L0tus
The Sweet Heart
- Joined
- Jul 24, 2013
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I find bdsm very interesting and beautiful. Even though I'm not actively looking for a connection I continue to learn and experiment. There are concepts and new questions that I have formulated and would appreciate a perspective on. For forms of communication, I'm open to chatting in the thread, pms, email, skype and I can voice. With that being said, I'm not inviting "sexy talk" but discussion.
What's currently perplexing my mind?
Can someone really be no limits? What is your definition of no limits? Out of curiosity I looked up no limits in correspondence to submission and I don't really think there is such a thing. That may only be possible on an online environment where you can play out any fantasy. Even in that respect, would a lie really be fulfilling?
Here's a quite amusing comment I read on the subject:
"I always ask them, after they say they have no limits, the most outrageous things. I’ll ask them if I can use a dog’s choke chain on their neck, pierce their penis with 18G needles [yes, plural], hot brand them with my handcrafted Hello Kitty iron brand, tattoo some Spice Girls lyrics on their backs and then have my dog have sex with them. All in one play session. They usually quickly backtrack on their “No Limits” theory. Then I send them to a BDSM checklist and tell them to fill it out and return it to me.
I’ve only had one ignorant pup say he would welcome all of the above and more. So I asked him if he would marry me and give me control over his money, credit cards, bank account and tell his parents and grandparents that he likes to be f*cked by dogs. Never heard from him again, lol! ;P"
Last but not least, if there are no limits, how does a submissive build trust with a dom? In my opinion having boundaries and being able to push, stretch, and perhaps eventually having them eliminated because it's no longer a boundary, is quite an intimate and rewarding out come.
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What's currently perplexing my mind?
Can someone really be no limits? What is your definition of no limits? Out of curiosity I looked up no limits in correspondence to submission and I don't really think there is such a thing. That may only be possible on an online environment where you can play out any fantasy. Even in that respect, would a lie really be fulfilling?
Here's a quite amusing comment I read on the subject:
"I always ask them, after they say they have no limits, the most outrageous things. I’ll ask them if I can use a dog’s choke chain on their neck, pierce their penis with 18G needles [yes, plural], hot brand them with my handcrafted Hello Kitty iron brand, tattoo some Spice Girls lyrics on their backs and then have my dog have sex with them. All in one play session. They usually quickly backtrack on their “No Limits” theory. Then I send them to a BDSM checklist and tell them to fill it out and return it to me.
I’ve only had one ignorant pup say he would welcome all of the above and more. So I asked him if he would marry me and give me control over his money, credit cards, bank account and tell his parents and grandparents that he likes to be f*cked by dogs. Never heard from him again, lol! ;P"
Last but not least, if there are no limits, how does a submissive build trust with a dom? In my opinion having boundaries and being able to push, stretch, and perhaps eventually having them eliminated because it's no longer a boundary, is quite an intimate and rewarding out come.
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I do my best to answer all PMs. If I haven't replied, shoot me another. I may have missed it or didn't have sufficient time to give you something more than a three word answer.
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