I declare to the World, I'm in love with Cath!

mmm...c'mon, baby...

stroke my.........umm.......ego ;)


hey OUTSIDER...ouch! lol
 
Re: mmm...c'mon, baby...

Don't forget I am a fairly good amateur photographer - we've got to document this right? ;)
 
I'm not trying to troll here, though it will no doubt come out this way.

Cath, you want the people around here to respect you and to not judge you. Yet you have your cyberlovers feuding with you, proclaiming that they love you, and you carrying on intermittently about your husband and children. Most of this board defines infidelity, cheating, whatever by the spouse's reaction to the carryings on. You yourself have made it clear that yours would not approve. Some of us have a problem with this behavior because it makes us unwilling accessories to your affairs.

I don't care what you do, it's your life, fuck it up however you see fit like the rest of us. However, it would behoove you to keep shit like this private. Keep plasticman's declarations to yourself, keep koala's threats to call your husband off the board, keep KidRock's bullshit on his board, and keep your flagrant flaunting of your affairs to pms. If you want them to fight over you, find another place to do it. How do you do that? Don't encourage them.

Yeah, I know, don't like it, don't open the thread. Not easy to do when it's pasted across most of the board in a variety of threads. I avoid threads you start for the most part because I don't want to see your junk. Sometimes your junk is impossible to avoid.

No, I don't respect you. I don't particularly like you. You have no integrity and no honesty. You change your skin like a chameleon, no you don't announce that you're doing it you just whisper it, and your idea of loyalty makes you untrustworthy. How can I arrive at this judgement? Why should I even bother when it's none of my business? First, you prove it with every lover you get fighting on the boards with you. That's three now, and that's just on this BB. Second, you have a lot of people that I consider, if not good friends, than at least people who deserve to be treated with courtesy and respect. Since you don't seem to have these qualities in your own personal life, what's to make anyone else think that you're going to have them when it comes to 'Net acquaintences? What's to stop you from using them like you use your lovers?

Yeah, go ahead people, jump to *bratcat's* defense. Yes, I am well aware that she has good qualities and that she's a far nicer and friendly person than I could ever hope to be. I'm not saying that she's a bad person at all. I'm explaining why she needs to keep her shit to herself. If she can't do that, then please keep her shit confined to a few threads rather than thrown all over the board.

I'll probably regret being bitchy later, but when has that ever stopped me from speaking my mind?
 
hmmm...

Take 2 Percocet and call someone ELSE in the morning.

:rolleyes:

(edited a line cause I mentioned a name that I swore I would never bother with again...)

KM...I have no prob with you...I don't know why you feel you need to start all this shit ALL over again when this is OBVIOUSLY a joke!! jeepers creepers, woman!!

AND regarding my "lovers"

1. koalabear happened TWO years ago...if he would get over the obsession with me...then there would be no problem. He is NOT an ongoing lover...and NEVER will be in my life in any way again.

2. KIDROCK1 was a blip on my normal sane life. He also cannot leave the twice I was with him in history...

3. plasticman is a very dear FRIEND!!!

Do you people NOT have any friends of the opposite sex?? How did you feel, KM when Chey started conjuring up stories and suppositions about you and Problem Child? Were they true? NO!!!

I hope that this clears up all the confusion...good lord, people...don't you have better things to do with your time than IMAGINE my lovelife???:rolleyes:
 
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Re: Unregistered

KillerMuffin said:
Who the fuck cares how I really feel?

To tell you the honest to god truth....I can honestly declare...NOT ME!:rolleyes:
 
Re: Unregistered

KillerMuffin said:
Who the fuck cares how I really feel?

Whoa, some folks have no sense of humor at all!

C'mon, KillerMuffin, this was only started for the fun of it, there is nothing going on between Cath and I, we're just friends.

She's happily married and so am I.
 
One does get tired of the constant unregistered trolls all over people on this board bringing up things that are no one's business. One gets tired of infighting between three specific people, one of whom has nothing better to do with his mulletted life than to badger the other. One gets tired of the constant multi-thread multi-forum drama that constantly surrounds BC's love life. One gets extremely sick and tired of people who change their names without the courtesy of properly announcing it. You may have noticed how SweetCherry announced hers? That's how it's done.

I don't have a problem with you either, BC, because I don't cross paths with you very often. When I do it always involves either a mess where trolls are attacking you or you are once again thinking of changing your identity because trolls are attacking you.

Then things like this happen right on the heels of a sniping war you just had with koala. 2 years ago or not, it's still here. This is waving a red flag in front of someone's face daring them to charge.

