I’m experiencing sudden hyper sexuality. Wanted to share and talk through it with others

[Clumsy_awakening]

I’m a newcomer and I’m making my first post in effort to talk with others about my experience. I’m currently single, but have an overwhelming urge to share what’s happening to me with someone.

Short version – my libido has exploded like a horny teenager. Can’t stop thinking of sex, even things that have never turned me on before. I haven’t accomplished anything in over a week. My dick hurts and I still can’t stop.

Full version- I’m a man early 30s who I suppose you could say has been sexually repressed. Late teenage years were rough and I have been taking antidepressants for over a decade. Never had the urge to sleep around was always more concerned with companionship. Had one serious relationship that wasn’t overly sexual, but she did introduce me to a lot of kinky stuff. Just never felt like a really sexual guy. I’d get myself off here or there, but certainly not a daily concern.

The past six months I’ve made some positive lifestyle changes including no longer taking that medication. Now I think my brain chemistry caught up over the last two weeks because I cannot express the shift in my libido. I need to get off all the time not just once a week. Everything I look at reminds me of sex. I’m looking up kinky fetish stuff that I’ve never explored before. Watching porn for hours and it’s not enough. Without getting overly graphic I’ve been making a mess of myself and my clothes all day long, I need multiple showers no matter how hard I try to keep my hands off. It’s like going through puberty all over again.

Yesterday I got a headache and I realized it was because I was dehydrated. I had been on the couch cumming all day and had not drank any liquids and I didn’t even care. Chugged water went right back to my couch.

I’ve never experienced anything like this, I don’t know if it’s normal male libido or if I’m getting a certain rush because of past medication. Regardless, it’s exhilarating. I’m having fun maybe a little frightened but certainly ramping up my desire to date again.

Feel free to ask me questions or offer suggestions. I’d love to talk about this with someone

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Stay off the medication and have some fun, explore and enjoy!!

 

[AG31]

I’m a newcomer and I’m making my first post in effort to talk with others about my experience. I’m currently single, but have an overwhelming urge to share what’s happening to me with someone.

Short version – my libido has exploded like a horny teenager. Can’t stop thinking of sex, even things that have never turned me on before. I haven’t accomplished anything in over a week. My dick hurts and I still can’t stop.

At age 76 I experienced a sudden surge in libido. Nothing had happened in my life either physically or psychologically. I described the experience (which lasted many months, although diminishing in intensity) in a Reddit forum and two separate people speculated "hormonal storm," and suggested I tell my PCP. I did, but she didn't pursue it.

My own hypothesis is that I experienced an age-related breakdown in whatever regulates hormone balance and that I (a female) was experiencing an excess of testosterone. Besides intense fantasies, the physical response to those fantasies were what I've since seen described as prostate orgasms, i.e., pleasurable spasms of the large muscles in the thighs and and abdomen.

In the four years since this happened I have never found anyone who experienced anything like this.

 

[Clumsy_awakening]

At age 76 I experienced a sudden surge in libido. Nothing had happened in my life either physically or psychologically. I described the experience (which lasted many months, although diminishing in intensity) in a Reddit forum and two separate people speculated "hormonal storm," and suggested I tell my PCP. I did, but she didn't pursue it.

My own hypothesis is that I experienced an age-related breakdown in whatever regulates hormone balance and that I (a female) was experiencing an excess of testosterone. Besides intense fantasies, the physical response to those fantasies were what I've since seen described as prostate orgasms, i.e., pleasurable spasms of the large muscles in the thighs and and abdomen.

In the four years since this happened I have never found anyone who experienced anything like this.

Sounds similar! It’s quite shocking having this different sexual version of yourself suddenly show up

 

[Clumsy_awakening]

Stay off the medication and have some fun, explore and enjoy!!

Good god so much fun
It’s a Saturday and restricting myself to over the pants touching is the biggest exercise in willpower of my LIFE

 

[Clumsy_awakening]

It’s a crazy experience. I feel like a whole different person. I know I’m not that old but I feel like I have 10+ years of sexual experiences that I’ve missed out on and now I wanna catch up.

