I am thinking that I want to feel...
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No, not weird at all. Perfectly normal, IMO. In fact, that's part of why a lot of us do what we do...it's not about pain, perse, it's about sensation. Some of us enjoy pain as part of those sensations, other don't. Either way is fine and normal.
Maybe, if you haven't experimented with it, suggest some light spanking. It's easy to regulate the pressure of a hand so you can go VERY gradually harder until you get the sensation you want.
Maybe, if you haven't experimented with it, suggest some light spanking. It's easy to regulate the pressure of a hand so you can go VERY gradually harder until you get the sensation you want.
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cymbidia
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It's not odd.*bratcat* said:
It's sensation play.
We all do it, nilla and not-nilla.
We push and shove and poke and touch and use our nails and teeth and bodies to feel just the right amount.
What's "the edge of pain" to you won't be so to me, and will be different yet for Emerald_eyed and cirrus and anyone else you could name. The trick is to talk to your partner so that the "edge of pain" you want to feel or give approximately matches what they want.
Biting.
Some light spanking.
Blindfolds...trust me, while not painful, they will cause all sorts of new and fluttery sensations to occur in your brain, and so, in your pink parts.
Scratching with nails.
Gagged with a scarf. (Um. Well. You gotta have water close by cuz cloth gags suck all the moisture out of your mouth and when you take them out your mouth feels like it's drier than the Sahara for awhile.)
Tie your wrists to the headboard, or together or to your ankles. (Wrap them with a washcloth first or whatever you use might leave marks.)
There's lots of ways to get that edge without wandering too deeply into the whole forest of BDSM delights.
Pain is just a state of mind.
Honestly.
It's all relative to what you think it is.
A toothache is painful.
Rough vaginal sex?
Pierced nipples?
Being whipped with a singletail?
Making love on a rough berber carpet?
Biting hard enough to leave marks for days?
A burst appendix?
A heartache leaves no marks but we all know that's the worst pain one can feel.
Everything is relative.
Pain is too.
lilfrk
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Re: Re: I am thinking that I want to feel...
OH MY GOD!
lilfrk!
I hit the wrong key and delted your post!
I've never ever ever done that before!
I'm so sorry!
Oh no!
I mean, i mean - this is cym and i hit the wrong button and deleted lilfrk's post and inserted mine - then i saw what i'd done and changed it to this -----
i'm so sorry.
i wasn't paying attention.
y'all want me to go to Laurel and turn my mods keys in?
OH MY GOD!
lilfrk!
I hit the wrong key and delted your post!
I've never ever ever done that before!
I'm so sorry!
Oh no!
I mean, i mean - this is cym and i hit the wrong button and deleted lilfrk's post and inserted mine - then i saw what i'd done and changed it to this -----
i'm so sorry.
i wasn't paying attention.
y'all want me to go to Laurel and turn my mods keys in?
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lilfrk
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Re: Re: Re: I am thinking that I want to feel...
LOL! Blonde moment there darlin'?
It's all good I still loves ya.
lilfrk said:OH MY GOD!
lilfrk!
I hit the wrong key and delted your post!
I've never ever ever done that before!
I'm so sorry!
Oh no!
I mean, i mean - this is cym and i hit the wrong button and deleted lilfrk's post and inserted mine - then i saw what i'd done and changed it to this -----
i'm so sorry.
i wasn't paying attention.
y'all want me to go to Laurel and turn my mods keys in?
LOL! Blonde moment there darlin'?
It's all good I still loves ya.
cymbidia
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You know, lilfrk, if i ahd to do that to someone here, i'm glad it you. (Umm, i meant that as a compliment. Did it sound anything like a compliment? 
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You posted something about your liking for bites.
Then i was going to post this (hot damn! it's still in my mouse mem!):
I'm sitting on a whole bunch of them right now, lilfrk. He intended they last until he comes back from vacation...in a week.
I can't decide which is better, these or the whip marks.
Bites last longer. Getting them, him giving them to is animalistic, primal in its energy. We play very roughly, my very favorite way to play, when he's in a biting mood. I can use all my strength on him, all of it, not hold back at all, and he still always wins.
But the whip! Ah! That thrill of knowing the hot fire will come, will bite so precisely into my skin, will be nothing i dare move toward or away from or to the side of because then any injury will be my fault. It's a huge gigantic mind-fuck, the whip...and i love it for that.
