i feel weird...

metal_minx

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i'm fairly new here and i feel pretty much like an outsider...alienated from a crowd that seems to know each other rather well. do any other newcomers feel like this? i even feel weird posting because i dont know the people.
 
metal_minx said:
i'm fairly new here and i feel pretty much like an outsider...alienated from a crowd that seems to know each other rather well. do any other newcomers feel like this? i even feel weird posting because i dont know the people.

just jump in. we'll get to know you as you get to know us. watch out for ruby though, she tends to bite ;)
 
No one will know you if you don't post so get out there and join in. Find something of interest, just hop on board. It seems a pretty crazy friendly bunch.
 
Just jump in with whatever comment you have. no big deal. promise not to rip you in to shreads. Well some of us won't anyway.
Welcome!
JB :kiss:

oh and PV... Quit changing your AV so often! I never can tell when it's you in a thread now...
 
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Just take it slow. Find a few threads that you think you could constantly post to. Also, your "what are you jammin to" thread was a good idea, in my opinion anyways.
 
Smiley777 said:
Just take it slow. Find a few threads that you think you could constantly post to. Also, your "what are you jammin to" thread was a good idea, in my opinion anyways.
thanks smiley :D
 
JailBait said:

oh and PV... Quit changing your AV so often! I never can tell when it's you in a thread now...

I got braces, and mouthwash, and a toothbrush, and toothpaste...I'm all better now
 
metal_minx said:
i'm fairly new here and i feel pretty much like an outsider...alienated from a crowd that seems to know each other rather well. do any other newcomers feel like this? i even feel weird posting because i dont know the people.


I know how you feel. Even tho' I do know a few people on the BB, I have felt the same way as you do.

There is only one cure.

To join in and start talking on the threads, as akward as that is sometimes (I feel it all the time) it just has to be done.

No one can get to know ya if you don't say anything.

Good luck, welcome to the Boards and all that good stuff.

:rose:
 
Private Vasquez said:


I got braces, and mouthwash, and a toothbrush, and toothpaste...I'm all better now

I liked the other Barbie better
 
I feel weird, and I've been here a while. Don't let it bother you. It's just that "new kid getting off the bus on the first day of school" thing. You'll be throwing spitballs at the teacher in no time.
 
Welcome to all of you who are new.

This place can seem awfully hard to break into for new people. I certainly felt that for quite some time when I first came. But, it's absolutely great, and well worth wading into.

My only advice is to not take anything here too seriously and always remember that there are real, live human beings behind these nics and avs.

Post away! And you're all welcome to PM me if you want help sorting your way through. I even cleaned out my PM box tonight so that I can get messages again.
 
Laurel said:
I feel weird, and I've been here a while. Don't let it bother you. It's just that "new kid getting off the bus on the first day of school" thing. You'll be throwing spitballs at the teacher in no time.

LOL i'm sure you're right.
 
Welcome to the schoolyard. I would be the kid who eats spiders. Howdy-doo.
 
metal_minx said:
i'm fairly new here and i feel pretty much like an outsider...alienated from a crowd that seems to know each other rather well. do any other newcomers feel like this? i even feel weird posting because i dont know the people.

Welcome to the board, and you know what, I've been here for a couple of months, and I still get that feeling. It's something you get used to.
 
metal_minx said:
i'm fairly new here and i feel pretty much like an outsider...alienated from a crowd that seems to know each other rather well. do any other newcomers feel like this? i even feel weird posting because i dont know the people.

I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I feel like that, and I have 600 fuckin posts. Some people are more popular than others. Did I get a 500 post thread? Nope, not that I wanted one.

But just post a lot and people will recognize you. If not, then be extra obnoxious and people will recognize you.
 
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