Husband goes un-noticed when something happens.

[UnkownGhost]

Husbands Disappear While Wife Cheats.

I'm wondering; is there is any realistic way to execute a husband going unnoticed by a cheating wife in the event something horrible happened to him?

I've been reading a lot of cuckold stories and while I gave gathered how to craft the pain one may feel. I've noticed that most women in those stories wouldn't give a single care if something were to happen to their husband.

One story stuck out because the husband was locked in an out house for the span of thirty minutes. I wondered how cool it would be if something happened in that thirty minutes and when he was to be let out of the outhouse. He wouldn't be there.

I'm wondering if the wife would really care because the general consensus with the stories I've read is that the women just think of their husbands as trash and would celebrate if they were to be killed.

Another short survey mentioned that women would celebrate if their husbands were killed but a few would feel horrible (provided the husband was good to them).

For some cuckolding in a pleasant and healthy and enjoyable like BDSM. Some however allow their spouses to abuse their love and as many have mentioned in another survey such a thing is unhealthy. To be in love with someone who will never love you. Love as in love, not wanting to cause harm, etc. and not as in deeply appreciate i.e She loves cheesecake.

I'm also wondering if there are any stories where people improve their sex life. The husband was horrible but then became better or if there are stories where the cuckolding stopped without the relationship ending.

Thank you for your time.

 

[Sean Renaud]

It depends heavily on the story and writers and yadda yadda. Most of the cuckold stories or at least cheating wife stories that I've read the women are at least still marginally fond of their hubbies. They are almost universally not sexually attracted to them anymore and generally not in "love" (whatever that means on a technical level) but not the kind of hatred that would have them rejoicing in the death of their spouse. Hell most of them are either sufficiently fond of their husbands or sufficiently scared of being alone that there is a REASON they don't simply get a divorce and call it a goddamn day. Because THAT would be unthinkable for one reason or another. Again this isn't REALLY my corner of lit, I wander in occasionally to see what folks are up to and to see if they'll let me play and then I play around and walk.

That said I think short term you could definitely write a story like that but you'd probably be best served going with comedy styling. Something where the wife locked her hubby in the broom closet so she could get some and then the next morning. . .

Jane: Hey hon, can you get me some coffee? Thanks. Hon. HON? Oh. . .fuck.

Other than a slightly humorous bit I don't really know how I would roll with this because here's the snag I see. There is a very stark line between casual indifference and outright evil. I can get a wife that doesn't really care if her hubby's feelings are hurt and goofs. She might not even feel particularly bad but she will notice sooner than later. I can also get behind the wife who is malicious and hates her hubby but then she's not going to forget. Every move she makes is calculated and even if you don't AGREE with her motivation (I for one think Loki in the Thor movie was 100% justified in trying to murder his brother who had nearly started Ragnarok by fucking with the Ice Giants.) there is at least generally a motivation that one can grasp. What you seem to want is the callousness of the maliciously evil woman combined with the indifference and that's a gap I'm happy to help bridge but cannot cross on my own.

 

[Hypoxia]

I took an opposite tack in my Left Behind. A non-cheating wife's indifferent family drives off without her and doesn't notice her absence for some days. By the time her philandering husband sees she's gone (after she drained a family-business bank account) she has already filed for divorce.

The OP's scenario posits the cheating wife as so consumed with her affair that she doesn't notice hubby's existence. That's possible if they've separated or he's away on extended business trips, but not likely otherwise, unless...

Flip my LEFT BEHIND scenario. A-type Sheila runs the family business with her siblings, cousins, and kids fluttering about and her husband shunted into a minor role. Sometimes she indeed doesn't see him for days on end. So when he's kidnapped to be the sex slave of a women's hockey team, nobody notices.

 

[UnkownGhost]

Thank you two for taking the time to provide some insight.

I have not considered what would have some of the wives still want to hang on to their husbands. You're right about that there needs to be something or else it would be divorce.

Comedic elements are certainly in play for one story I have. MC sees wife getting nailed by boss. In short that story is my nod to Nothing to Loose. But since this is the day of cellphones (whereas in Nothing to Loose not too many people had them then) the wife could call over and over again. Perhaps during a short conversation or a pocket dial she can hear gunfire and become frantic.