I know it has to stop so I can get back to work, but I kinda don’t want to, part of me would be ok with going broke so I can feel like this forever.

Plus I’ve never really been a gym bro, but now I’m walking around the house pumping dumbbells because all I can think about is getting women to look at me. Is this where gym motivation comes from?

 

[SoReadyNow]

Illuminating reading, people. I find myself in much the same situation; out of nowhere, bam! Sex, sex, sex! It crowds out so much else that was ever in my mind. Glad to know I'm not alone. I'm an older woman (widowed) who had a satisfying (if mostly vanilla) married sex life, but who is now conjuring up all sorts of fantasies that would never have crossed my younger mind. I'm also wagering that it's hormonally driven, and hoping it doesn't go away. I have met a few really wonderful chat partners on lit, and it's lovely. Don't know where I'd be without this outlet. Probably in jail, for rubbing up against random strangers in public! (I will confess these toe-curling sex chats only make me long for such fabulous sex IRL.)

 

[GoodnessO]

My situation is different. In my case, I describe it as reclaiming my sexuality. Letting my strong libido cum through, again, after repressing my needs for sometime.

 

[Erosfan]

Illuminating reading, people. I find myself in much the same situation; out of nowhere, bam! Sex, sex, sex! It crowds out so much else that was ever in my mind. Glad to know I'm not alone. I'm an older woman (widowed) who had a satisfying (if mostly vanilla) married sex life, but who is now conjuring up all sorts of fantasies that would never have crossed my younger mind. I'm also wagering that it's hormonally driven, and hoping it doesn't go away. I have met a few really wonderful chat partners on lit, and it's lovely. Don't know where I'd be without this outlet. Probably in jail, for rubbing up against random strangers in public! (I will confess these toe-curling sex chats only make me long for such fabulous sex IRL.)

I love this! I am a widower, seeing a widow. She had a similar life to yours. She has begun to really enjoy the kinkier side of life with me and we are having so much fun. We are acting out some of our fantasies and there is no sense of this going away. It seems like everything we do is a step toward the next thing we never dreamed of doing.

 

[SoReadyNow]

I love this! I am a widower, seeing a widow. She had a similar life to yours. She has begun to really enjoy the kinkier side of life with me and we are having so much fun. We are acting out some of our fantasies and there is no sense of this going away. It seems like everything we do is a step toward the next thing we never dreamed of doing.

Eros, I do believe I'm jealous of you both... Enjoy!

 

[SmokingFap]

I’m a newcomer and I’m making my first post in effort to talk with others about my experience. I’m currently single, but have an overwhelming urge to share what’s happening to me with someone.

Short version – my libido has exploded like a horny teenager. Can’t stop thinking of sex, even things that have never turned me on before. I haven’t accomplished anything in over a week. My dick hurts and I still can’t stop.

Full version- I’m a man early 30s who I suppose you could say has been sexually repressed. Late teenage years were rough and I have been taking antidepressants for over a decade. Never had the urge to sleep around was always more concerned with companionship. Had one serious relationship that wasn’t overly sexual, but she did introduce me to a lot of kinky stuff. Just never felt like a really sexual guy. I’d get myself off here or there, but certainly not a daily concern.

The past six months I’ve made some positive lifestyle changes including no longer taking that medication. Now I think my brain chemistry caught up over the last two weeks because I cannot express the shift in my libido. I need to get off all the time not just once a week. Everything I look at reminds me of sex. I’m looking up kinky fetish stuff that I’ve never explored before. Watching porn for hours and it’s not enough. Without getting overly graphic I’ve been making a mess of myself and my clothes all day long, I need multiple showers no matter how hard I try to keep my hands off. It’s like going through puberty all over again.

Yesterday I got a headache and I realized it was because I was dehydrated. I had been on the couch cumming all day and had not drank any liquids and I didn’t even care. Chugged water went right back to my couch.

I’ve never experienced anything like this, I don’t know if it’s normal male libido or if I’m getting a certain rush because of past medication. Regardless, it’s exhilarating. I’m having fun maybe a little frightened but certainly ramping up my desire to date again.

