R Nitelight
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It's nights like this that I need this place the most.
I Feel So Very Lonely Tonight
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Whispersecret
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Aw, shit! Don't make me feel sorry for you.
Go write, you witty man, you. Put your brain to the test and keep your New Year's Resolution. When you've posted your story (I'm assuming you're writing an erotic story. If you're not, forgive me.), and that emailed feedback starts coming in, you'll feel anything but lonely.
Go on now. Click the X on the Literotica window and click on the big blue W (or on whatever icon your processing program is). Be strong. I, for one, really want to read your stuff.
Go write, you witty man, you. Put your brain to the test and keep your New Year's Resolution. When you've posted your story (I'm assuming you're writing an erotic story. If you're not, forgive me.), and that emailed feedback starts coming in, you'll feel anything but lonely.
Go on now. Click the X on the Literotica window and click on the big blue W (or on whatever icon your processing program is). Be strong. I, for one, really want to read your stuff.
R Nitelight
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Juliangel
I know, love. I never doubted it for an instant. But it's off for a reason. I'm not the best of company tonight. But I'll be better in the morning. I've been waiting for a night like tonight, and I'm surprised it didn't happen sooner.
Sammyjo
*HUG*
Thank you. It means a lot to me.
Whispersecret
I've been giving a lot of thought to what you've been saying, and though I can see your point on many issues, the one I have the most problem with is the personal posts. Yes, much of it could be taken off Board, and yes, that would clear up a lot of the congestion, but I also think it would take away the sense of community so many of us feel. I can throw a little pity party for myself knowing there are people who are concerned for me out there.
I don't know much about your life, but I hope you have a good one, and are surrounded by friends. I'm not. There is no one I can call up and invite over to get me out of this funk.
But I've made some wonderful friends here. They live in Texas, and Georgia, and Michigan, and Nebraska, and many other places. I'm grateful for all of them.
I know, love. I never doubted it for an instant. But it's off for a reason. I'm not the best of company tonight. But I'll be better in the morning. I've been waiting for a night like tonight, and I'm surprised it didn't happen sooner.
Sammyjo
*HUG*
Thank you. It means a lot to me.
Whispersecret
I've been giving a lot of thought to what you've been saying, and though I can see your point on many issues, the one I have the most problem with is the personal posts. Yes, much of it could be taken off Board, and yes, that would clear up a lot of the congestion, but I also think it would take away the sense of community so many of us feel. I can throw a little pity party for myself knowing there are people who are concerned for me out there.
I don't know much about your life, but I hope you have a good one, and are surrounded by friends. I'm not. There is no one I can call up and invite over to get me out of this funk.
But I've made some wonderful friends here. They live in Texas, and Georgia, and Michigan, and Nebraska, and many other places. I'm grateful for all of them.
Whispersecret
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What about IMs? Your communication speed more than quadruples, and you and your friends can all talk together at once. I don't push this ONLY for the sake of the board traffic--it truly is fantastic.
I don't think I'm surrounded by friends. I try to pick my friends carefully. Certainly few of my friends are the type with which I'd discuss sex the way I do here.
One of the reasons why I've kept my distance from you is your snide bastard persona. I find it hard to get friendly with someone who's posts make it seem as if he's sneering most of the time. It's only with posts like this that I begin to see that you have a human side. I was particularly moved to see you come to JA's defense in the "MP is a bitch" incident.
I have no idea how you are in real life. Looking at a person's posts here is definitely not an accurate gauge, but perhaps you'd cultivate more friends if you let your guard down a little and ditched the sly shit more often.
In a way, I feel like I'm finally getting to meet you.
I don't think I'm surrounded by friends. I try to pick my friends carefully. Certainly few of my friends are the type with which I'd discuss sex the way I do here.
One of the reasons why I've kept my distance from you is your snide bastard persona. I find it hard to get friendly with someone who's posts make it seem as if he's sneering most of the time. It's only with posts like this that I begin to see that you have a human side. I was particularly moved to see you come to JA's defense in the "MP is a bitch" incident.
I have no idea how you are in real life. Looking at a person's posts here is definitely not an accurate gauge, but perhaps you'd cultivate more friends if you let your guard down a little and ditched the sly shit more often.
In a way, I feel like I'm finally getting to meet you.
R Nitelight
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Whispersecret
I settled on my title quite a while ago, and it was based on a comment by another member. I've been told by quite a few people recently that it really doesn't suit me.
