How we do strap on sex

oldkinky

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We enjoy anal play on me as a regular part of our sex lives. Many years ago I never dreamed that I would enjoy anal play on me, but as I began to understand my prostate and how anal play can be exciting.

Initially I purchased a vibrating anal toy(Pro Touch from Tantus). When it arrived I asked DW to use it on me while she gave me a blowjob and WOW what an orgasm. Most intense ever. Not only was it more intense, but also I produced much more cum which DW loved. We were both hooked. We have tried other anal toys like vibrating dildos and beads and they are all nice.

From prostate massage we proceeded to strap on sex. We purchased a Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness with a pouch for a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while she does me. It also includes two small silicone dildos(Silk Small-7/8 by 4.5 inches- and Silk Medium-11/4 by 5.5 inches- made by Tantus). Both of these are small and easy to insert with lube(Wet Original). DW put on the harness with the Small Silk dildo). She became so hot as she rubbed lube on the dildo and talked dirty about her D (penis). I got in the doggy position and she lubed my opening. She slowly inserted the dildo in me. It felt so good. She thrust some in this position, but we decided to try a variation on the missionary position. She removed the dildo and I lay on my back with my legs drawn up. She lay between my legs and inserted the dildo in me. In this position she can easily reach my penis for a handjob while she does me. She lubed my penis and went to thrusting while giving me a handjob. It wasn't long until we were both cumming-she from the harness vibrator and me from prostate stimulation and the handjob.

We then purchased a new harness(Buzz Me Tender) which is a little more sturdy and has pouches for two vibrators.

We have graduated to new dildos. A word of caution about dildo size. The maximum dildo diameter that is comfortable for me is 1 1/2 or a little less, but up to 7 inches long or longer is fine. We much prefer silicone dildos. Some we enjoy are Vibrating Mistress(1 3/8 inch by 6 inches) made by Vixen Creations, Vibrating Leisure(! 1/4 by 7 inches) made by Tantus, Acute(Tantus)1.25 by 5 inches and curved, Compact (1 by 5.25 inches-made by Tantus,.

A recent addition is a double dildo. We use Nexus Jr. with a harness and we do each other at the same time. DW had her first squirting orgasm while we were doing each other.

Remember use lots and lots of lube. You can't use too much.

Some couples are concerned about creating a mess. If you have a BM an hour or two before sex things will usually be clran. For me , however, I use a Fleet Enema filled with warm water before sex. i usually fill it three times or until it comes out clear. Also you can use a condom on the dildo.

Hope this helps. Strap on sex is a great addition to our sex lives.She does me about once a week.

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That's pretty hot!

I want to ask my wife about doing this, but I'm afraid of the implications. She might think ,"Oh no! He's gay!" or something similar. We are both open minded about people's preferences, but she definitely likes very hetero guys.
 
Have you got her to do any other anal play on you before, or are you planning to make the jump straight to pegging?
 
Have you got her to do any other anal play on you before, or are you planning to make the jump straight to pegging?
She has taken the initiative to rim me without being asked, on another occasion I got her to use her vibe on me, and she obliged. So she is open to the idea, and willing.
The strap on takes it to a whole different level though. Don't you think? I know I should probably just ask her how she feels instead of whining about it here, but I am genuinely worried about what she might think.
 
I want to ask my wife about doing this, but I'm afraid of the implications. She might think ,"Oh no! He's gay!" or something similar. We are both open minded about people's preferences, but she definitely likes very hetero guys.

I am the most hetero guy you will ever see and I love being fucked with a strap on. The strap on is fine, but I have absolutely no interest in having a real dick in my ass.

If ass play on a guy is considered gay then oral sex could be considered gay-not so and every couple does oral sex and very few are gay.
 
You can always "accidentally" get caught looking at porn involving this. Judging by her reaction you can go whichever way you need with it from there.
 
She has taken the initiative to rim me without being asked, on another occasion I got her to use her vibe on me, and she obliged. So she is open to the idea, and willing.

That she's open to anal play on you is a very good start, IMO. If you're worried she'll adhere to preconceived notions about certain acts being "gay", why not arm yourself before talking to her? Given your other thread, you seem like the type of guy who doesn't mind doing a bit of research. There's tons of information out there proving that it's not a specific sexual act that makes one homosexual: it's the gender to which someone finds him/herself attracted to.
 
This weekend I'm going to browse through some of the Adam and Eve type websites with her. When we run across a strap on I'll say,"Hey, you ever think of trying out something like this?"
She might be dying to try it and is afraid to ask me, seems like a good way to broach the subject. She might find it appalling, but it shouldn't hurt to ask, right?
 
I actually brought this up with the wife last night while we were in the middle of some pretty intense sex. Her reply was awesome. She said, "you better be careful what you ask for. You need to be sure you really want me too."

I asked her what she meant and she looked me deep in the eyes and said that she's concerned that she would fuck me too hard for my own good. She actually thinks she may enjoy it so much that she will totally pound me.

I can't imagine how things could have gone better. I can't wait until she straps up and let's me have it!
 
Wow!

I actually brought this up with the wife last night while we were in the middle of some pretty intense sex. Her reply was awesome. She said, "you better be careful what you ask for. You need to be sure you really want me too."

I asked her what she meant and she looked me deep in the eyes and said that she's concerned that she would fuck me too hard for my own good. She actually thinks she may enjoy it so much that she will totally pound me.

I can't imagine how things could have gone better. I can't wait until she straps up and let's me have it!
I would have put my pants on and driven straight to the adult book store!
 
This weekend I'm going to browse through some of the Adam and Eve type websites with her. When we run across a strap on I'll say,"Hey, you ever think of trying out something like this?"
She might be dying to try it and is afraid to ask me, seems like a good way to broach the subject. She might find it appalling, but it shouldn't hurt to ask, right?

If your wife is already into some ass play, I would bet that this works out well. You might also bring it up after some ass play, like, "I wonder if being fucked with a strap-on would feel good?"

So how did it go this weekend?
 
If your wife is already into some ass play, I would bet that this works out well. You might also bring it up after some ass play, like, "I wonder if being fucked with a strap-on would feel good?"

So how did it go this weekend?

It turned out that unknown to me DW had a fantasy of fucking me with a strap on-you never know. :D
 
hi justherhusband. I think you're right - no matter what, your wife's response was awesome. I'm subscribing to this thread just to see how it goes for you and her. hope its what you wished for.
 
I did it but in a different way than You. I did it with 2 ladies. One was on her back, the second one had a strap on wit a big wibrator outsid and a little one inside her pussy. The second was in the first's vagina. I was in the second's anus. Nice.
 
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