrap them, and eat them... And you get fat that way. soo much for skinny...

UNLESS they're struggling, in which case you have to hold em put, and *whew* what a workout

LOL I love your mind.

 

[DVS]

Yeah, but only if you eat it standing up. Cause then the calories melt into the floor. *nods*

No, that's how you get fat ankles. You must be walking, while you eat the chocolate. That will exercise the ankles and counter any of it from sticking.

As for the SS&C thing, it is universal in its purpose, although different in every application. It's purpose is to keep all play sessions safe, sane and consentual, but what is considered safe, sane and consentual is different for everybody. What a newbie might call abuse, a masochist might see as light pain.

It goes along with most everything else in BDSM...other than the basic labels of submissive, switch and Dom/me (PYL/pyl) and the purpose of safe play behind SS&C, everything else is mostly flexible. If two couples were to compare their BDSM lives, one might not be the same as the other. But, if any couple or group are happy with what's happening, that's all that's necessary.

I'm tired. Did that make sense?

 

[arashi]

So grateful!

I have no use for lies, so honestly, I really appreciate the advise and affirmation more than I can decribe. Gods bless My Mistress for her attentions, I am a stay at home mother and wife of a two year old future Dom. I tend to feel a bit cut off the world, so hearing back from you all has made my week! I have never felt so comfortable as I have since I have embraced this part of me. I am so thankful that I am not a “freak” or alone in this. Thanks for the time you all have taken to respond. I am so new to this I am not sure what else to say. Thanks again.
arashi