I don't want to step on any toes

[DejaVu]

Since I'm new here, I don't want to upset anyone or cause any trouble, but I've spent some time just reading the board here and trying to get a feel of the people here.

So far, I've seen a lot about KidRock1 and SexyThang. Nothing good. I suppose my question is though, if he is as bad as everyone says, why do you bother with him at all or even answer? Also, she/it doesn't come around much, but is just as hated, probably I missed something.

So here is where I will probably get in trouble. If they are in a relationship and everyone knows, why do people send naked pictures to him and talk to him on the phone (If this is true?)?

From what I've seen, more than one person has done this. SexyThang even stated that someone who did this was married with kids?

I'm very new to the internet and not quite up on how things work, so please don't take offense. Just trying to learn the ropes.

 

[OUTSIDER]

A lot of people have learned the hard way about those two, not because their dumb but because their trusting and we might never have known had not KR1 and Sexy Thang not come on the BB to post personal info and crow about what they've done.

Part of the problem is they came here and acted all nice at first, also they have their own BB and a lot of people who will post here will also post on other BB's using the same user name there to so the flirting and the con job may have happened on another BB but KR1/ST come here to bragg because for most people this is their main BB, which is another thing that burns KR1/ST's ass cause their BB is a fucking ghost town by all accounts.

 

[Paradyce]

Well, I'm certainly not new to the internet, but I am new to this board, and as for how and why some people respond to certain threads, is beyond me... I stay FAR away from the so-called "troublemakers" only to preserve my own sanity!!

As for the two members you mentioned, I haven't seen the posts about them or by them, so I honestly can't give an opinion regarding them.

But you had mentioned about a person who is married and has kids, and you didn't quite understand why he/she would do such a thing to their spouse... In my honest opinion, everyone has a reason for the things they do on-line, and who they do it with. There could be very many reasons to that: unhappy at home, not enough/good enough sex, their partner could be involved WITH them in their "adventures"... so many reasons...

I, for one, have had my "adventures" on line, and yes, I am married, with kids, and yes, my husband wound up finding out. It truly hurt our relationship, but it only added to the trouble we already faced. (not getting into that)

I guess what I'm trying to say is, everyone is different, and each person has his/her reasons for doing what they do.

(Now that I have totally confused EVERYONE.... I now take you back to the news with Gary Gnu.....)

 

[OUTSIDER]

Frankly what two adult's be they married or not want to get up to is a matter for them and no one else,my problem with KR1/ST is that they posted other peoples personal info on the internet, and that could cause real harm also back when they were tearing up the BB they were also trying to urge another BB member to commit suicide, so you can see why I have such a problem with those two.

 

[DejaVu]

Okay

Thanks for the answers, I guess it's a little clearer now, although I am still not necessarily in agreement that it's okay to send pictures and all if you're married, but hey, to each his own.

I will keep an eye out now!

 

[Guest]

Ask bratcat.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Hey, unSexy Thang, howse the diet working?

 

[Guest]

It's funny how all of you seem to think every unregistered post belongs to KidRock or Sexything. You're unwilling to admit I could be any of the "good regulars" who post here. I was merely stating the truth. Bratcat is married, has kids, and was so desperate for an affair she invested time and effort into a relationship with KidRock, cretin of all cretins. I don't think the question you should be why KidRock and SexyThing are so fucked up, but why so many women on this board feel the need to start relationships with a jobless waste of human flesh?

 

[nasty]

I can think of only 1 reason people are so "enticed" by KR/ST's threads. Their so DAMN STUPID, their funny. He's fun to pick on.

 

[Guest]

Bumping for KM

 

[nasty]

DejaVU

If you don't wanna step on toes, WATCH WHERE YOU'RE GOING!!!!!!!

 

[*bratcat*]

IF you are a "good regular"...

 

[Guest]

Do you know who I am yet, Bratcat?

 

[KillerMuffin]

I'm not bratcat, but I'd hazard a guess. A dork?

 

[Dillinger]

Welcome to Lit.

People have their own ways of dealing with issues, other people and problems... as much here as in real life (irl).

My preferred method - most of the time - is to ignore the assholes. Online that works 99% of the time (irl its another story).

My guess as to why people respond to the KidRocks of the world is that they actually enjoy the exchange. Now, irl, there can be satisfaction in winning a debate, making your point, getting the upper hand. Online its a different story. I can have a debate with, say, KillerMuffin - we both respect each other (at least I respect her, anyway... *grin*) and we can talk issues and, even if never coming to consensus, we can walk away hopefully at least understanding more then we did before. But there are people online who are not intersted in debate... they're out to disrupt, cause trouble, or just promote their agenda with no actual interested in an exchange a dialog. Those type of people can be hard to ignore irl because they may be co-workers or family but online the EASIEST thing in the world is to just ignore them... sometimes it might take a while to determine who is worth your time (even if you don't agree with them) and who is just an out and out asshole.

What I don't understand is why, once its quite clear that someone is truly an asshole (on-line) that anyone ever bothers reading their posts or responding to them.

 

[*bratcat*]

do I care?