Saying that you are "in" love with cath is a bad idea because 1) it's a lie that people are going to believe 2) it's going to get one of cath's other lovers incensed enough to fight and 3) you're not "in" love with her.

You don't wanna get trolled, then don't set yourself up as troll bait.
 
gee...I guess that means that YOU bit the hook...

AND BACK TO MY FUCKING NAME CHANGE!!!

jesus h. christ in a handbasket....


I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT ANYONE THINKS ~ IT WAS MY CHOICE ~ JUST FUCKING LIVE WITH IT!
 
Wow..that was rude.

KillerMuffin said:



No, I don't respect you. I don't particularly like you. You have no integrity and no honesty. You change your skin like a chameleon, no you don't announce that you're doing it you just whisper it, and your idea of loyalty makes you untrustworthy. How can I arrive at this judgement? Why should I even bother when it's none of my business? First, you prove it with every lover you get fighting on the boards with you. That's three now, and that's just on this BB. Second, you have a lot of people that I consider, if not good friends, than at least people who deserve to be treated with courtesy and respect. Since you don't seem to have these qualities in your own personal life, what's to make anyone else think that you're going to have them when it comes to 'Net acquaintences? What's to stop you from using them like you use your lovers?


I obviously don’t post here a whole hell of a lot..but as este can verify, i read many more than I respond to. I like cath a lot, i know her and este are close, but im not jumping to anyones defense. I just think it’s important to bring up the point that this post was rude. Yes, rude.. as in ...no manners, no couth, unwarranted. I don’t expect the same decorum here as in real life, but just as in real life some restraint and civility go a long way.

I could attack the post on the basis of all the ridiculous statements such as "unwilling accomplices to their affair" as being asinine, but I think it's very obvious without me beating a dead horse. Now, I also find it funny that in an open forum..a porn site forum no less..that it would be ok to discuss anything KM wishes to discuss as worthy, but apparently caths posts are "junk"...one mans junk is another mans treasure.....right plasticman?

It's also interesting how you seem to know how most of the board here defines infidelity, but even more interesting that you feel the need to take the moral ground on this issue. That’s your prerogative…but for god’s sake girl…look around you! Perhaps the Jerry Falwell BB would better fit your scruples.

There is one part of the post that did make my sides split a little...the part where KM derides cath for not having courtesy and respect as qualities in her own personal life. Excuse me for being politically incorrect...but isn't that the pot calling the kettle black? (That was for you marxist if your listening...lol..)

In any event, I feel anyone should be able to post anything they want. If it’s inappropriate the marketplace will view it as such. I’m not sure we need a censure to berate anyone into “keeping her shit to herself”. By the way KM, don’t mistake blunt for rude they are two different things. Your post was rude, mine may have been blunt.
 
Re: Wow..that was rude.

Southern37 said:


I obviously don’t post here a whole hell of a lot..but as este can verify, i read many more than I respond to. I like cath a lot, i know her and este are close, but im not jumping to anyones defense. I just think it’s important to bring up the point that this post was rude. Yes, rude.. as in ...no manners, no couth, unwarranted. I don’t expect the same decorum here as in real life, but just as in real life some restraint and civility go a long way.

I could attack the post on the basis of all the ridiculous statements such as "unwilling accomplices to their affair" as being asinine, but I think it's very obvious without me beating a dead horse. Now, I also find it funny that in an open forum..a porn site forum no less..that it would be ok to discuss anything KM wishes to discuss as worthy, but apparently caths posts are "junk"...one mans junk is another mans treasure.....right plasticman?

It's also interesting how you seem to know how most of the board here defines infidelity, but even more interesting that you feel the need to take the moral ground on this issue. That’s your prerogative…but for god’s sake girl…look around you! Perhaps the Jerry Falwell BB would better fit your scruples.

There is one part of the post that did make my sides split a little...the part where KM derides cath for not having courtesy and respect as qualities in her own personal life. Excuse me for being politically incorrect...but isn't that the pot calling the kettle black? (That was for you marxist if your listening...lol..)

In any event, I feel anyone should be able to post anything they want. If it’s inappropriate the marketplace will view it as such. I’m not sure we need a censure to berate anyone into “keeping her shit to herself”. By the way KM, don’t mistake blunt for rude they are two different things. Your post was rude, mine may have been blunt.