Which is better?
Such choices...
Whew!
)You posted something about your liking for bites.
Then i was going to post this (hot damn! it's still in my mouse mem!):
I'm sitting on a whole bunch of them right now, lilfrk. He intended they last until he comes back from vacation...in a week.
I can't decide which is better, these or the whip marks.
Bites last longer. Getting them, him giving them to is animalistic, primal in its energy. We play very roughly, my very favorite way to play, when he's in a biting mood. I can use all my strength on him, all of it, not hold back at all, and he still always wins.
But the whip! Ah! That thrill of knowing the hot fire will come, will bite so precisely into my skin, will be nothing i dare move toward or away from or to the side of because then any injury will be my fault. It's a huge gigantic mind-fuck, the whip...and i love it for that.
Which is better?
Such choices...
Whew!
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Still waiting . . .
*bratcat* said:
LMAO...no, cym...it is kind of fun to see you posting as someone else! TWB has my password and has posted a few things as me on occasion, but we make sure they are ONLY tongue-in-cheek...I have never posted as him....yet.
Still waiting . . .
cellis
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to feel... It is all about what you feel and how you feel it... I happen to be a sensation junkie... I need to feel those sensations, the harder the better... most of the time.
The other day we were playing Himself and I, when he asked me how much I could take. I had to tell him that I really did not know, but we had in no way gotten close to it. He began to swing the new braided flogger I had gotten for him, harder and harder, until I screamed and then he stopped and asked if that was close to what I could take. Still I did not think so... I think I could take more.
He won't push anymore for a while. We will play at this level for a while. It is his pattern. Sometimes it is too slow for me, but I understand his need to care for me and not too go too far too fast.
Then I found the cane this weekend. Just a small bamboo cane, nicely polished and finished. I covered one end so that he could grip it better and it would not fly out of his hand while he was using it on me. How different that is, the cane, from a flogger. O do so like the stripes it leaves on my ass and the little bruises from the knots.
Cym, you talked about those bite marks on your ass... I went to New York with a friend last month. The night before I was to leave I was with Himself. We had discussed what I was taking with me to wear... and in the course of our play he bit me all over the inside of my thigh and knee. (I had planned to wear a short black skirt that he loves.) Needless to say that was out of the questions because of the bruises all over my knee.
When I got back he asked about the bruises and whether I had worn the skirt or not. I told him that I could not because of the bruises and he said that he had done it because he had not wanted me to wear the skirt there and because he wanted me to think of him everytime I saw my leg.
Territorial, possessive, yes he is all of those things and I am so very glad he is mine.
The other day we were playing Himself and I, when he asked me how much I could take. I had to tell him that I really did not know, but we had in no way gotten close to it. He began to swing the new braided flogger I had gotten for him, harder and harder, until I screamed and then he stopped and asked if that was close to what I could take. Still I did not think so... I think I could take more.
He won't push anymore for a while. We will play at this level for a while. It is his pattern. Sometimes it is too slow for me, but I understand his need to care for me and not too go too far too fast.
Then I found the cane this weekend. Just a small bamboo cane, nicely polished and finished. I covered one end so that he could grip it better and it would not fly out of his hand while he was using it on me. How different that is, the cane, from a flogger. O do so like the stripes it leaves on my ass and the little bruises from the knots.
Cym, you talked about those bite marks on your ass... I went to New York with a friend last month. The night before I was to leave I was with Himself. We had discussed what I was taking with me to wear... and in the course of our play he bit me all over the inside of my thigh and knee. (I had planned to wear a short black skirt that he loves.) Needless to say that was out of the questions because of the bruises all over my knee.
When I got back he asked about the bruises and whether I had worn the skirt or not. I told him that I could not because of the bruises and he said that he had done it because he had not wanted me to wear the skirt there and because he wanted me to think of him everytime I saw my leg.
Territorial, possessive, yes he is all of those things and I am so very glad he is mine.
lilfrk
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cymbidia said:You know, lilfrk, if i had to do that to someone here, i'm glad it you. (Umm, i meant that as a compliment. Did it sound anything like a compliment?
Uh huh...it did sound like a compliment. I'm not sure why you're glad it was me. But I'm glad you're glad.
I don't know which is better either, the welts that he leave behind with the leather thing of his choice or the bite marks. I'm going to go with the bite marks just because they last longer and hurt more. I like things I can feel and see I guess.
