I feel violated

[SunshineGirl98]

I didn't realize my user name was asking for numerous private messages. So thanks for that piece of advice! Best wishes to you all.

 

[Adjudicator]

First off I want to say thank you to all who sent private messages welcoming me to the forum. To the respectful fellas who actually had a decent conversation without pushing your privates or your adamant offers of Skype, trading pics, dirty talk behind your partners backs, offering pictures of your privates, requesting pictures of me and basically demanding I get Skype thank you for being a gentleman. The rest of you what I call F*ckBoys please learn to be more respectful. I joined so I could participate in conversations on the forums. I'm new to the forum but not new to Lit. Within a hour of setting up my account to be able to post my inbox was flooded with requests of role play, Skype, offers of penis pics the list goes on and on. Having a penis is great. I get that your proud of it. However, most women have standards. If you wouldn't send it to your mother without her requesting a pic of it please don't send it to me. Not trying to be a asshole but jeez 156 messages in less than 24 hours? With 145 of them demanding Skype convos and asking me to perform on cam for you?!? Is this like fishing you figure if you cast your penis out to enough women at least one of us will say oh thank goodness a penis I gotta have it?!?

If you can respect that I don't Skype. I have no intention of skyping, I do not perform on cam for anyone other than the man I am married to, I have no interest in how small your penis actually is then feel free to have a conversation and send a message. If you think your gods gift to women and everyone is dying to see your private then please move along. I'm not interested.

Shut up. You've been here for three minutes. Get over yourself.

 

[Noor]

First off I want to say thank you to all who sent private messages welcoming me to the forum. To the respectful fellas who actually had a decent conversation without pushing your privates or your adamant offers of Skype, trading pics, dirty talk behind your partners backs, offering pictures of your privates, requesting pictures of me and basically demanding I get Skype thank you for being a gentleman. The rest of you what I call F*ckBoys please learn to be more respectful. I joined so I could participate in conversations on the forums. I'm new to the forum but not new to Lit. Within a hour of setting up my account to be able to post my inbox was flooded with requests of role play, Skype, offers of penis pics the list goes on and on. Having a penis is great. I get that your proud of it. However, most women have standards. If you wouldn't send it to your mother without her requesting a pic of it please don't send it to me. Not trying to be a asshole but jeez 156 messages in less than 24 hours? With 145 of them demanding Skype convos and asking me to perform on cam for you?!? Is this like fishing you figure if you cast your penis out to enough women at least one of us will say oh thank goodness a penis I gotta have it?!?

If you can respect that I don't Skype. I have no intention of skyping, I do not perform on cam for anyone other than the man I am married to, I have no interest in how small your penis actually is then feel free to have a conversation and send a message. If you think your gods gift to women and everyone is dying to see your private then please move along. I'm not interested.

This is normal for this, just start set up your pms so they can only come from contacts or your buddy list.

 

[SunshineGirl98]

This is normal for this, just start set up your pms so they can only come from contacts or your buddy list.[/QUOT

Thank you I will try to figure it out.

 

[Ishmael]

This is normal for this, just start set up your pms so they can only come from contacts or your buddy list.

Not only that, but unless times have changed those she received PM's from haven't posted anywhere. No history, just after targets of opportunity.

Ishmael

 

[Que]

Go to command post and set yourself to show invisible rather than showing when you are online. the messages you describe come from those that simply go to the list of Who's online and mass-4pm all female sounding names.

 

[KeithD]

Let's see, you picked an account name that suggests that you not only are female but are only eighteen, you posted to the Darkroom Lounge, and you're surprised you got explicit mash PMs on a porn board. My guess is that you really are only eighteen.

 

[GimpyIntellect]

Let's see, you picked an account name that suggests that you not only are female but are only eighteen, you posted to the Darkroom Lounge, and you're surprised you got explicit mash PMs on a porn board. My guess is that you really are only eighteen.

She claims to have a FWB that she has known for 20 years.

This really is a puzzling case.

 

[Ishmael]

Let's see, you picked an account name that suggests that you not only are female but are only eighteen, you posted to the Darkroom Lounge, and you're surprised you got explicit mash PMs on a porn board. My guess is that you really are only eighteen.

