Husband/partner wears lingerie for/during sex with wife/GF but is NOT a CD

[Akpervert]

I LOVE to wear panties; I've been wearing them exclusively and sexclusively for years now. Occasionally, I enjoy something 'more frilly or fem', like stockings-and-garter, or a bra - just for the 'intimate contact.
I have NO desire to become a 'fem.' NO desire to add makeup. NO desire to Crossdress and look like a female, or to try to pass myself off as one.
It's all about 'feeling the intimacy' that my wife doesn't show off or share with me.
I'd like to read about a situation where a female 'friend' understands this of me and sexploits it - asks me to show her what I like; provides me with the personal audience to let her see it on me; helps me find just what to wear and put it on; sucks and fucks me while wearing it; and wears it for me while we 'get together.'

 

[Yarglenurp]

This strikes me as a “I suck dick but I’m not gay” kind of thing. Which fine, but… why are you so concerned with semantics.

 

[TheWritingGroup]

I LOVE to wear panties; I've been wearing them exclusively and sexclusively for years now. Occasionally, I enjoy something 'more frilly or fem', like stockings-and-garter, or a bra - just for the 'intimate contact.
I have NO desire to become a 'fem.' NO desire to add makeup. NO desire to Crossdress and look like a female, or to try to pass myself off as one.
It's all about 'feeling the intimacy' that my wife doesn't show off or share with me.
I'd like to read about a situation where a female 'friend' understands this of me and sexploits it - asks me to show her what I like; provides me with the personal audience to let her see it on me; helps me find just what to wear and put it on; sucks and fucks me while wearing it; and wears it for me while we 'get together.'

Just for fun, I searched Literotica for "lingerie" in the BDSM and Fetish categories. There are lots of stories there.

Not my kink, so I can't recommend specific stories.

-Rocco

 

[Akpervert]

Semantics it may be, but it matters. I despise 'sissies' and the fem qualities they represent.
Although I've always been attracted to female garments for the sexuality/appeal they represent, and sometimes have tried some of them on just to see what they feel like. There's no way I'd put any on and 'parade' out in public - even if it was a 'closed environment' public with more than my female incentive/lover.
I wear panties full-time because they're much more comfortable than 'men's underwear.
I don't and won't suck dick, but I could spend an hour suckling on a prominent clit.

 

[Akpervert]

Just for fun, I searched Literotica for "lingerie" in the BDSM and Fetish categories. There are lots of stories there.

Not my kink, so I can't recommend specific stories.

-Rocco

Thanks. I agree, and have found a few. Though most go much further than I am interested. I just want my lover to share the intimacy of the lingerie wear - but not the rest of the world.

 

[Akpervert]

Thanks for the link. I'm looking at it.

 

[UsuallyPresent]

Rocky Horror strikes again?

 

[Akpervert]

Rocky Horror strikes again?

WTF?

 

[In2CD]

I LOVE to wear panties; I've been wearing them exclusively and sexclusively for years now. Occasionally, I enjoy something 'more frilly or fem', like stockings-and-garter, or a bra - just for the 'intimate contact.
I have NO desire to become a 'fem.' NO desire to add makeup. NO desire to Crossdress and look like a female, or to try to pass myself off as one.
It's all about 'feeling the intimacy' that my wife doesn't show off or share with me.
I'd like to read about a situation where a female 'friend' understands this of me and sexploits it - asks me to show her what I like; provides me with the personal audience to let her see it on me; helps me find just what to wear and put it on; sucks and fucks me while wearing it; and wears it for me while we 'get together.'

I'm a happy hubby that adore wearing stockings & garters, heels, panties and bra only to enhance my masterbation and sex sessions.

 

[Akpervert]

This strikes me as a “I suck dick but I’m not gay” kind of thing. Which fine, but… why are you so concerned with semantics.

Pay closer attention to what's written and stated rather than what you might think.
It occurred to me to state this in another way - at least as I see things.
CD is "cross-dress", and usually implies, if not outright expresses dressing in feminine attire and 'showing off to others (in general, probably in public).
Me, personally and in the privacy of a one-on-one, or discrete setting - CLEARLY NOT IN PUBLIC OR ON DISPLAY - is hugely different.
THAT is not semantics. Public display is not private, discrete or intimate.

 

[Yarglenurp]

Pay closer attention to what's written and stated rather than what you might think.
It occurred to me to state this in another way - at least as I see things.
CD is "cross-dress", and usually implies, if not outright expresses dressing in feminine attire and 'showing off to others (in general, probably in public).
Me, personally and in the privacy of a one-on-one, or discrete setting - CLEARLY NOT IN PUBLIC OR ON DISPLAY - is hugely different.
THAT is not semantics. Public display is not private, discrete or intimate.

There is no part of cross-dressing that requires a public display. But, to be frank, only losers and guys deflecting from their own crimes would cares if someone does.

You like dressing up in panties as part of your own sexual pleasure, but talk about despising other dudes for enjoying their kinks. You’re just drawing lines in the sand and hating on random people because… why? It makes you feel better to shit on people out of your on misplaced guilt? The fuck they ever do to you?

Guess what, the morality police who want to control people don’t actually give a shit if you’re doing it in your own house or not. They’ll condemn you either way. All you’re doing is making it easier for them to attack you later down the line.