I did make a small group thing

[Betticus]

This was a couple of weeks ago.

I went to the first ever meeting of this local BDSM group. The couple hosting were pretty cool, he's the Dom and she is his sub. There was another girl new to being submissive I guess, didn't really talk to her as I think she was just intimidated by me but she's friends with the hosts. Another male friend of the hosts and another couple that they know. So I'm the new one in the group. The wife told me that her hubby used to be in a swinging type of BDSM relationship and that she was nervous as it was her first night with a lot of new things. She's also pretty new to it. So the host was pretty experienced and I was the oldest. He and I are about the same size though so we pretty much had a lock on the sheer damn manliness. The other couple I can't quite feel out but they are married and I get the distinct impression that they are both subs or he at least is a sub around stronger males. They said to bring your own bottle so I brought a sixer of bacardi razz and a fifth of bacardi raspberry rum to mix in. It's a lot better that way. Well, the girls were lightweights and the two married ones were bi so it got interesting.

The girls were pretty much having fun making out and putting on a bit of a show but I'm so used to that going on that it doesn't phase me anymore. The other guys with the exception of the host were totally taken with it though. By the way, he works leather and makes his own floggers and whips. Damn good work too so we're talking about going down to Juarez or to El Paso and getting leather and stuff and custom making some toys. He knows I've never used the toys so when it got interesting and the girls were in the bedroom making out I got a lesson or five in spanking. He used the leather flogger and a bamboo flat cane/crop backscratcher actually, just the handle part. The other guys wife ended up on bottom and her hubby was using a dildo on her while she was being spanked/flogged. It was quite interesting to see her reactions to the spanking. Inner thighs mostly since the other girl was on top of her but the one on top got spanked with the cane and flogged across her back and ass. They both were very into it and each other. The one on bottom wanted to be tied so she got tied down to the bed spread eagle with climbing rope. Knots that tighten the more you struggle and when the dildo fucking and spanking got more intense she came over and over. She screamed like mad when she came and got flogged nice and hot pink. Both girls did.

I got to see what both the cane and flogger felt like for myself, on the arms of course. The flogger isn't bad at all but makes a nice crack when it hits you. That damn cane stings and leaves a nice mark though. The neat thing though is when the girl on bottom had enough she just said so and me and the host had the ropes off of her in just a few seconds and that scene stopped like it hit a brick wall. We had some good conversation and someone got a few seconds of me on video tape, from behind. All you can see is a big bald guy in a black shirt outside in the dark talking to a couple of girls.

The other guy and girl that aren't a couple I think are now. She got a nice hand job with a toy and then he in turn got head. I wasn't really around for that, we were in the kitchen being inobtrusive by then.

To sum up, met some really cool people and got to check out the light S&M firsthand and we will definately have to make some leather gear. It was of course really only supposed to be a casual meet and greet type of thing but just happened to get interesting.

 

[Raeth]

Dammit! I'll respond if nobody else is going to.

Sounds like a fun time in general... it's always nice when things like that just seem to happen and go a little further than planned.

Do you have any plans to see them again? I'd be curious to hear how the whole toymaking process goes.

 

[TNRkitect2b]

I'll respond also with an account of my last play party I attended, after a local munch I attend.

A bit of back story first though, I was originaly supposed to attend the munch and party with my slave, but she was unable to fly down as planned. I was still going though, and she convinced me to bring my toybag jsut in case However, the night previously, I stayed out until 5:30 am helping a classmate (I am a definte non-traditional student) celebrate his 21st b-day with a night out at the casinos.

When me made it back to town all bleary eyed, I crawled into bed, and grabbed a few hours of shut eye before heading out for Saturday's festivities.

The munch was scheduled for 11 am to 1 pm in Tupelo, but I didn't manage to wake up until 11. So off I rushed tired as could be. I almost didn't go, but I needed to stop off at Hobby Lobby and OfficeMax while I was there for some supplies for school (This is the closest Hobby Lobby to school, which sucks because of the drive) so I went and made it there around 12:20. Which was just long enough to grab a bite to eat and say hi to everyone (Though I still don't know everyone's name). I ended up leaving and heading to do my shopping right after I was done eating, as everyone else was leaving too. Not much was discussed at the munch there from what i could tell, aside from one of the people in charge of IMPACT (a dungeon in Memphis that was closed down due to zoning being changed on their neighborhood) discussing with me the concept of converting a car and RV shed into a private dungeon. (See, architecture is good for something) It turns out that I was the only person there that was going to the play party, even though I found out about the party from the Tupelo munch yahoo group. It seems there was a falling out between the moderator of the Tupelo group (who is from Memphis) and the hostess of the party a few months back. I am not privy to the details, (nor do I want to be) but on the whole I must say that I was more impressed with the play party than I have been with the munch. Anywho, I went and got my supplies and headed south to Columbus.

