juliejewel
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Hi Everyone! I am writing for two reasons: 1) I want to believe that it is possible to have a great relationship with your husband while having an awesome girlfriend relationship too. 2) I have tried this and think that it is possible to achieve but I haven't found the right person.
Here's my dilemma: I have a husband who does not want to participate in a threesome. And, I don't want him too either. He loves the idea of my having a special girlfriend relationship and coming home and telling him all about it. Where I went wrong this time was I found someone who really didn't have a family life. She became super-needy and wanted me all the time. She was also bicurious and I was her first. To top it all off, although I was definitely attracted to her and grew to care about her, the intimacy wasn't all that great and also, we really didn't have that much in common. After her meltdown, it just got worse. I have to admit, maybe it's selfish BUT I have enough daily drama in my life from my husband, kids, life in general. If I am going to choose to have a girlfriend I want it to be fun and exciting and have no b.s. associated with it. I cry enough tears over my husband and real life, I do not need to be crying over my girlfriend! Does this make sense? I guess I am looking for another mom or wife. Someone that understands the demands of life/family/husband/kids, etc. and who also wants a special friend.
So, I ask you , is it possible ?????? If anyone has any thoughts, please email me at [ mod edit: e-mail address removed ] I would love to hear from you!
Here's my dilemma: I have a husband who does not want to participate in a threesome. And, I don't want him too either. He loves the idea of my having a special girlfriend relationship and coming home and telling him all about it. Where I went wrong this time was I found someone who really didn't have a family life. She became super-needy and wanted me all the time. She was also bicurious and I was her first. To top it all off, although I was definitely attracted to her and grew to care about her, the intimacy wasn't all that great and also, we really didn't have that much in common. After her meltdown, it just got worse. I have to admit, maybe it's selfish BUT I have enough daily drama in my life from my husband, kids, life in general. If I am going to choose to have a girlfriend I want it to be fun and exciting and have no b.s. associated with it. I cry enough tears over my husband and real life, I do not need to be crying over my girlfriend! Does this make sense? I guess I am looking for another mom or wife. Someone that understands the demands of life/family/husband/kids, etc. and who also wants a special friend.
So, I ask you , is it possible ?????? If anyone has any thoughts, please email me at [ mod edit: e-mail address removed ] I would love to hear from you!
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