I didn't answer your p.m. because.....

IDAYPM because you didn’t bother to read my profile and/ or disregarded the fact I’m clear I don’t want dms from randos and don’t wanna sext with randos
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IDAYPM because I don't prioritize replying to folks I don't know. This is doubly true if;
-you did not write a profile/bio
-your bio is unavailable
-your bio gave me the ick
-you did not engage me in any way
-you only PM when you're drunk
-you PM me super late thinking I'd be open to you sliding on into my PM's.

It is also possible that IDAYPM because
-I kind of suck at responding but it isn't personal
-I planned to and then forgot
-I'm concerned you might think I'm interested in something more than friendship and that gets awkward.
-I sent a partial response and never finished it.
-I got nervous.

Communication is hard.
 
I didn’t answer because my magic 8 ball could not provide me with an adequate answer. I just shook it and it said “please try again later.”
 
I didn’t answer probably because in some instances I hadn’t logged in for a long time and your message was really old and I didn’t want to send a message out of the blue after being gone for so long


And some I did answer and you didn’t reply back, so if you happen to send a message now, I likely would just delete it 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
But isn’t private flirting fun?
Obviously only answering from my perspective, but - if there’s a helluva lotta chemistry, yeah
But in more than two years on Lit, I’ve probably received a total of five dms from people I hadn’t chatted with in rooms or threads that made me wanna chat and flirt privately with them - that’s from a very rough guess of, what, two thousand dms from strangers?
Getting it right is hard lol
 
Obviously only answering from my perspective, but - if there’s a helluva lotta chemistry, yeah
But in more than two years on Lit, I’ve probably received a total of five dms from people I hadn’t chatted with in rooms or threads that made me wanna chat and flirt privately with them - that’s from a very rough guess of, what, two thousand dms from strangers?
Getting it right is hard lol

Hey, it’s five more than zero. 😁
 
IDAYPM becaue I must choose between 1) honesty which, in this case, may injure feelings or 2) silence

Speaking of which .....
 
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