i had my first bdsm related dream...

[mellian]

okay, the whole mix and match dream i had last wasn't all bdsm related, but one part was...where and a friend were subs, both topless, wearing only leather panties and a collar. well, felt like morning in the dream and we we serving a Domme while she was doing something on her laptop...

it wasn't really an entire thing, but it is sure my first such kind of dream and in it, it felt...right. definatly something i would like to experience in real life...

before finishing this post, may as well have a discussion question...have you ever had a bdsm related dream before?

-mellian

 

[evesdream]

i've had dreams that feel like yours-- not vanilla maybe transgressive, but right feeling. not much leather in mine, but a clear sense of the rapine and submissive sexual exchange that rocks my boat, lots of restraint, lots of force. Sometimes surreal freudian flourishes in case i forget that i'm dreaming about sex. non venomous vipers slithering around. volcanic gushings of bodily fluids and the like.

otherwise, i'm not sure if the dreams i have that i consider to be my mind sorting out relationship dealings, should be considered bdsm by default

Can i add some to your question? Do you consider your BDSM dreams sexual? Are they more overtly about control, service, or some other aspect?

Compared to your other dreams are they more voyeristic, or are you usually a participant in some way?

 

[InnerDarkness]

I actually had a BDSM-themed dream last night, but unfortunately can not recall most of it. I am sure it was sparked by a chat I was having right before I went to bed, but all I really remember was that I was being commanded by something, and I was focusing fully on pleasing it...that's it...dont even recall what I was doing! Grrr...hate that! And I was on my knees...I DO remember that

 

[mellian]

Can i add some to your question? Do you consider your BDSM dreams sexual? Are they more overtly about control, service, or some other aspect?

i wouldn't say the dream i had was sexual, and not the reason why i am interested in bdsm. more of the D/s relationship i am interested, to serve, to be the sub, and etc...

Compared to your other dreams are they more voyeristic, or are you usually a participant in some way?

in at least half of the dreams i ever had, i tend to be a participant in a third person view, sometime switching back and forth from first person view....like as if i am playing a comp game at times

also very rare i ever have any sexual related dream, which i tend to avoid...especially if it involves someone whom i do not see our relationship as sexual, or attracted to them for sexual reasons.

-mellian