bumpinthenight2022
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My wife and I are late 30s, and have been together for about a decade. She and her bestie have been friends since 3rd grade and call themselves twins, they think they look near identical, everyone sees it but me. I think my wife is more attractive than her friend, but I do acknowledge the friend is a very attractive woman. I will say though, the friend has a slightly nicer body. They both work out a lot, just have slightly different shapes and the friend has a more "bubble" butt, and she's a little more toned.
My wife doesn't dance very much, or at all really, and her friend and I have danced a few times. She's pretty good, I've gotten some innocent feels. It was in front of my wife, not a big deal to any of us at the time. Other than that, the friend and I have minimal interaction, and I can't recall that I've ever "thought" about her in that way. Honestly, for a long time I didn't like her or their friendship.
Last night, I had the most vivid dream. The three of us were in bed, the friend and I had a kinda "innocent" kiss that just turned into this really soft, amazing kiss. I'm a guy. I'm into "fucking" so imagine how intense this kiss had to be for me to feel it that way.
Anyway, the rest of the dream is what you expect. Lots of 1:1 between any three of us and lots of group sex. My dreams are generally pretty vivid, but this one was particularly strong. And I'm almost 40, WTF am I doing having wet dreams? (I didn't bust, but it's been a long time since I dreamed about sex).
Anyway, my wife wakes up, seeming particularly aroused, we kick it for a second until I have a meeting and guess who calls her?
It's times like these that I wonder if we're more connected than we know. Maybe we share dreams? Co-create them? Visit and observe? Maybe I'm just hoping the thought is in one of their heads and they're considering it (I think if one suggests the other would follow). Just kinda a weird confluence of events this AM.
I'm half tempted to suggest something. It's not really possible, we live in different states now, but you never know, we might make arrangements when we're back home or something. I know I can have a purely sexual relationship. I think sex can and should be fun/recreational. I know my wife would probably be concerned about forming attachments.
My wife doesn't dance very much, or at all really, and her friend and I have danced a few times. She's pretty good, I've gotten some innocent feels. It was in front of my wife, not a big deal to any of us at the time. Other than that, the friend and I have minimal interaction, and I can't recall that I've ever "thought" about her in that way. Honestly, for a long time I didn't like her or their friendship.
Last night, I had the most vivid dream. The three of us were in bed, the friend and I had a kinda "innocent" kiss that just turned into this really soft, amazing kiss. I'm a guy. I'm into "fucking" so imagine how intense this kiss had to be for me to feel it that way.
Anyway, the rest of the dream is what you expect. Lots of 1:1 between any three of us and lots of group sex. My dreams are generally pretty vivid, but this one was particularly strong. And I'm almost 40, WTF am I doing having wet dreams? (I didn't bust, but it's been a long time since I dreamed about sex).
Anyway, my wife wakes up, seeming particularly aroused, we kick it for a second until I have a meeting and guess who calls her?
It's times like these that I wonder if we're more connected than we know. Maybe we share dreams? Co-create them? Visit and observe? Maybe I'm just hoping the thought is in one of their heads and they're considering it (I think if one suggests the other would follow). Just kinda a weird confluence of events this AM.
I'm half tempted to suggest something. It's not really possible, we live in different states now, but you never know, we might make arrangements when we're back home or something. I know I can have a purely sexual relationship. I think sex can and should be fun/recreational. I know my wife would probably be concerned about forming attachments.