Feel free to ask me questions or offer suggestions. I’d love to talk about this with someone

I'm not seeing the problem here. Just enjoy yourself! Sounds like you've got a lot of missed orgasms to make up for.

 

[LittleBabyNothing]

i have regular hypersexual periods, have done for years. Look forward to the next one.
Learn to recognise it, know and control your unhealthy behaviours then you can really enjoy.

 

[neon_noodle]

Drugs affect everyone differently, but the most common descriptions of anti-depressants is that they make you not depressed by not caring anymore about pretty much anything. Your senses and emotions are subdued and muted and everything all blends in together. It's like wearing dark sunglasses inside with the lights dim.

Now you have the glasses off and the lights on, and everything is so bright and colorful, and oh those tits are so big and bouncy and those legs and now you need to go jack off for hours. Then do it all again.

Your body is being exposed to all the stimuli of life, and sex, and it's gonna take a bit of time for you to adjust, and get bored with it all, like the rest of us (usually) are.

Don't worry too much about it, just express enough self control and professionalism not to do anything that'll make you look like a fool or pervert, and enjoy the new feelings.

 

[liqueur]

I’m a newcomer and I’m making my first post in effort to talk with others about my experience. I’m currently single, but have an overwhelming urge to share what’s happening to me with someone.

Short version – my libido has exploded like a horny teenager. Can’t stop thinking of sex, even things that have never turned me on before. I haven’t accomplished anything in over a week. My dick hurts and I still can’t stop.

Full version- I’m a man early 30s who I suppose you could say has been sexually repressed. Late teenage years were rough and I have been taking antidepressants for over a decade. Never had the urge to sleep around was always more concerned with companionship. Had one serious relationship that wasn’t overly sexual, but she did introduce me to a lot of kinky stuff. Just never felt like a really sexual guy. I’d get myself off here or there, but certainly not a daily concern.

The past six months I’ve made some positive lifestyle changes including no longer taking that medication. Now I think my brain chemistry caught up over the last two weeks because I cannot express the shift in my libido. I need to get off all the time not just once a week. Everything I look at reminds me of sex. I’m looking up kinky fetish stuff that I’ve never explored before. Watching porn for hours and it’s not enough. Without getting overly graphic I’ve been making a mess of myself and my clothes all day long, I need multiple showers no matter how hard I try to keep my hands off. It’s like going through puberty all over again.

Yesterday I got a headache and I realized it was because I was dehydrated. I had been on the couch cumming all day and had not drank any liquids and I didn’t even care. Chugged water went right back to my couch.

I’ve never experienced anything like this, I don’t know if it’s normal male libido or if I’m getting a certain rush because of past medication. Regardless, it’s exhilarating. I’m having fun maybe a little frightened but certainly ramping up my desire to date again.

Feel free to ask me questions or offer suggestions. I’d love to talk about this with someone

Many antidepressants (possibly most, I don't know, I've never made a study of it) suppress libido, or even cause erectile dysfunction. Something doctors don't tell you, or at least mine didn't as the time I was on Prozac. And it's not exactly a life-affirming experience. I'm glad you were able to get off them, and I'm glad you're able to get off! Have fun.

 

[Erosfan]

Eros, I do believe I'm jealous of you both... Enjoy!

Thank you, SRN. We are having so much fun. One of our frequent conversations is about how surprised we are, to be the way we are at this late stage in life! Neither of us ever dreamed we would be living our lives like we are and we constantly surprise ourselves. We are living the dream!

 

[liqueur]

the most common descriptions of anti-depressants is that they make you not depressed by not caring anymore about pretty much anything.

This! This was exactly my experience when I was on Prozac. And I did some real damage, not only to myself but to others around me, because I lost all empathy, which is normally a major aspect of my personality. I went off the drug cold turkey after 4 years, when I finally realized what was happening (I only dimly realized, until the lasting affects were well out of my system)

 

[Beholders_Eye]

Many antidepressants (possibly most, I don't know, I've never made a study of it) suppress libido, or even cause erectile dysfunction. Something doctors don't tell you, or at least mine didn't as the time I was on Prozac. And it's not exactly a life-affirming experience. I'm glad you were able to get off them, and I'm glad you're able to get off! Have fun.

