I ended a friendship of 12 years today

[Guest]

 

[Guest]

No. I usually just drift away. Or they do.

 

[Ezzie]

I had a falling out with a friend of 10 years and it ended sourly. Her and I are now working on rebuilding it. Sometimes it just takes time apart from each other before you can really appriciate someone. Just something to think about.

 

[bluespoke]

It happens. Sometimes you grow more than the friendship. It hurts but eventually you move on.

 

[crystalhunting]

she had been annoying me - nothing in partic precipitated this, in that I felt I no longer got soething about of the friendship/tme with her

and we had an argument oer something ver important to me and her WILFIL ignorance annoyed me a LOT

so, I mulled over it, and rang her today that I would no longer be contacting her, and she shouldnt contact me

I feel a bit sad, as we used to be close, but I dont feel as sad as I anticipated


anyone else ever done this?

You have friends????????????????!!!!?????



CH

 

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[bluespoke]

I have a habit of doing this

Hence I have no friends now


Just the way I like it

You need a heart to have friends.................tit!

 

[fond of facials]

Yup, I've had to. I left a friend of 6 years. When I was pregnant I was bleeding really badly (thought I was miscarrying) and instead of comforting me she went to a party. When I told her how she hurt me she told me I was making a big deal out of nothing. I never spoke to her again. It was for the better. My best friend now is always there when I need her and I'm there for her.

 

[bluespoke]

Yup, I've had to. I left a friend of 6 years. When I was pregnant I was bleeding really badly (thought I was miscarrying) and instead of comforting me she went to a party. When I told her how she hurt me she told me I was making a big deal out of nothing. I never spoke to her again. It was for the better. My best friend now is always there when I need her and I'm there for her.

Eww that's horrible. Some people just don't understand friendship.

 

[k_girl23]

I had to do it with a friend, a bestfriend whom I was inseperable with. I had a bf of a different race than myself and instead of being happy that he treated me great and I was happy she was against it because he wasn't caucasion. For me that was something that hurt alot and I couldn't believe that she was that way. we didn't talk for about a year and now we are never going to be close like we were but we talk once in awhile.

 

[ChocolateHarlot]

I'm in that situation right now. It really hurts but I see no other way to resolve things. I've been betrayed badly by her, and will never trust her again. She's been my closest friend for 8 years and I never for a second imagined that she was capable of hurting me so badly.

It sucks. But, life goes on.