How to tell Mom

[Amberchgo]

So ... the family was over the other weekend and I made dinner. A fab dinner I might add.

Anyways, our main bathroom was being used so I told Mom to use the one off our Master Bedroom. When she came back, she had this horrified look on her face. That's when it hit me.... the cuffs were still attached to the bed from last night. The ball gag was, of course, hanging off the bed post as well (on my side.)


Do I call Mom to talk about this? Go see her? Drop it?

Thanks

Amber

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Mom

Ooops! I would go see her and at least try to explain what you do is between consenting adults and that no one is hurt by your games. Like I said at least try. Good luck and let us know what happens. Bobby.

 

[Joeknoxville]

Ask her if she wants to borrow them to use with dad?

 

[silverwhisper]

amber: i vote leave it alone unless you're into uncomfortable conversations that could be avoided. :>

ed

 

[Amberchgo]

Ask her if she wants to borrow them to use with dad?

OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

 

[COCK_STAR]

Fake. You have a great imagination. You should take that over to the story section.

 

[Joeknoxville]

OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

You might be surprised!

 

[smallgirl]

So ... the family was over the other weekend and I made dinner. A fab dinner I might add.

Anyways, our main bathroom was being used so I told Mom to use the one off our Master Bedroom. When she came back, she had this horrified look on her face. That's when it hit me.... the cuffs were still attached to the bed from last night. The ball gag was, of course, hanging off the bed post as well (on my side.)


Do I call Mom to talk about this? Go see her? Drop it?

Thanks

Amber

OMG that is so funny.

Back when hubby and I actually had sex and played with toys, I was always afraid my kids would see something. They were always going into my closet to raid my clothes...

 

[hardcollege4]

I would definitely say leave it alone and be more careful about leaving that kind of stuff out.

Plus you never know maybe the person before her didn't flush and that was the reason for the horrifying shock.

 

[twister947]

amber: i vote leave it alone unless you're into uncomfortable conversations that could be avoided. :>

ed

I agree. There's no profit in bringing it up, and really, it's no one else's business.

 

[Joeknoxville]

Or I'm sure many of us have had one of the kids walk in while going at it like my, at the time, four year old son did. We explained that we were just having some fun. We thought all was forgotten until grandma and Grampa came over for dinner and he proceeded to ask them if they "play horsey like mommy and daddy do". Pretty embarrassing to say the least!

 

[GiggLeGasm]

if she has any idea what they're for..
then she's not as vanilla as you think.

if she doesn't..
she wouldn't put it together anyway

You just need to decide if it bothers you more that she knows about your sex life..
or that you've just realized that she probably has a better ball gag.

 

[bambikiller]

Long time ago when I lived alone my mother had a key to my house and would drop stuff off for me. I wasn't thrilled about her coming over unannounced when I wasn't home but she's my mom and was being nice. Well one day I came home and could see she dropped something off. I then went to my bed room and could see that when I got up and went to work I left some items out from the night before when I had company over. The vibrator was on the night stand and I think some rope was still wrapped around the bottom of the bed frame.
Well I don't know if she looked in the bed room but she never came over when I wasn't home after that.
Nether one of us ever brought up the subject. You're an adult and you don't live at home anymore.

 

[NotHisLady]

if she has any idea what they're for..
then she's not as vanilla as you think.

if she doesn't..
she wouldn't put it together anyway

You just need to decide if it bothers you more that she knows about your sex life..
or that you've just realized that she probably has a better ball gag.

this is why I like you

 

[GiggLeGasm]

this is why I like you

lol.. thank you. I like you too.

I remember a conversation I had with my grandmother one day.
Gramma was quite a lady. I never saw her wear pants in public until very late in life.. she always wore hosiery.. no demin at all unless we were lounging..

She asked how things were going.. I had small children and confessed that I was "just so tired."

She got a twinkle in her eye and gave me advice:

"don't ever be too tired for that. (she gave a knowing nod) there's always a woman right down the street who is wide awake."

I was like.. "oh my god.. gramma has sex!"

lol.. no matter how old we are.. it just never dawns on us

 

[Loverstogether]

I would drop it.

 

[Bramblethorn]

So ... the family was over the other weekend and I made dinner. A fab dinner I might add.