Translation, "You dressed provocatively so it's your own fault you were raped."

WTG guy.

Ishmael

 

[Bidin~Time]

True story: When I began here, I somehow managed to delete a whole page of PMs. (still have no idea how I did that) To this day I have no idea who they were from or the content of any of them. So I would recommend just deleting them all. Anyone worth knowing will try again.

 

[Ishmael]

True story: When I began here, I somehow managed to delete a whole page of PMs. (still have no idea how I did that) To this day I have no idea who they were from or the content of any of them. So I would recommend just deleting them all. Anyone worth knowing will try again.

But, but, you may have missed something important!

Ishmael

 

[Adjudicator]

Translation, "You dressed provocatively so it's your own fault you were raped."

WTG guy.

Ishmael

Are you going to PM her and offer your assistance? Send your digits?

 

[Noor]

I agree, become invisible, then the hundred of thousands of non-posters won't even see you online.

 

[Bidin~Time]

But, but, you may have missed something important!

Ishmael

I'm sure whatever it was, was earth-shatteringly important. But, I pulled up my big girl panties and soldiered on...somehow.

 

[GimpyIntellect]

True story: When I began here, I somehow managed to delete a whole page of PMs. (still have no idea how I did that) To this day I have no idea who they were from or the content of any of them. So I would recommend just deleting them all. Anyone worth knowing will try again.

Anyone that does the back-to-back PM move, without getting a response, has got that creepy vibe written all over them.

 

[Ishmael]

I'm sure whatever it was, was earth-shatteringly important. But, I pulled up my big girl panties and soldiered on...somehow.

There'll be books written about you. A PBS special even.

Ishmael

 

[Que]

True story: When I began here, I somehow managed to delete a whole page of PMs. (still have no idea how I did that) To this day I have no idea who they were from or the content of any of them. So I would recommend just deleting them all. Anyone worth knowing will try again.

Well that certainly explains why you did not respond with the lavish praise I am accustomed to getting from those upon whom I bestow my dick pics.

 

[thør]

No tits posted?

 

[Ishmael]

No tits posted?

Wanna see mine big boy?

Ishmael

 

[Noor]

I used to forward my unsolicited pms of that nature to my guy, not sure what he did with them but I never was bothered by them again.
Later I was told that wasn't fair, so now I have a warning in my profile.
Since I put it up I have only gotten one such post and that was just some guy wanting to see what would be said.

 

[GimpyIntellect]

I used to forward my unsolicited pms of that nature to my guy, not sure what he did with them but I never was bothered by them again.
Later I was told that wasn't fair, so now I have a warning in my profile.
Since I put it up I have only gotten one such post and that was just some guy wanting to see what would be said.

I've always wondered, noor. Who is that in your avatar? Is that you?

 

[Bidin~Time]

Anyone that does the back-to-back PM move, without getting a response, has got that creepy vibe written all over them.

There is no way i would have known, plus it was quite some time before I got anymore PMs. People still don't speak to me in PM.

It was quite literally years before I told that story here.

 

[Ellafun]

Welcome to the forum.

I'm sorry that you feel violated. If, as you say, you are not new to Lit, it might be helpful if you filled out your profile to let people know if you're just here for conversation, or if you're married, looking, that you don't Skype, don't send dick pics, etc.

although

I must admit I'm confused because you mention in your very first post here that you have a FWB, but on this thread you talk about the "man (you're) married to." (I'm not judging, I don't care, but with five whole posts I'm already confused.)

Anyway, you can turn of your PMs, you can block people, and there's always that "delete" key. Good luck in your adventures on the GB.

 

[Bidin~Time]

There'll be books written about you. A PBS special even.

Ishmael

I'm sure it's happening as we type. I am, after all, ME.

 

[KeithD]

Translation, "You dressed provocatively so it's your own fault you were raped."

WTG guy.

Ishmael

More like if the gas burner on your stove is on, it's not the brightest thing to do to stick your hand in the fire and then complain that you got burnt. Yes, there's a certain amount of taking responsibility for yourself involved and not being stupid in being an adult.