Husband AND lover
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ms_ann_thrope
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What could possibly go wrong?
IrezumiKiss
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Mmmmm. Swingers.
Will there be good ol' fashioned barebacking going on? A lil' raw doggin'? Some breeding fantasy sexplay, mmmmm?
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Weren't you the virgin who was asking how to 'pop the cherry' a few moments ago? All of a sudden you got married and had threesome?
Stewart_Pidd
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4est_4est_Gump
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As long as his girlfriend on the side presents you no problem...
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Threesomes are always husband-wife shopping.
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Yay!
This is my best advice for you!: Make your lover your husband's best friend.
GimpyIntellect
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More pictures of your tits, please.
Jennifer
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Stewart_Pidd
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Skiddles2014
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In a year you will be divorced.
A poster on these forums named queerbait tried such a deal with his now ex wife, and she is still with the other lover while he silently sobs into his pillow every night all alone.
Its a slippery slope.
A poster on these forums named queerbait tried such a deal with his now ex wife, and she is still with the other lover while he silently sobs into his pillow every night all alone.
Its a slippery slope.
Jennifer
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You'll be lucky if it lasts a year. These things deteriorate quickly.
Stewart_Pidd
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one of them will start taking off from work to spend more time with their non-spouse bro!
Stew
I've done it. I found by the time we got to the point where we were playing solo with others, both of us had one foot out the door - not for any reason that had to do wit the swinging, but that clearly didn't bring us closer together in a time when we should have been circling the wagons so we could fix "us".
The pitfalls are obvious. IMHO finding two people who can handle the fancy footwork required to do this without injury to one or more persons is tough....getting a third who can also fall into step with the same ability is non existent.
The pitfalls are obvious. IMHO finding two people who can handle the fancy footwork required to do this without injury to one or more persons is tough....getting a third who can also fall into step with the same ability is non existent.
Jennifer
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If you're having fantasies about sharing your ex stripper wife with the general public again you don't really need to write fiction about others to get youself off. It's OK to use your own name in your little stories.
Bidin~Time
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Just like every addict(drug, alcohol, sex, etc) in the history of mankind.
But hey, somebody has to be the first one in history to really have it all figured out.
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Jennifer
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Ooooh the eau de sarcasm is potent this evening.
I know! Not sure what's wrong with me tonight. My snark is full force.
Pookie
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Playing without the spouse is a bad idea. Trust is a big part of making swinging work. If you're seeing people separately, that trust is going to eventually be strained.
You can go into it with all the best intentions. It may all sound rational. You may have talked it out in detail and come to an agreement you think works. But emotions aren't rational. When you're doing things once reserved to the privacy of your marriage with others, it's bound to have a negative effect at some point. Someone will begin to resent the other.
It might work fine for you, but odds are it won't. Your relationship may well survive it though. The question is whether you want to take that chance.
snugglestruggle
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This could be Canky's big chance. Canky woo her with some selfie's.
subdued_passion
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I've personally never been in such a situation but I've heard people say it works while others swear it doesn't.
If you and your husband want to play solo with others I'd suggest you try talking to other couples who've lived that lifestyle for a while and who are still together so you can get some insight on how to make it work.
I don't know if badbabysitter does vanity searches but if she does, she may see this and post a response. I know she and her husband have been together a while and they're into the swinger lifestyle so she may offer a far more useful response to your query.
If you and your husband want to play solo with others I'd suggest you try talking to other couples who've lived that lifestyle for a while and who are still together so you can get some insight on how to make it work.
I don't know if badbabysitter does vanity searches but if she does, she may see this and post a response. I know she and her husband have been together a while and they're into the swinger lifestyle so she may offer a far more useful response to your query.