Anyways, our main bathroom was being used so I told Mom to use the one off our Master Bedroom. When she came back, she had this horrified look on her face. That's when it hit me.... the cuffs were still attached to the bed from last night. The ball gag was, of course, hanging off the bed post as well (on my side.)


Do I call Mom to talk about this? Go see her? Drop it?

Thanks

Amber

Escalate. Next time she visits, leave out a tub of whipped cream and an inflatable sheep in a gimp suit, and maybe you can convince her you were just messing with her all along.

OK, probably not helpful, but if you do try that let us know how it goes.

 

[Hypoxia]

As long as Mom didn't find the hypodermics, the Tasmanian devils, and the bowling pins, everything was fine.

 

[amofiga]

None of us likes to have our private sexual actions and thoughts discovered by people who don't necessarily share our outlook and attitudes. It's embarrassing to say the least. However, if others have any empathy and maturity they will understand that adults often enjoy sexual fantasies and actions that may be a little out of what is considered "mainstream". But, let's face it, if this sort of fun and games weren't relatively common, there wouldn't be a huge market for sexual toys and equipment.

Children have never liked facing the fact that their parents could be a bit kinky and parents have often had the same problem accepting their children. However mature adults have to understand and accept this so the best advice I've seen is to just let it go unless your mom brings it up. It's pretty unlikely that she will. She's most likely not as naïve or unaccepting as you might think. It's possible you might be surprised at some of the stuff she's done in her life.

 

[subwannabe]

I wouldn't say anything.

This reminds me of a true story I heard once. Husband was downstairs while wife was upstairs taking a shower in the master bedroom. Wife's parents come over while wife was in shower and talk to the husband downstairs, everyone waiting for her to finish and come down. Of course she doesn't know her parents are downstairs with her husband and when she gets out of the shower she is horny and hollars down to her husband something like, "Honey why don't you come upstairs because my pussy is really wet and needs your big hard cock!". Husband is embarrassed but is able to hollar back up to his wife something like, "OK honey but maybe we should wait until after your parents leave!".

 

[Amberchgo]

I wouldn't say anything.

This reminds me of a true story I heard once. Husband was downstairs while wife was upstairs taking a shower in the master bedroom. Wife's parents come over while wife was in shower and talk to the husband downstairs, everyone waiting for her to finish and come down. Of course she doesn't know her parents are downstairs with her husband and when she gets out of the shower she is horny and hollars down to her husband something like, "Honey why don't you come upstairs because my pussy is really wet and needs your big hard cock!". Husband is embarrassed but is able to hollar back up to his wife something like, "OK honey but maybe we should wait until after your parents leave!".

Nice ... All that's missing is the snare drum rim shot!

 

[Acktion]

Ya know... Something that has always fascinated me is how grown-ups who know that storks don't really bring babies can get in a dither that their parents (and grandparents) had sex. Count the number of children and ya know they had it at least THAT many times.

Seriously, though. I read somewhere that... *(ahem)... certain sexual appetites and proclivities tend to be somewhat hereditary. Not sure whether that's a nature or nurture argument or what, but...

Anyway, you might consider, just for a moment, that the shock was because she realized her little one was fetished the same way SHE is. And had the same "OMMMMGGGGGG" moment since Parents generally try not to think about their kids having sex anymore than those kids want to think about them. (Just where they think those grandkids are gonna come from, I'm not sure.)

But, nah. I'd just go on with business as usual. Nothing about your relationship has to change in the slightest unless one or the other of you decided to talk about the invisible elephant tap dancing in the bedroom that evening.

 

[Cumference]

If she asks, tell her.... Otherwise pretend nothing happened.

( but what is there to tell, that she has not seen? If she was shocked, maybe some more details?)

 

[subwannabe]

I'm positive my parents never had sex. Never saw or heard anything, ever. I must either be adopted or a test tube baby.

 

[Hypoxia]

I'm positive my parents never had sex. Never saw or heard anything, ever. I must either be adopted or a test tube baby.

Sex is hereditary. If your parents never had kids, you probably won't either.

Dad's mother always said he was weird, like he was from Mars. So, I know I'm not a test-tube baby. No, I'm a Martian-American. I have the antennae to prove it.