Thanks Southern, you expounded on this further than I was going to, but you did a great job in mirroring my thoughts. The reason I did not respond as strongly as I was tempted, was because I really did not see a necessity in dragging this out. Cath has been through enough of this BS. I don't totally understand the animosity that so many of these small minded people hold against her, but they have their right to their opinions. What they don't have a right to is making up things based on speculation, partial truths and misinformation and formulating personal attacks based on this.

Again thanks! Hopefully we can let this fade away!
 
Absolutely UNBELIEVABLE!!!

Originally posted by KillerMuffin

Yet you have your cyberlovers feuding with you, proclaiming that they love you, and you carrying on intermittently about your husband and children.


And you know this HOW? That sure looked like a statement of fact.
So let's see ... in your eyes, Cat is not allowed to talk about her husband and children because she has had cyber affairs? Just Cat? Or, does that rule go for everybody? And, who will enforce this rule? YOU? Are you the new Moral Moderator here?




Most of this board defines infidelity, cheating, whatever by the spouse's reaction to the carryings on. You yourself have made it clear that yours would not approve. Some of us have a problem with this behavior because it makes us unwilling accessories to your affairs.


How utterly absurd! And, are the posters in Lit also unwilling accessories to your various bad habits and oddities? Frankly, it really is NOBODY's business who fucks who or how. What is this? A posse of Holier-Than-Thous? How dare you force your moral judgements on any of us here!



I don't care what you do, it's your life, fuck it up however you see fit like the rest of us. However, it would behoove you to keep shit like this private. Keep plasticman's declarations to yourself, keep koala's threats to call your husband off the board, keep KidRock's bullshit on his board, and keep your flagrant flaunting of your affairs to pms. If you want them to fight over you, find another place to do it. How do you do that? Don't encourage them.


Once again, Cat is lambasted for doing what everybody else has the choice to do. I won't stoop to your level by dragging other names into the fray for example ... but, if it is your choice to flirt, write erotica, argue incessantly without cause, but not have cyber affairs because you feel that is an infidelity... those are YOUR choices. The problem is when you try to force your choices on someone else.




Yeah, I know, don't like it, don't open the thread. Not easy to do when it's pasted across most of the board in a variety of threads. I avoid threads you start for the most part because I don't want to see your junk. Sometimes your junk is impossible to avoid.


By all means, open the threads (you know you all love it) ... just keep your judgemental opinions to yourself ... or was it your turn in the pm hen party to make the current attack?



First, you prove it with every lover you get fighting on the boards with you.

Right ... another prime example of CAT starting a fight!




Yeah, go ahead people, jump to *bratcat's* defense. Yes, I am well aware that she has good qualities and that she's a far nicer and friendly person than I could ever hope to be. I'm not saying that she's a bad person at all. I'm explaining why she needs to keep her shit to herself. If she can't do that, then please keep her shit confined to a few threads rather than thrown all over the board.


You bet your ass, I will. You see KM, some of us who rush to her defense KNOW the history better than you do ... and, if you didn't have your head stuffed so tight up your ass, you might even have figured out by now, from some of the earlier posts, that she doesn't deserve any of this criticism. There have been numerous times that she has tried to avoid it, as well as discontinue the threads, and yet some of you just keep flaming the fires. YOU, particularly with your posts in this thread.



I'll probably regret being bitchy later, but when has that ever stopped me from speaking my mind?


Well now, THAT was an understatement!



One does get tired of the constant unregistered trolls all over people on this board bringing up things that are no one's business.


Hahahaha! OMG! Need I say more? Absolutely unbelievable!
 
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Hmmm

Well put Cherry.
I read KM's post when I ducked in here at work but did not have the privacy to do a proper response.
 
My 2 cents

Wow, I am surprised at all the outbursts . . . can't we just . . . all get along???
People, life is too SHORT to get bent out of shape. I don't think we should be judging each other . . . but be glad for each other. :)
 
I'm going to post this anonymously because I don't want to get dragged back into all the crap but I really felt there were a few things that had to be said. It is none of our business what Cath does with her life since it is her life. However, when her life gets dragged through the boards then we have a right to say what we feel without being jumped on - so KM you are within your rights to post what you feel. As others have said if you don't like what's said - ignore it. Cath - you make a habit of befriending people and then pissing them off to the point where they drag you through the mud and you always say the same thing "Why me - what did I do?" The poor little me I'm innocent routine can only work for so long. If you want people to take you seriously than stop repeating the same pattern and show others the same respect you want them to show you. Get your life in order - something tells me if you were happy in your life none of this would be happening.
 
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