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[CandiCame]

As a sub... how can I ask someone to satisfy me?

The guy I'm "dating" right now is so deep in the closet he's finding Christmas presents (which is sad, because he doesn't celebrate Christmas) but we've had sex- but it seems like he's so scared to do anything, and I want to be able to experiment more, but he's so weird about it.

I haven't sucked him off; and I don't know how to ask him to do any of the humiliation stuff I'm into- let alone the pain stuff. He's way to gentle, which was cool the first time, but I wanna try something else- I'm kind of a natural sub, I want my top to be in complete control. I don't know how to talk to him about it.

 

[honestone]

My 2 Cents

Unless you are into a long and unfulfilling relationship (sexually) don't waste your time. Sub as the teacher seems counter-intuitive.
Find someone else.

 

[stude_cruiser19]

try a little roleplay

try a little role play, like daddy-daughter, or teacher student, letting him be the ' adult' in the scenario, or ask him to wait a few minutes while you get ready, and present yourself tied up, or gagged, splayed open for his use, maybe you might have to overplay the responses that you show to encourage him to do more, or try something different. maybe you can open him up to a whole new world of kink