I fucked up big time..

[just pet]

Even with the kiss, you have maintained your resolve. Would it improve your closeness with A to tell or simply soothe your conscience, being that confession is good for the soul...

 

[freakygirl]

Even with the kiss, you have maintained your resolve. Would it improve your closeness with A to tell or simply soothe your conscience, being that confession is good for the soul...

Can't I consider this thread as my confession? My soul feels better already..

I'm thinking maybe A needs to be talked to about this.. hopefully A handles this better than the last time that D started something.

*D just called.. he wanted to apologize for the kiss.. he said he wasn't thinking.. wasn't wanting it to happen. He said he respects us and our relationship (A's and mine) and he will leave me alone from now on.

 

[just pet]

Difficult situation, but it sounds as though you resolved it very well...

 

[BustyTheClown]

Difficult situation, but it sounds as though you resolved it very well...

Yeah, it sounds like it's getting a bit better. If you're feeling better and D has apologized for his actions, the only thing you have to deal with is the possiblity that A might find out about the kiss in the future. If he is violent, maybe it isn't a good idea to tell him now -- but if he finds out later, what would he do?

This really is a tough one, sweetie. I'm sorry you even have to deal with it.

 

[Cibo]

I didn't read any responses, but this is what I think.

I think you should tell A that you 2 kissed and just accept what he says or does. Because D might ask or tell A that you 2 kissed and then A will get mad and might do something bad since he is in front of D. Know what I mean?

 

[freakygirl]

i chickened out and called him.. rather than waiting until he got home from work..

He isn't mad (at me atleast).. he says he knew something was wrong because of the way I acted last night.. (I thought I acted just fine.. but he knows me all to well, I guess)

He said he knew I would do the right thing.. he is surprised it took D five years to pull this stunt..

So.. I can breath a little better now..

Thank you everyone for your advice! I can always count on you guys

 

[BustyTheClown]

i chickened out and called him.. rather than waiting until he got home from work..

He isn't mad (at me atleast).. he says he knew something was wrong because of the way I acted last night.. (I thought I acted just fine.. but he knows me all to well, I guess)

He said he knew I would do the right thing.. he is surprised it took D five years to pull this stunt..

So.. I can breath a little better now..

Thank you everyone for your advice! I can always count on you guys

Congratulations. And don't worry about "chickening out" or anything -- it takes guts to share that via any medium, I'm proud of you.

 

[ksmybuttons]

This probably isn't important, but it's "Don't ask, don't tell" -- there seems to be a slight difference between the two. Sorry if I'm splitting hairs here.

You are right, Busty. I didn't think it was that important, but I will be careful next time.

I am glad it worked out for you freakygurl32. I am sure that has taken a weight off. It has been a hard one for you lately, hasn't it? May your life ease up on you alittle.