Gilly Bean
Princess Spanky Pants
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- Aug 29, 2001
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It is my own fault, and I am ticked all to hell.
Background info first, or I get side tracked, and off the topic at hand.
For two years, my husband worked for a thing called a MUD. Basically, it is online RP chat room. More complex then that, but that is in laymens terms. Much like an online AD&D game.
He worked for two people who owned it. After much poking, and proding, he got me to FINALLY try it one night, in Feb of 2000. So, I got hooked. Loved it. Started working for those two people as well. After a few months, the wife of the couple who owned it started having alot of issues, and she was getting into a bad habit of taking it out on us. Well, not to be stepped on, we left, and started our own MUD. This was a year ago, August.
We left on more or less sticky terms. We were pleasant enough to each other, but not happy with each other. After a LONG drawn out email/mud battle over so much stuff it isn't funny, the other couple disappeared, and left us alone. Through all of this, my husband was not blamed by them for any of it. I took the full brutal assult. The woman made it no secret that I was 'evil', and a bitch, etc. Well, after they 'disappeared', things were fine, and alot calmer, and my life finally got back to normal. That would have been early in the year, probably around Feb, or March. Maybe a bit later, but I don't think so.
Well, now, she all the sudden appears again. I frequent (or used to, before this place ate up all my time) a bb made just for muds. After a problem with a player, I posted there, asking for advice, and she pops up out of no where, stating that I was the problem, not the player, and stating the old stuff all over again. In the same post, she asked my husband how he was. He responded, stating that in fact the problem had been solved, and it was the player, etc, basically standing up for me. She responding asking him to email her. He said to me, personally, that he wasn't going.
Today, I was sorting through his old email, looking through all the joke emails he gets from his dad. This is normal, and he knows that I do it. Top of the trash bin, there is an email from that woman. Not a first email, but a reply. In fact, not just a first reply, but it had 9 RE: attached to it. So, I looked a bit farther, and find out they have been talking and emailing back and forth for a week or two.
What bothers me about it is that I am the one getting attacked by her, he tells me flat out there was no way in hell he would email her, and from the looks of it, he started the emails, not her.
I am SO pissed. I had to vent somewhere, and I know he doesn't look here much. I am just so pissed, because he has never mentioned it. In fact, just a few days ago, he made a comment about how they might be starting up thier mud again, and I asked where he heard that, and he said he heard it from a few of our players. Which, after reading the emails, I find out was a blatent lie.
Gilly Bean, who is PISSED
Background info first, or I get side tracked, and off the topic at hand.
For two years, my husband worked for a thing called a MUD. Basically, it is online RP chat room. More complex then that, but that is in laymens terms. Much like an online AD&D game.
He worked for two people who owned it. After much poking, and proding, he got me to FINALLY try it one night, in Feb of 2000. So, I got hooked. Loved it. Started working for those two people as well. After a few months, the wife of the couple who owned it started having alot of issues, and she was getting into a bad habit of taking it out on us. Well, not to be stepped on, we left, and started our own MUD. This was a year ago, August.
We left on more or less sticky terms. We were pleasant enough to each other, but not happy with each other. After a LONG drawn out email/mud battle over so much stuff it isn't funny, the other couple disappeared, and left us alone. Through all of this, my husband was not blamed by them for any of it. I took the full brutal assult. The woman made it no secret that I was 'evil', and a bitch, etc. Well, after they 'disappeared', things were fine, and alot calmer, and my life finally got back to normal. That would have been early in the year, probably around Feb, or March. Maybe a bit later, but I don't think so.
Well, now, she all the sudden appears again. I frequent (or used to, before this place ate up all my time) a bb made just for muds. After a problem with a player, I posted there, asking for advice, and she pops up out of no where, stating that I was the problem, not the player, and stating the old stuff all over again. In the same post, she asked my husband how he was. He responded, stating that in fact the problem had been solved, and it was the player, etc, basically standing up for me. She responding asking him to email her. He said to me, personally, that he wasn't going.
Today, I was sorting through his old email, looking through all the joke emails he gets from his dad. This is normal, and he knows that I do it. Top of the trash bin, there is an email from that woman. Not a first email, but a reply. In fact, not just a first reply, but it had 9 RE: attached to it. So, I looked a bit farther, and find out they have been talking and emailing back and forth for a week or two.
What bothers me about it is that I am the one getting attacked by her, he tells me flat out there was no way in hell he would email her, and from the looks of it, he started the emails, not her.
I am SO pissed. I had to vent somewhere, and I know he doesn't look here much. I am just so pissed, because he has never mentioned it. In fact, just a few days ago, he made a comment about how they might be starting up thier mud again, and I asked where he heard that, and he said he heard it from a few of our players. Which, after reading the emails, I find out was a blatent lie.
Gilly Bean, who is PISSED
