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[Shankara20]

You can make your masturbating better mainly by changing your mindset about masturbation.

The setup :

Create a sensual environment
Alone
Unbothered
Devoid of stress and tension
Ideally in a warm room

Install yourself comfortably

Remove all your clothes
lie or sit in a comfortable position

Use oils and body lotions to moisturize your skin (a fully moisturized skin is more sensitive to the touch) Have a bottle of masturbation lube readily available at your side And most importantly… leave social expectations at the door : you will be alone, no one will know what you will do, what others think is not important here.

The event :

Take your time
Caress your whole body at first : discover your erogenous zones
Let yourself react without inhibition to your explorations
Let your mind drift away
Let your body behave in his animalistic way

Being a man, your hand will inevitably be attracted to your dick at some point !

Answer your impulse : don’t resist your animalistic instincts
But caress your dick slowly at first : take the time to become fully aware
of your cock’s sensitiveness

Pour some lube in the palm of your hand and let it warm up Rub your lubed palm against your dick and take the time to enjoy the magnification effect of lube on your cock’s sensitivity Eventually, your hand will naturally take hold of your dick

Let your hand massage your penis the way you like it
Let your hand explore new ways to please your cock
Now, more than ever, let go everything you were told about sex and masturbation and enjoy your feelings
Just don’t go too fast
And resist your urge to come quickly

Be fully aware of your emotions and be happy Let your body express your emotions

Let yourself move
Let yourself moan
Let yourself sigh

Try to keep yourself on the edge And when you feel that you can’t take anymore, let yourself crest and come unreservedly, with no afterthought

Free yourself of that pent-up semen
Let it go as far as it will go : don’t resist :
At this point, your goal is to fertilize the World with your semen !
Let yourself move
Let yourself moan
Let yourself enjoy the moment

Then let yourself drift away into drowsiness…


any questions?

Anyone have anything to add - anything that is more-or-less legal, that is?

 

[KlaytonFrost]

How... lovely.

Honestly though, the point is well taken. Male masturbation isn't often afforded the same kind of time, energy, and luxury that female masturbation is. We men seem to treat it in a much more... utilitarian way.

 

[Shankara20]

How... lovely.

Honestly though, the point is well taken. Male masturbation isn't often afforded the same kind of time, energy, and luxury that female masturbation is. We men seem to treat it in a much more... utilitarian way.

I felt more-or-less the same thing when I read it. (I found it, not wrote it).

It reminds me of a poem I heard read while I lived in San Francisco. The exact words have left my mind but it ended with an invitation to, after emptying yourself on your torso, to stay there and linger for a few moments longer. Resist the urge to run off and clean up, especially if the clean up is driven even in the least little bit by any shame at all.

Enjoy the act in the fullest.