I don't want to do it.

sweetnpetite

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The last couple of months, for about a week before my period starts, I have no sex drive and no desire to have one. In fact, I don't want to be touched at all. I was so relieved when I got it this month-- now I've got an excuse not to do it!

I know some people get really aroused right then, but not me. I find that I have other things on my mind. My boyfriend though, I think he thinks I'm mad at him or something.

Ladies, how does your cycle effect your drive? Are you cool with it or frustrated?

PS- I'm cool with it (he's frustrated)
 
sweetnpetite said:
The last couple of months, for about a week before my period starts, I have no sex drive and no desire to have one. In fact, I don't want to be touched at all. I was so relieved when I got it this month-- now I've got an excuse not to do it!

I know some people get really aroused right then, but not me. I find that I have other things on my mind. My boyfriend though, I think he thinks I'm mad at him or something.

Ladies, how does your cycle effect your drive? Are you cool with it or frustrated?

PS- I'm cool with it (he's frustrated)

I get crazy horny right before my period. My husband thinks he's the luckiest man in the world. I am also mor einterested while I am actually on it but I have enough work to do cleaning I don't need to add sheets to the mix. Besides Hubby isn't much interested in it that time of the month.
 
I have one phase where I don't want any. Lasts about 3-4 days. Then there's the phase right after that where I just get really really pissy and touchy for a few days.

Then there's the phase where I'm a crazy slutty sex-whore, incidentally the one my boyfriend likes best. That's also when I feel like writing the most.

My boyfriend gets very frustrated with the first two phases, and I just don't like it when he gets too annoying trying to get into my pants. Otherwise, I'm pretty cool with it.
 
Fuck if I know. I'm just a moody bitch. It varies from month to month. ;)
 
I'm pretty much a horny bitch all the time, but for the week before my period, it's really insane. Neither one of my guys can keep up with me. Then the first day of my period, I'm in so much pain I can't even see straight. :( Pain again the second day, and by the third I'm OK. Hubby does not mind "playing in the mud" as he puts it, thank god. :)
 
Y' know, maybe that's my problem right now. I have no sex drive at all, and I'm about to start my period. I'll have to pay attention next month and see. I would much rather it be cuz of my period than other stuff.
 
I'm not interested in sex much at all anymore - when I have my period or not. I think it's because of the damn meds I'm on, but nonetheless, the boyfriend doesn't mind because I suppose he understands, or says he does. Besides, he masturbates and looks at a ton of porn, so he can keep himself entertained for a while before he needs me. I'm quite replaceable, I suppose. Oh well, I'm happy - he's happy - all is well.
 
I do know my horniness increases in the week before my period, and continues on a high right through it, but my cycle only seems to effect me positively. If I don't want sex it's because I'm stressed or tired, my hormones don't seem to ever not want sex! *chuckles*
 
1st half of my periods - horny as hell [unfortunately that is my heaviest]

2nd half - don't touch, sometimes don't talk or even look :D

But one thing I'm beginning to take notice of is the full moon - I think I'm the sexiest goddess ever the couple of days around it :devil:
 
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Lately, my pattern has changed. During my menstruation, I get really sexually excitable. It feels like all that added weight and pressure down there just makes me hair-trigger ready to pounce. I want to be doing it all the time...but usually wait until the last couple of days when the flow has tapered down so it's not so messy. Feels more sensitive during that time, though :D
 
As a non-partisan observer, may I make a suggestion? It would be to everyone's advantage if you discuss these feelings with your significant other. (Probably you already do.) I know that my wife has never mentioned her feelings about that time of month. The only way I know it is near is when I buy her sanitary products (I do the grocery shopping in our house).

It would have been easier for me to deal with things over the years if she had just said: walk easy around me during this time or I'll bite your fuckin' head off.

BTW, I'm currently growing a new head.
 
I want sex all the time, but right before and during my period, it goes through the roof! We don't have sex during my period, except in the shower (we both prefer it that way), so for the most part, I just go crazy wanting him and suck his dick about 2 times/day until I can have sex w/him again. :)

TMI? Oh well. :)
 
thebullet said:
As a non-partisan observer, may I make a suggestion? It would be to everyone's advantage if you discuss these feelings with your significant other. (Probably you already do.) I know that my wife has never mentioned her feelings about that time of month. The only way I know it is near is when I buy her sanitary products (I do the grocery shopping in our house).

It would have been easier for me to deal with things over the years if she had just said: walk easy around me during this time or I'll bite your fuckin' head off.

BTW, I'm currently growing a new head.
Here's hoping it's even better than the last one. :D

My husband's always been very understanding when it comes to menstrual complications. He's still a bit of a fumbler when it comes to "fixing" it or trying to make me feel better, but I appreciate his effort anyway. :)
 
AppleBiter said:
I want sex all the time, but right before and during my period, it goes through the roof! We don't have sex during my period, except in the shower (we both prefer it that way), so for the most part, I just go crazy wanting him and suck his dick about 2 times/day until I can have sex w/him again. :)

TMI? Oh well. :)
Gee, I bet he hates that a lot. :rolleyes:

;)
 
Horny as hell the day before my period starts and not interested in sex at all during. I don't feel sexy at all during my period!
 
AppleBiter said:
I want sex all the time, but right before and during my period, it goes through the roof! We don't have sex during my period, except in the shower (we both prefer it that way), so for the most part, I just go crazy wanting him and suck his dick about 2 times/day until I can have sex w/him again. :)

TMI? Oh well. :)

Now I know what I want for Christmas.

A lady as enthusiastic as AppleBiter.
 
rgraham666 said:
A lady as enthusiastic as AppleBiter.

Aw, thanks Rob. :D We're easy to find, us perverts. Just look for the quiet girl in the corner with the most innocent expression on her face. That's your phreak, right there. :devil: ;)
 
AppleBiter said:
Aw, thanks Rob. :D We're easy to find, us perverts. Just look for the quiet girl in the corner with the most innocent expression on her face. That's your phreak, right there. :devil: ;)

I guess I'll have to get out of my own corner more often then.
 
AppleBiter said:
Aw, thanks Rob. :D We're easy to find, us perverts. Just look for the quiet girl in the corner with the most innocent expression on her face. That's your phreak, right there. :devil: ;)

Barnes and Nobel is happy-phreak town goodness.
 
I might steal this for my sigline. (You could just move into my sigline, girl!)


AppleBiter said:
We're easy to find, us perverts. Just look for the quiet girl in the corner with the most innocent expression on her face. That's your phreak, right there. :devil: ;)

I used to have a keychain that said, "I'm not as innocent as I look":D
 
sweetnpetite said:
I might steal this for my sigline. (You could just move into my sigline, girl!)




I used to have a keychain that said, "I'm not as innocent as I look":D


Steal away. I'll start packing my bags. :D
 
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