I settled on my title quite a while ago, and it was based on a comment by another member. I've been told by quite a few people recently that it really doesn't suit me.
Adoratrice
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I'm sorry you are lonely....it is a horrible thing to be.I know. It is worse to be surrounded by people and still feel alone.
if it is none of my business tell me so....but what pray tell are you counting down/up to???
if it is none of my business tell me so....but what pray tell are you counting down/up to???
R Nitelight
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Adoratrice
I've got someone very special in my life. She's been out of touch since December 12th, and she's due back January 14th.
My signature makes me feel a little closer to her.
I've got someone very special in my life. She's been out of touch since December 12th, and she's due back January 14th.
My signature makes me feel a little closer to her.
Adoratrice
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Thank you.....I wish her a safe and quick return to you.
R Nitelight
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Ksss
I'm trying to cut back on the threads, but it's nice to see you here tonight.
I'm trying to cut back on the threads, but it's nice to see you here tonight.
R Nitelight
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Cheri
*HUG*
Thank you, my dear. Kindness from an unexpected source is always a pleasant surprise.
*HUG*
Thank you, my dear. Kindness from an unexpected source is always a pleasant surprise.
R Nitelight
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Cheyenne
It's kinda grown on me.
It's kinda grown on me.
Dixon Carter Lee
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I think that's your new title. "I Kinda' Grow on You."
A someone who's been digging at you lately for digging on us and might be part of the reason you're not feeling well all I have to say is --- you're taking the BB way too seriously.
And THAT to a guy who's been championing silly threads.
This isn't rocket science, so don't sweat the nuts and bolts of posting etiquette. Your posts are fine. You're well liked here.
Hope you get over your funk, soon. We've all been there. Take care.
A someone who's been digging at you lately for digging on us and might be part of the reason you're not feeling well all I have to say is --- you're taking the BB way too seriously.
And THAT to a guy who's been championing silly threads.
This isn't rocket science, so don't sweat the nuts and bolts of posting etiquette. Your posts are fine. You're well liked here.
Hope you get over your funk, soon. We've all been there. Take care.
Angel
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Dixon Carter Lee said:
Yes we all have been there. I just take extended breaks from the whole thing (Message Boards, Reading, Writing, Editing etc) and just disappear for awhile. It works wonders. And I keep in contact with a few people via AIM and ICQ as to not totally lose touch.
If you need to do it, do it. But then again what's right for me, may not be right for you.
Be well.
Juliangel
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I just got the boys off for school and I am going back to bed for a little while but I wanted you to know I was thinking about you this morning. I hope you are feeling better.
I like DCL's suggestion of "I Kinda' Grow on You." but then you would get the smart mouth comments like the one that first popped into my head of "Gee I kind of hoped you would grow in me" but hey maybe I am the only one that would come up with that comment
I like DCL's suggestion of "I Kinda' Grow on You." but then you would get the smart mouth comments like the one that first popped into my head of "Gee I kind of hoped you would grow in me"
but hey maybe I am the only one that would come up with that comment 
R Nitelight
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Thank you all for your thoughts and concern, but my mood last night had nothing to do with the Board. I used to feel that way all the time before I found this place, and it's done a wonderful job of keeping the blues away.
Last night was just a case of missing someone too much, and not being able to keep it bottled up anymore.
I'm much better today, so let's have some fun.
Last night was just a case of missing someone too much, and not being able to keep it bottled up anymore.
I'm much better today, so let's have some fun.
Ambrosious
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Girls just wanta have fu-un...
And so do I, glad you aren't so funky, or in a funk, or whatever.
Mornin, bastard.
And so do I, glad you aren't so funky, or in a funk, or whatever.
Mornin, bastard.
Cheyenne
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I still like the title change idea to "I kinda grow on ya'" It really is accurate and wouldn't scare off/turn off as many people as the "snide bastard" label. Of course, this is coming from someone with "kiss my asp" as her title, so take it with a grain of salt I guess.
JadedHeart
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Nitelight,
I'm sorry you were feeling so down last night! But hey, less than a week to go! It won't be long now. As for a new title, how about something like Tiggs did. (Ravenloft's Angel) It might be a pleasant surprise for that special someone when she returns.
I'm sorry you were feeling so down last night! But hey, less than a week to go! It won't be long now. As for a new title, how about something like Tiggs did. (Ravenloft's Angel) It might be a pleasant surprise for that special someone when she returns.
