I could use a friend right now

[biginaz]

Hi, I don't mean to be a downer here or anything, but I heard last week that a friend of mine passed away. She posted frequently to this board, and that is how I came to know her. It started out as purely a sexual thing. I replied to a very sexy pic she had posted, and it just continued from there. But then as we exchanged e-mails, I got to know her as a person and we became very good friends. I can truly say that I was in love with her. Even though we never met, and only exchanged e-mails, I will miss her very much. She was beautiful and sexy, and it's unfair that she was taken away from us so soon.

I'd just like to hear from anyone who thinks they can cheer me up. It doesn't have to be anything sexual, I am just so very heartbroken right now. I have a feeling that the people on this board will find something appropriate to say.

Thank you all.

 

[tight squeeze]

 

[MDcouple11]

i'm sorry to hear about your loss

 

[BirdsWife]

I am very sorry to hear you have lost someone special to you. I'm not sure what to say to cheer you up, but I will tell you the philosophy that has always comforted me in my times of grief.

We all come into contact with so many people in our lives that we cannot take the time to get to know all of them, so calling someone friend, sharing part of yourself with them, loving them, should be considered one of the most precious gifts one human being can bestow upon another.

The time you have spent learning about and caring for your friend has indelibly woven her into the tapestry of you life. She is now a part of you in ways that even you are not aware of, so as long as you are alive a piece of her and who she was will live on as well.

Now take that precious gift of love and friendship she gave you, go out into the world, and offer it to someone else. That is truly the best way to honor her memory.

 

[damnewc]

Reassurance

Some people turn to Jesus, I do not mean to be too religious here. However many people find comfort in Him when dealing with painful issues, I know I do. Once, when His guys were scared outta their wits He told them, "Don't let your hearts be troubled, trust in God, trust in me too."

Just a suggestion, take it for what it is worth.

For those who may disagree with my theology: I certainly am not trying to enflame an arguement here. If you want to argue with me, or insult me feel free to, but please do it in a PM, this guy is hurting. Also, feel free to give others suggestions and points of view, all I did was offer mine.


Hang in there man.

 

[Dumpling]

Hi there, I just stopped by to say Iam very sorry about the loss of your Friend. Time will heal the wounds,but for the present
I guess you will have to seek comfort in your Friends

 

[Succulent-one]

Very lucky

Consider yourself very lucky to have shared a part of your life with someone you can consider a true friend. They are not always easy to come by. And when we find them they are all the more special. Revel in the joy she brought you. And keep that spark and hopefully pass it on to someone else. Big hug for you!

 

[Guest]

I am very sorry to hear of your loss

I too loved someone who I had just started to become involved with when I was 21, she was 18, and it just broke my heart. I truly am sorry that you know this pain too. YOu will never get fully over, but I can assure you that as time goes on, the pain is less severea.


Feel free to be happy to have known and loved someone that made you feel so wanted, happy and loved. I think it is very important that everyone should tell the people they care about just how special important and loved they are.

I wrote this after jess died, I hope it'll help keep your eyes open to the people who love you, so you are surrounded with love and not pain.



Time...
(A poem for Jessica)

We have all the time in the world.
I thought.
I hoped.
With you
I dreamed.
I'll ask tomorrow.
Tires squealed,
A body pressed,
Windshield collapsed.
Too much time is hell. . .ask now and live.

 

[shinypenis]

Well comrade, i dont think theres anything i could say to make you feel better, you get better with time. About the only thing i can say is that we all die, as sad as it is, it is what defines us. maybe you will meet her someday when you die. My best wishes for you. take care *hug*

 

[biginaz]

Thank you all so much. When I first started posting to this board, it was mostly as a lark, you know, to look at some sexy pictures, to have cyber sex with complete strangers, things like that. Basically, I just came here looking to get off. I never thought I would meet such a good friend. We e-mailed each other often, talking about what it would be like if we met. And now, knowing that we will never get that chance, it really hurts a lot.

Thanks for all your encouraging words, though. I'm sure no one can ever replace her, but maybe I can find another friend to share the things I shared with her.

 

[Whimsical Whisper]

Just saw this thread.

I too, recently found out someone I had met online and came to love had passed away. We chatted on the phone also. Nothing sexual, other than a bit of teasing. He was a TRUE friend to me. I will never forget his voice, the songs he sang to me, the words he used to describe things where he was from.

I am deeply saddened at his loss, but I know he is at peace now. And he will always be in my heart. And no words, that I or anyone can say, can really help you. It just takes time. Don't do like I tried to do and build a wall around yourself, for fear that the same thing will happen. Because in doing this I lost a friend, that could have become a special friend.

Just remember her, the memories, can't be taken away. Though some may be bad, they still are what made your friend special to you.

Ok, I have rambled on enough.

Sending you big hugs and a little prayer.

 

[biginaz]

It's more than a week now since my beloved Chloe died, and I am truly inconsolable. She was truly beautiful and sexy. I doubt if I will ever meet anyone else like her on this board. I will never get over not being able to meet her and spend time with her.

I love you, baby.