My own experience may be of interest. I have required antidepressants for many years. One of them was Paxil (paroxetine). About 9 years ago, my psychiatrist recommended discontinuing the Paxil because as I have aged, my needs changed. I weaned off gradually, but when I stopped the Paxil, two things happened, rather quickly. One was that I lost about 20 pounds; going off the Paxil reduced my appetite and the result was good.

The other thing that happened was that my libido, which had been pretty much absent, returned like a freight train coming down the pike! I can identify with that term hyper-sexuality. And that has continued, or even increased since then. I am also in the later stages of life, so the feelings and desires have been most welcome.

Not intending to recommend medication changes to anyone because everyone's situation is their own. But that was my experience.

PS I do take another antidepressant which does not have the libido-suppressing effect on me. I am in a good place in this regard. Sex and sanity.

 

[GoodnessO]

I’m a newcomer and I’m making my first post in effort to talk with others about my experience. I’m currently single, but have an overwhelming urge to share what’s happening to me with someone.

Short version – my libido has exploded like a horny teenager. Can’t stop thinking of sex, even things that have never turned me on before. I haven’t accomplished anything in over a week. My dick hurts and I still can’t stop.

Full version- I’m a man early 30s who I suppose you could say has been sexually repressed. Late teenage years were rough and I have been taking antidepressants for over a decade. Never had the urge to sleep around was always more concerned with companionship. Had one serious relationship that wasn’t overly sexual, but she did introduce me to a lot of kinky stuff. Just never felt like a really sexual guy. I’d get myself off here or there, but certainly not a daily concern.

The past six months I’ve made some positive lifestyle changes including no longer taking that medication. Now I think my brain chemistry caught up over the last two weeks because I cannot express the shift in my libido. I need to get off all the time not just once a week. Everything I look at reminds me of sex. I’m looking up kinky fetish stuff that I’ve never explored before. Watching porn for hours and it’s not enough. Without getting overly graphic I’ve been making a mess of myself and my clothes all day long, I need multiple showers no matter how hard I try to keep my hands off. It’s like going through puberty all over again.

Yesterday I got a headache and I realized it was because I was dehydrated. I had been on the couch cumming all day and had not drank any liquids and I didn’t even care. Chugged water went right back to my couch.

I’ve never experienced anything like this, I don’t know if it’s normal male libido or if I’m getting a certain rush because of past medication. Regardless, it’s exhilarating. I’m having fun maybe a little frightened but certainly ramping up my desire to date again.

Feel free to ask me questions or offer suggestions. I’d love to talk about this with someone

My suggestion: Populate your profile, & include the general area where you're located... maybe you'll pickup some company here .

 

[OddLove]

I get hypersexual when get manic episodes. So if you start doing really 'out of character' things like having unsafe sex with strangers, trying drugs or alcohol you normally wouldn't, start spending a lot of money, or doing other risky stuff, google bipolar symptoms and maybe even ask them dirty white coat nerds with the clipboards about it.

I only mention it cause it's common for mood disorders to shift up a few gears around 25 to 35, although sometimes can happen much later in life also. And people with mild mood disorder could just experience 'hypomania' instead of full blown mania many times. And since it feels nice to have hypomania for most people, they only go see a doctor when there mood swings low, never when it's high. Which is why depression is the most commonly misdiagnosed mental problem people with Bipolar receive.

But if that's not happening, which statistically, it's most likely not since bipolar is very uncommon... just enjoy the new sex drive lol maybe it's something you just need to adjust to over time.

 

[Thin59]

I’m a newcomer and I’m making my first post in effort to talk with others about my experience. I’m currently single, but have an overwhelming urge to share what’s happening to me with someone.

Short version – my libido has exploded like a horny teenager. Can’t stop thinking of sex, even things that have never turned me on before. I haven’t accomplished anything in over a week. My dick hurts and I still can’t stop.

Full version- I’m a man early 30s who I suppose you could say has been sexually repressed. Late teenage years were rough and I have been taking antidepressants for over a decade. Never had the urge to sleep around was always more concerned with companionship. Had one serious relationship that wasn’t overly sexual, but she did introduce me to a lot of kinky stuff. Just never felt like a really sexual guy. I’d get myself off here or there, but certainly not a daily concern.

