I’ve chased way to much

[Sallyhansen6914]

I give up

 

[Poeticwolf]

I give up

I feel your pain

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

I feel your pain

In all honesty. Is it possible to get a man to chase you? Or is that depending on the guy? Does hard to get work? Idk

 

[Poeticwolf]

In all honesty. Is it possible to get a man to chase you? Or is that depending on the guy? Does hard to get work? Idk

I think it does depend on the guy as much as the girl. There has to be a connection of some sort for it to begin

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

I think it does depend on the guy as much as the girl. There has to be a connection of some sort for it to begin

I mean… I communicate with song. I’ve made this clear… The last time we hung out he played marry me by Jason Derulo….

It is more than friends.. but i feel like if i stopped trying he’d never even text me to check. Maybe that’s a sign to just not text him?

 

[Poeticwolf]

I mean… I communicate with song. I’ve made this clear… The last time we hung out he played marry me by Jason Derulo….

It is more than friends.. but i feel like if i stopped trying he’d never even text me to check. Maybe that’s a sign to just not text him?

Then maybe he is not worthy for you. There will be those who don't cut it. It makes the ones who do so much more enjoyable

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

Then maybe he is not worthy for you. There will be those who don't cut it. It makes the ones who do so much more enjoyable

I can agree thanks

 

[Poeticwolf]

I can agree thanks

Feel free to talk anytime if you want someone to listen. My PMs are always open

 

[Wat_Tyler]

If a guy is interested, you'll hear from him. Routinely. Not just for booty calls. That's how I behaved.


If I wasn't interested, then it was just booty calls and I was seeing at least one other person. Or I was being selfish and inconsiderate - or both.


Keep open to new possibilities.

 

[DinglyDangly]

I give up

Never give up.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

I give up

Hard to give advice with out knowing the person or situation. but perhaps a little experience.

When I was younger there was a girl who hung out with us. I got the courage to ask her out. Her reply was she wanted to date a friend of mine. she would do anything for him, He had no interest in her. She thought she was making head way when he just payed attention to her when he was horny, This is when I gave up. He treated her pretty shitty. She got pregnant and they got married. She was so happy.
I lost touch with my friend through the years. One day I'm back in the old neighborhood. I run into her. I didn't recognize her at first, she always kept herself pretty made up and dressed nice, wasn't the case that day. We talked a bit, turns out she's divorced and single. Her complaint was "No one wants to date a woman with a bunch of kid's". She also said " You were always a nice guy, How come you never asked me out ? " I literally laughed in her face. she said "What's so funny" I reminded her that I did ask her out twice and she told me she was waiting for my friend to ask her. She never denied saying that she said "Well I was young and stupid" I gave her a hug goodbye and went on my way.

You shouldn't have to chase someone, the results may not be what you really want.

 

[drobert44]

Hard to give advice with out knowing the person or situation. but perhaps a little experience.

When I was younger there was a girl who hung out with us. I got the courage to ask her out. Her reply was she wanted to date a friend of mine. she would do anything for him, He had no interest in her. She thought she was making head way when he just payed attention to her (This is when I gave up) when he was horny. He treated her pretty shitty. She got pregnant and they got married. She was so happy.
I lost touch with my friend through the years. One day I'm back in the old neighborhood. I run into her. I didn't recognize her at first, she always kept herself pretty made up and dressed nice, wasn't the case that day. We talked a bit, turns out she's divorced and single. Her complaint was "No one wants to date a woman with a bunch of kid's". She also said " You were always a nice guy, How come you never asked me out ? " I literally laughed in her face. she said "What's so funny" I reminded her that I did ask her out twice and she told me she was waiting for my friend to ask her. She never denied saying that she said "Well i was young and stupid" I gave her a hug goodbye and went on my way.

You shouldn't have to chase someone, the results may not be what you really want.

Exactly....

 

[SteamyDan]

I mean… I communicate with song. I’ve made this clear… The last time we hung out he played marry me by Jason Derulo….

It is more than friends.. but i feel like if i stopped trying he’d never even text me to check. Maybe that’s a sign to just not text him?

That is definitely a sign. You deserve better than that!

 

[KentLondon]

I'm a lifelong tennis player, so please forgive the following analogy:

Chasing women is like chasing tennis shots; the older you get you learn which ones to give up on and stop chasing.

 

[Saint_Ann]

Men rarely know what's good for them.

 

[Mike130]

I mean… I communicate with song. I’ve made this clear… The last time we hung out he played marry me by Jason Derulo….

It is more than friends.. but i feel like if i stopped trying he’d never even text me to check. Maybe that’s a sign to just not text him?

Sometimes people are shy or feel that you’re too good looking and will reject them. That was the case with my wife. She was way out of my league, too cute to ask out. She finally asked me out. We’ve been married almost 40 years and still madly in love.

 

[drobert44]

I'm a lifelong tennis player, so please forgive the following analogy:

Chasing women is like chasing tennis shots; the older you get you learn which ones to give up on and stop chasing.

Now, I just let them chase me.......at 80, I dont have much competetion.

 

[KentLondon]

Now, I just let them chase me.......at 80, I dont have much competetion.

I'm 71. Catching you up!

 

[SmokingFap]

I give up

I really should just keep my trap shut, but for those who know me, that's not my forté. But I would say that, after reading your profile and several relevant posts, you should focus on getting your head right before you worry about being with someone else. Just my one cent.

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

I really should just keep my trap shut, but for those who know me, that's not my forté. But I would say that, after reading your profile and several relevant posts, you should focus on getting your head right before you worry about being with someone else. Just my one cent.

lol couldn’t have said better

 

[SmokingFap]

lol couldn’t have said better

I'm glad you took that in the spirit it was intended.

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

I'm glad you took that in the spirit it was intended.

If it’s the truth I really can’t be bothered. I’m a pretty humble girl some might argue but I’ve learned in the end most see it.

 

[MiaBabe23]

I mean… I communicate with song. I’ve made this clear… The last time we hung out he played marry me by Jason Derulo….

It is more than friends.. but i feel like if i stopped trying he’d never even text me to check. Maybe that’s a sign to just not text him?

Maybe he would, maybe he wouldn’t
But perhaps he needs the reassurance of you trying? I think sometimes guys may be hesitant for reasons that aren’t to do with how much they like a woman, may become more so if they like her a lot
If you feel there’s a connection, is it not worth pursuing?

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

Maybe he would, maybe he wouldn’t
But perhaps he needs the reassurance of you trying? I think sometimes guys may be hesitant for reasons that aren’t to do with how much they like a woman, may become more so if they like her a lot
If you feel there’s a connection, is it not worth pursuing?

Honestly I think he might just be a self conceited two faced jerk honestly. And I don’t think that’s my bi polar coming out either

 

[Hungnasty1]

Honestly I think he might just be a self conceited two faced jerk honestly. And I don’t think that’s my bi polar coming out either

Doubtful