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WriterDom said:Feel sorry for Jamaica mon. And like Texas needs mo rain. I can't remember the last rain in Georgia.
Exogenous said:I hope that Cutie Mouse's J is safe. My thoughts are with J and her.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070818/ap_on_re_la_am_ca/tropical_weather
CutieMouse said:He's told me before that he chose the northeasternmost tip of the isalnd, because it protects him from hurricanes (though he does still get tropical storms). Calls aren't being answered, nor messages returned; right now I have no idea if it's due to weather/phone issues or what. (Have I mentioned yet how fucking sick I am of this oceans apart from one another/third world country/annoyingly busy business man stuff?)
WriterDom said:Feel sorry for Jamaica mon. And like Texas needs mo rain. I can't remember the last rain in Georgia.
CutieMouse said:No, communications failure was because the rat bastard had a last-minute-business-partner-drags-him-off-to-Santo-Domingo-for-5-days thing happen, in which he only had enough time to pack a suitcase, and he discovered too late that the fabulous 5 star 3rd world hotel didn't have a phone in the room. So he just got home 40 minutes ago, it's raining cats and dogs and the SUV kept getting blown all over the place getting home, he's gone to bed, and we'll catch up sometime tomorrow.
But he's safe, the dogs are fine, the house is fine, it's raining and windy, but nothing unmanageable.
Edited to add - I'm seriously pissed about his behaviour/decisions, but more rational and reasonable than the above paragraph sounds.
graceanne said:Sounds like he scared you a bit. You know, like when you can't find your kid and when you do you threaten to kill them?
CutieMouse said:No - he pissed me off by dissapearing for 5 days without warning, more than he worried me for being on an island in the path of a tropical storm.
CutieMouse said:No - he pissed me off by dissapearing for 5 days without warning, more than he worried me for being on an island in the path of a tropical storm.
Netzach said:Uh, no one had a working cellphone in those 5 days?
Not that you need me to rub it in, but....hm.
CutieMouse said:Yeah. One difficulty with the whole 3rd world country thing, is that in order to place a cell call out of country requires a huge bond, plus the $5/minute fees, so when J set up the cell account, he didn't set it up to call out of country. Which means unless he's at home (where we can talk through the V.O.I.P line that is sattelite routed through Montreal), I have to catch him on his cell which he has to actually answer). It's an issue of technology and proper priorities.
So.
I've been... struggling with some inequality of effort with regards to communication; I brought it up 2 weeks ago and thought a solution was reached, similar issues arose again last week, and this week we had total silence from the DR for 5 days, because he went racing off on business, and didn't take 2 minutes to call before he left.
I told him tonight that he's still not making the efforts I've told him I need him to make, dissapearing on me is not acceptable, and I can not be in a relationship with someone who can't be bothered to warn me before he drops off the face of the planet when business calls. I'm going to continue that discussion with him this weekend. (This standing up for myself stuff sucks ass, BTW.)
CutieMouse said:Yeah. One difficulty with the whole 3rd world country thing, is that in order to place a cell call out of country requires a huge bond, plus the $5/minute fees, so when J set up the cell account, he didn't set it up to call out of country. Which means unless he's at home (where we can talk through the V.O.I.P line that is sattelite routed through Montreal), I have to catch him on his cell which he has to actually answer). It's an issue of technology and proper priorities.
So.
I've been... struggling with some inequality of effort with regards to communication; I brought it up 2 weeks ago and thought a solution was reached, similar issues arose again last week, and this week we had total silence from the DR for 5 days, because he went racing off on business, and didn't take 2 minutes to call before he left.
I told him tonight that he's still not making the efforts I've told him I need him to make, dissapearing on me is not acceptable, and I can not be in a relationship with someone who can't be bothered to warn me before he drops off the face of the planet when business calls. I'm going to continue that discussion with him this weekend. (This standing up for myself stuff sucks ass, BTW.)
CutieMouse said:No - he pissed me off by dissapearing for 5 days without warning, more than he worried me for being on an island in the path of a tropical storm.
CutieMouse said:Yeah. One difficulty with the whole 3rd world country thing, is that in order to place a cell call out of country requires a huge bond, plus the $5/minute fees, so when J set up the cell account, he didn't set it up to call out of country. Which means unless he's at home (where we can talk through the V.O.I.P line that is sattelite routed through Montreal), I have to catch him on his cell which he has to actually answer). It's an issue of technology and proper priorities.
So.
I've been... struggling with some inequality of effort with regards to communication; I brought it up 2 weeks ago and thought a solution was reached, similar issues arose again last week, and this week we had total silence from the DR for 5 days, because he went racing off on business, and didn't take 2 minutes to call before he left.
I told him tonight that he's still not making the efforts I've told him I need him to make, dissapearing on me is not acceptable, and I can not be in a relationship with someone who can't be bothered to warn me before he drops off the face of the planet when business calls. I'm going to continue that discussion with him this weekend. (This standing up for myself stuff sucks ass, BTW.)