I have a dumb question

BT-NJ

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Though I am a bi curious white male. I do have a definate interest in black women. I just seem to have a good rapport with them. But how can I get into a relationship with one(hopefully LTR) without her getting turned off by the fact I am married(note: marriage is slowly going downhill).

It is almost like honesty is a bad thing :confused:
 
BT-NJ said:
Though I am a bi curious white male. I do have a definate interest in black women. I just seem to have a good rapport with them. But how can I get into a relationship with one(hopefully LTR) without her getting turned off by the fact I am married(note: marriage is slowly going downhill).

It is almost like honesty is a bad thing :confused:

Perhaps you should concern yourself with one issue at a time......

deal with the marriage,
then deal with the bi-curious,
then deal with the LTR

unless you deal with the first two....the last one will continue to escape you
 
BT-NJ said:
Though I am a bi curious white male. I do have a definate interest in black women. I just seem to have a good rapport with them. But how can I get into a relationship with one(hopefully LTR) without her getting turned off by the fact I am married(note: marriage is slowly going downhill).

It is almost like honesty is a bad thing :confused:

My advice: end the first relationship before you start another.
 
I think I can pretty safely say, from experience, that black women are no different than other women. LOL They are no more or less turned off (or on) by any various number of things than women of any other race.

Some black women would LOVE to get with an unhappily married, bi-curious, white male. Others would not.

While I agree with another poster and personally feel that it's best to deal with one issue at a time, if you really want to find a black woman who is has no problem with you as you are....Lit is probably the place you're going to find her! LOL

There are certainly MANY women here who actually prefer married men. I don't see why any of them couldn't be black.
 
good answer

most blk women i know only want a one man band
and they are serious about there realtionships too


good luck


Michael
 
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