Neglect could also play a major factor as well I can see that happening too.

Indeed filling in the gap between malice and indifference is challenging but I think it could be done if both elements were included in small doses.

Perhaps (for example) a wife becomes indifferent to her husband because he "let himself go" and something about him changes and he's not the person she fell in love with and because of that there may be a little malice. She hates what he's become and but clings on in hopes he'll change. She'll have an affair, his eyes open, he sees his errors and if he changes in time she may once again be in love with the man she married. .. that's not really my strong point (obviously).

I guess another thing I'm looking for is well is knowing the psychological processes of a cheating wife. That way I can have accurate reactions with the characters I'm writing. Would they be concerned about their missing husbands because they fear for their husband's safety or they fear they may be exposed and embarrassed?

But as mentioned it all depends on the story. Again thank you two for your time and I look forward to more input.

 

[UnkownGhost]

Addendum; Just came across a story where the husband was kicked out of a club, the wife stays, pictures sent yadda yadda.

She's having a good time while he's at home. Something could happen then and she wouldn't know about it.

 

[Hypoxia]

Addendum; Just came across a story where the husband was kicked out of a club, the wife stays, pictures sent yadda yadda.

She's having a good time while he's at home. Something could happen then and she wouldn't know about it.

I envisaged a longer time frame. You're suggesting a matter of hours. Sure, why not?

Hal and Wanda hit the club fairly early. Wanda is drinking-dancing-mixing. Alas, her phone battery is dead. Hal is soon lured from the club, brutally beaten, robbed, left in a dumpster a block away. Wanda keeps having fun just as she has the previous times when they browsed the dance floor.

Wanda has steamy stoned fun in the after-hours party. Hal has been found by now and hauled to hospital. Cops try calling Wanda but her phone is dead, duh.

Wanda wakes up naked in a motel room with five men, two other women, many bites and bruises, a monster hangover, and layers of dried cum. Oops. She notes that Hal is not among her roommates. Oops oops. She wonders if he had fun too. She wonders where her purse and clothes are. She wonders how she'll get home. Et cetera.

 

[UnkownGhost]

I'm envisioning something long-term as well. It was just the story with husband getting kicked out of the club seemed like a neat time for the disappearing act to occur-unnoticed.

There are plenty of stories I've came across where the husband is out of the picture for short periods of time. Of course the wives cheat but expect the husband to return.

I've seen very, very few stories where the husband just leaves. In those stories the wives frantically call around. Usually because they're more concerned about the affair being exposed and not necessarily his safety.

The example you mentioned is a very good one and I can completely agree with a scenario like that.

 

[Hypoxia]

* Husband of high-powered family business tyrant disappears, voluntarily or otherwise, and nobody notices for a few days. Variant: Hubby *wants* to disappear, arranges complex business deal to preoccupy and distract his relatives.

* Couple goes clubbing; hubby is lured away and brutalized while wife descends into stoned orgy. Variant: Hubby *expected* wife's behavior and gave her the rope to hang herself, as it were. Maybe he hired the guys to drug, fuck, and record her.

Others:

* Hubby knows of wife's sloppy affair(s), acts increasingly submissive and withdrawn, till she has a "girls weekend out" and he removes the last of his stuff. She returns to find the house sold and divorce filed, etc. Variant: Hubby just packs and leaves -- taking his winning lottery coupon with him. These also work as "separate vacations" pieces.

* Hubby is badly injured and hospitalized. Cheating wife parties hearty whilst he's down. He recovers rapidly, checks out of hospital without notifying wife, and vanishes. Variant: He maims a guy who looks just like him, swaps identities, and disappears. Wife is sure surprised when a stranger awakens from his coma.

 

[Iceprincess12]

What about making his disappearing behavior part of the reason she is cheating. He doesn't like confrontation and if they fight he just leaves for a few days. Maybe he was gone for a week before and she was getting worried but he came back that night. He could tell her to not look for him, he will come back when he is ready.