I found out that the drive from Tupelo to Columbus is much more interesting than the drive from Starkville to Tupelo. But I digress. I stopped off at Wally World on the way to the play party to pick up the potato salad that I was asked to bring for the cookout portion of the party.

Once I got there, I was welcomed in and introduced to everyone. I gave my normal spiel to those I was introduced to about how terrible I am with names, and apoligized for seeming so out of it (which was due to the long night prior) everyone was friendly and understanding though. I met some great people including a group that came over from Birmingham, which included two good looking redheads (a definite plus for me) The house was a very nicely decorated 1890's victorian, with 4 poster beds in all the rooms (ropes at the ready at all four corners.) The old shed in the back yard had been converted into a dungeon , and, although a bit narrow, nicely furnished. The back yard itself was fenced in with a privacy fence, and they had half of a waterfall fountain completed and operational. The place is a work in progress, but still a very nice place to visit.

Over the course of the evening, I managed to witness 4 scenes with a variety of implements used. One of the new "toys" that was being passed around for play was an electric flyswatter Harbor Freight $4.99
which was used to great effect on some of the poor subbies, much to their dismay. I was invited to watch, a couple of the more elaborate scenes later on in the evening, (which just happened to involved each of the redheads respectively) and was able to see a variety of floggers and implements used to the advantage and pleasure of all involved. I probably could have played a bit with one of the redheads, but I had early on decided that I was too spaced out mentally from lack of sleep to feel confident in my abilities to be safe.
After much discussion, I decided to head home and sleep in my own bed, rather than crashing there. It was only 25 miles, and although the concept of being treated to breakfast in the morning by one of the subbies was very enticing, (not to mention the fact that I may had had a visitor in the dark of the night) I decided that I really was worn out, and just need some sleep.

Looking back, I feel that my attitude, respect, and politeness is what led me to be accepted as safe to the rest of the guests, none of whom had met me prior to that evening. This was unlike one of the other guests, who was a older man that had given off weird vibes all evening. He will not be getting any repeat invites from what I gather, where as I am on the must invite list now

So, that was my day of depravity. I was able to relax and enjoy an evening of good food, good company, and interesting themes of dominance, submission, and S&M, in a non-judgmental, kink friendly atmosphere.

The owner of the establishment is interested in starting up a Columbus-Starkville munch to meet monthly, and has aked for my help, as I have contact with a few of the younger crowd here at school with an interest in BDSM. I think that this is a great idea, as it means a much shorter drive, plus there is a greater possibility of the new munch group to also put together some educational classes on topics of interest.

 

[shy slave]

Sounds like the parties on your side of the pond are more fun than on my side unless its just Norfolk that brings out the rudeness in people.
The munch Master and I attended (my first one ever) was not a good experience.
Master has been to a few over the years but has said we will not be going back.
two people there told Him i was welcome to attend without Him if he was busy as they felt i needed 'teaching' and they enjoy fresh meat.

In my not so mispent youth i thought clubs were a cattle market but how wrong i was.

Anyway He is looking to us attnding another munch half-way between where we both live so fingers crossed they will be fun.

 

[graceanne]

I'm scared to attend a munch. Kenny and I are in a monogomous relationship, and I keep hearing about munches that end up with someone undressed, and of people offering to 'train' some one else's sub. Kenny'd end up in a fight, I just know it.

 

[Betticus]

Dammit! I'll respond if nobody else is going to.

Sounds like a fun time in general... it's always nice when things like that just seem to happen and go a little further than planned.

Do you have any plans to see them again? I'd be curious to hear how the whole toymaking process goes.

I chatted with him earlier today. We are going to work out a good time to go to El Paso or Juarez to get leather and supplies. His work is very functional and looks good. The leatherwork on his flogger was exceptional and the handle is heavy, fully wrapped and has a heavy ball on the end as well as brass studs. Very gothic looking but the handle can be used for play too. This is meant for business.

I suppose that when we get some custom stuff done photographs will be in order.

 

[Betticus]

Wow, thanks for sharing TNR. That sounds like a much more fun area where you are. I see traveling in my future for some reason. Not necessarily up there but just because it's so dry down here.

And Shy, there will always be assholes.

I don't care where or when it is, if someone even thinks they can mess with my girl that misconception will be corrected immediately and in such a manner that there can be no further mistakes made.

 

[MastrJ]

Now I am really going to have to get off of my ass and find out what munch groups are in my area. I'm living in a pretty small town and I feel pretty cut off from the world in general unless I'm online.

Anyone happen to know of good groups in the Madison/Milwaukee areas?

 

[graceanne]

Check this out. It's a link to find most bdsm groups.

http://www.darkheart.com/usalist.html

I know it has ones for all the states in america, and I think it's got ones for out of the us.