Ok I have been seeing this guy for like 8 months now. It took me a long 5 months to give him a blow job. I loved it. I want to give him more but I am so scared to, I don't know if it's because he's married or what. I like him alot and I just don't know what to do. Please help me.
I dont know what to do.
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um----how about breaking up since he's married and all.
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OK yea really care bout this guy, but look at what ya revealed. the guy is married, Now its your choice and your life, so look at what your doing and see if having a relationship or starting something with a married man is a good thing. do you wanna mess up a marraige?
Now of course it isnt all you, its 50/50 he is with you as well and he can always say no. you both need to have a good talk bout the whole sitation. try hard and get some emotions out and talk, try not to be scared. cuz its important and a serious sitation.
cuz this whole sexual side of things your taling bout aint even important. The other stuff however is, and that needs to be dealt with before hand. Especially if you really care for him. Your asking for help and I think people in here would agree. I feel as though im not saying something i should, but i hope i said what i mainly wanted to say as soon as i read the post.
Now of course it isnt all you, its 50/50 he is with you as well and he can always say no. you both need to have a good talk bout the whole sitation. try hard and get some emotions out and talk, try not to be scared. cuz its important and a serious sitation.
cuz this whole sexual side of things your taling bout aint even important. The other stuff however is, and that needs to be dealt with before hand. Especially if you really care for him. Your asking for help and I think people in here would agree. I feel as though im not saying something i should, but i hope i said what i mainly wanted to say as soon as i read the post.
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Babes, what do blow jobs have to do with his marital status? The way i see it, you have two issues (at least) here.
1. Do you *want* more oral sex with him? If so, i bet you BIG money that he's willing to let you. So, just let him know that you want to suck him off. Twirl your fingers around in your hair a little while you're asking, bat your eyelashes, play sweet n' hot. Flirt. You know what i mean. Bet he "lets" you!
2. If his being married bothers you more than you can manage to ignore, then get out and find someone who is not married. If it doesn't bother you more than you can take, well, he's gonna be out roaming anyway and it might as well be with you if you're getting something good from it. Just don't try to kid yourself that he's gonna leave his wife and live happily-ever-after with you. Most married people who are out roaming intend to stay married.
1. Do you *want* more oral sex with him? If so, i bet you BIG money that he's willing to let you. So, just let him know that you want to suck him off. Twirl your fingers around in your hair a little while you're asking, bat your eyelashes, play sweet n' hot. Flirt. You know what i mean. Bet he "lets" you!
2. If his being married bothers you more than you can manage to ignore, then get out and find someone who is not married. If it doesn't bother you more than you can take, well, he's gonna be out roaming anyway and it might as well be with you if you're getting something good from it. Just don't try to kid yourself that he's gonna leave his wife and live happily-ever-after with you. Most married people who are out roaming intend to stay married.