 

[Sean Renaud]

THe OP is a bit unclear Je Taime but I think the wife is supposed to be the "bad guy" if you're man goes missing for more than a week I an't rightly fault you for getting some nookie elsewhere.

 

[UnkownGhost]

THe OP is a bit unclear Je Taime but I think the wife is supposed to be the "bad guy" if you're man goes missing for more than a week I an't rightly fault you for getting some nookie elsewhere.

I don't think anyone would blame anyone for looking for someone else if they're spouse just walks away all the time to deal with stress. A very unique outlook I'll admit.

In my projects for a couple of them anyway the wife really isn't the bad guy. It's just that circumstances have presented themselves in which she has some kind of fling and the husband goes unnoticed.

For instance the example of the club Hypoxia wrote about. For the kind of story I'm going for.

Using that same example.

Wanda is having fun and her husband is lured away from the club. While she's inside he's outside getting beaten.

In that instance someone fights off his attackers and brings the husband to his feet.

"Where's the device?" the person demands.

"What?" the husband is dazed and confused. "What the hell is going on?" he shouts.

The stranger shines a light in his face. Husband shields his eyes with a bloody hand. "Ah shit you're not the package." The stranger says.

"Package? What package? What the fuck is happening and who the fuck are you?"

The stranger chuckles."I'm the shadow in the night, your best dream and your worst nightmare. The dream is that if you work with me you can get out of this alive. The nightmare is that if I leave you, they'll kill you."

The husband shakes his head. Nothing is making sense."What about my wife?"

"What about her?"

"What are they going to do to her?"

"Nothing. If they knew she'd either be dead or beaten along with you. If you want to save her you can't go back to her. I guess that means you've just been drafted."

"For what?" the husband demands. He doesn't know who any of these people are.

The stranger smiled "bait."


Okay a very poorly, poorly written scene there. But in this example. Hypoxia already established what the wife is doing on her side of the story and how they came to be separated. Now while the husband is on his adventure she's getting nailed, etc.

I'm thinking how long can this go on before she starts panicking and looking for him. Of course the amount of time depends on the character and how much love she'll have for her husband.

What would be realistic depending on the factors? If she wasn't having an affair and in love with him. The wife may be freaking out and fearing the worst. Is someone hurting him? Is he okay? Where could he be?

If the wife doesn't care so much about him and his having an affair. I'm wondering if she may think. Is he going to expose the affair? Is HE having an affair as well? Who could he be sleeping with?

If the wife just straight up doesn't care. She'll probably be happy that her secret will remain safe and collect the life insurance check.

But I'm wanting a somewhat realistic time and response.

Back to the club thing. Maybe a day later Wanda sees her husband (bruised and battered) and a wave of emotions overcome her. She still loves him and perhaps the experience changes them both ... kind of corny huh.

 

[Mbgdallas]

Addendum; Just came across a story where the husband was kicked out of a club, the wife stays, pictures sent yadda yadda.

She's having a good time while he's at home. Something could happen then and she wouldn't know about it.

What's the story?

 

[UnkownGhost]

What's the story?

I can't remember the title of it. But if I come across it again I'll post it here.

 

[UnkownGhost]

Found the story you were looking for. Sent link to your PM

 

[Sean Renaud]

You know it' snot spam or anything to link right here to the forum.

Also the way PMs work on this forum he'd know the moment you sent it. They are bloody obnoxious.

 

[EquinoxRising]

Provided it's a Lit story, it's fine to post a link here.

 

[UnkownGhost]

You know it' snot spam or anything to link right here to the forum.

Also the way PMs work on this forum he'd know the moment you sent it. They are bloody obnoxious.

Provided it's a Lit story, it's fine to post a link here.

Ah I'll keep that in mind in the future. Thanks you two. It was a lit story.

 

[Mbgdallas]

You know it' snot spam or anything to link right here to the forum.

Also the way PMs work on this forum he'd know the moment you sent it. They are bloody obnoxious.

Interesting. I was never notified of the PM and just found it so I didn't know the moment it was sent. How am I supposed to know? Do I have a setting wrong?