The past six months I’ve made some positive lifestyle changes including no longer taking that medication. Now I think my brain chemistry caught up over the last two weeks because I cannot express the shift in my libido. I need to get off all the time not just once a week. Everything I look at reminds me of sex. I’m looking up kinky fetish stuff that I’ve never explored before. Watching porn for hours and it’s not enough. Without getting overly graphic I’ve been making a mess of myself and my clothes all day long, I need multiple showers no matter how hard I try to keep my hands off. It’s like going through puberty all over again.

Yesterday I got a headache and I realized it was because I was dehydrated. I had been on the couch cumming all day and had not drank any liquids and I didn’t even care. Chugged water went right back to my couch.

I’ve never experienced anything like this, I don’t know if it’s normal male libido or if I’m getting a certain rush because of past medication. Regardless, it’s exhilarating. I’m having fun maybe a little frightened but certainly ramping up my desire to date again.

Feel free to ask me questions or offer suggestions. I’d love to talk about this with someone

Sounds like you need to dump the meds and enjoy your feelings. What kind of porn getts you to cum ?

 

[Clumsy_awakening]

My situation is different. In my case, I describe it as reclaiming my sexuality. Letting my strong libido cum through, again, after repressing my needs for sometime.

I like this description it does feel like years of repressed needs hitting you all at once

 

[Clumsy_awakening]

Drugs affect everyone differently, but the most common descriptions of anti-depressants is that they make you not depressed by not caring anymore about pretty much anything. Your senses and emotions are subdued and muted and everything all blends in together. It's like wearing dark sunglasses inside with the lights dim.

Now you have the glasses off and the lights on, and everything is so bright and colorful, and oh those tits are so big and bouncy and those legs and now you need to go jack off for hours. Then do it all again.

Your body is being exposed to all the stimuli of life, and sex, and it's gonna take a bit of time for you to adjust, and get bored with it all, like the rest of us (usually) are.

Don't worry too much about it, just express enough self control and professionalism not to do anything that'll make you look like a fool or pervert, and enjoy the new feelings.

I love the glasses analogy
Life was fine, but I didn’t realize how much brighter and all the colors I was missing out on. Now I can see and there’s women everywhere

 

[Clumsy_awakening]

Many antidepressants (possibly most, I don't know, I've never made a study of it) suppress libido, or even cause erectile dysfunction. Something doctors don't tell you, or at least mine didn't as the time I was on Prozac. And it's not exactly a life-affirming experience. I'm glad you were able to get off them, and I'm glad you're able to get off! Have fun.

They warned me when I started over a decade ago, but it was such a gradual change. I guess I’d never realized how much of me was different.

 

[Clumsy_awakening]

My own experience may be of interest. I have required antidepressants for many years. One of them was Paxil (paroxetine). About 9 years ago, my psychiatrist recommended discontinuing the Paxil because as I have aged, my needs changed. I weaned off gradually, but when I stopped the Paxil, two things happened, rather quickly. One was that I lost about 20 pounds; going off the Paxil reduced my appetite and the result was good.

The other thing that happened was that my libido, which had been pretty much absent, returned like a freight train coming down the pike! I can identify with that term hyper-sexuality. And that has continued, or even increased since then. I am also in the later stages of life, so the feelings and desires have been most welcome.

Not intending to recommend medication changes to anyone because everyone's situation is their own. But that was my experience.

PS I do take another antidepressant which does not have the libido-suppressing effect on me. I am in a good place in this regard. Sex and sanity.

This feels pretty familiar. I’ve been fasting every other day not feeling very hungry working out hard and I’ve lost over 30 pounds. However I won’t deny I’ve been trying hard to make that happen. I like the increasing attention from the ladies

 

[Clumsy_awakening]

My suggestion: Populate your profile, & include the general area where you're located... maybe you'll pickup some company here .

Well silly me that’s an interesting suggestion I hadn’t considered.
i’m so new to this and I’ve been single for a while never crossed my mind