HOW TO TELL...if you're a bi-curious man!

[HarlotMinx]

If this sounds like you.....

<insert>(Hi/Hello/Hey)

I always considered myself <insert>(completely/very/100%) straight and like having sex with women. Recently <insert>(my wife has started using a dildo on me[substitute other form of anal play]/I've started watching porn with two guys having some form of sexual interaction/read porn involving two men having some form of sexual interaction/watched pre op mtf transsexuals in porn) and I've enjoyed it and started fantasizing about <insert>(being forced to have sex with a man[insert specifics of fantasy, clothing choice, witnessing participants]/sucking cock/having sex with a pre op mtf transsexual/kissing a man/licking a man's ass/sucking on a man's testicles/anything involving you, a man, and something that involves one or both of you getting sexual gratification).

I am <insert>(very masculine/pretty masculine/metro sexual/androgynous/feminine/[substitute some set of traits that is either stereotypically gay or stereotypically straight]) and I have either had or not had some form of interaction with homosexual men in the part or current but I really like girls.

I keep thinking about doing something sexual with men and yet don't think I'd like doing some other thing sexual with men. <insert>(Help!?/Advice?/Can someone relate?/Ideas?/Am I gay?/Why does my penis get happy every time I see Legolas from Lord of the Rings?)"

Welcome <insert name> and congratulations on taking your first wobbly step into the wonderful world of bisexuality/bi curiousness. And here you thought only women could be bisexuals! But no, thanks to modern advances in sexuality you can go around and suck as much dick as you can get your greedy little mouth on and still enjoy a nice hot cup of pussy afterward!

Despite any misconceptions/false ideas/stereotypes you might have encountered you are finally discovering that you too can experience the many benefits a fluid sexuality can offer. "What are these benefits you speak of" you say? Well I'm glad you ask, among the many pluses of bisexuality you might experience more regular bowl movements, increased flexibility, wider range of jaw motion, new gym buddies, a improved fashion sense, new appreciation of other lifestyles, a new found mastery of mixed drinks, and new kissing techniques just to name a few! What's great is you can have all these without turning into a homosexual! Too good to be true you wonder? Well in fact it's entirely true! What now you ask? Well from here you explore the depth of your sexuality (among other things). Go buy a dildo, check out some porn, maybe hang out at a club or two. Throw your dick to the wind(preferably put a raincoat on it first) and reap the rewards of your new sexuality! Enjoy! You can now hold your head up with pride and say "I'm a bisexual!" and don't let anyone take that away from you.

I hope this thread goes a long way to confirming your fears/desires/hopes and you can gather solace from it.


Seriously, this ought to be a sticky or something.

 

[haurni]

Yes! Yes, I am!

*stands up proudly, waiting for someone to <insert>/something/somewhere*

 

[Nimbikarana]

this thread has the potential to eliminate 90% of new threads on GLBT lol

 

[infinity706]

If this sounds like you.....



Welcome <insert name> and congratulations on taking your first wobbly step into the wonderful world of bisexuality/bi curiousness. And here you thought only women could be bisexuals! But no, thanks to modern advances in sexuality you can go around and suck as much dick as you can get your greedy little mouth on and still enjoy a nice hot cup of pussy afterward!

Despite any misconceptions/false ideas/stereotypes you might have encountered you are finally discovering that you too can experience the many benefits a fluid sexuality can offer. "What are these benefits you speak of" you say? Well I'm glad you ask, among the many pluses of bisexuality you might experience more regular bowl movements, increased flexibility, wider range of jaw motion, new gym buddies, a improved fashion sense, new appreciation of other lifestyles, a new found mastery of mixed drinks, and new kissing techniques just to name a few! What's great is you can have all these without turning into a homosexual! Too good to be true you wonder? Well in fact it's entirely true! What now you ask? Well from here you explore the depth of your sexuality (among other things). Go buy a dildo, check out some porn, maybe hang out at a club or two. Throw your dick to the wind(preferably put a raincoat on it first) and reap the rewards of your new sexuality! Enjoy! You can now hold your head up with pride and say "I'm a bisexual!" and don't let anyone take that away from you.

I hope this thread goes a long way to confirming your fears/desires/hopes and you can gather solace from it.


Seriously, this ought to be a sticky or something.

I've been bisexual for as long as I can remember and I still don't have any of that cool shit you said is supposed to come with the package. I think somewhere in all the screwing, I go screwed out of my benefits.

 

[Etoile]

Changed the title, made it sticky.

 

[tommix45]

I just recently started experimenting with my bi side. It's exciting, erotic, fun, and baffling too. I've had two wonderful experiences with a masseur. Both with happy endings. Our second meeting took place in his bedroom and was even more intense and very much to my liking. He took complete control. I am more submissive and prefer that role. I will not go into detail at this time because I plan to write an erotic essay about my experience. I will say I sucked him to completion and enjoyed every savory drop. Additionally, he finished me off by fucking my ass with a small butt plug and I shot my load on my stomach. He rubbed my creamy cum on my nipples and fed me my cum from his fingers. Needless to say I enjoy the taste and want more.

I have also been with another man that is equally inexperienced as I am. Although not as exciting as with my masseur, we are trying to add a hot female to our mix. My bi journey has began and so far I feel comfortable with it.

 

[HarlotMinx]

 

[haurni]

It seems appropriate for Literotica posts that are likely to attract a lot of attention to be labelled 'sticky'...

 

[Cabeza]

HOW TO TELL if you're a bicurious man:

Well, your first clue should be that you're reading threads in the GLBT forum on Lit!

(Also: the sticky pun. Ha!)

 

[danisometimes]

fabulous thread...thank you for this...

 

[matty70]

I started experimenting about three years ago, my first few were nerve wracking in fact a lot of them were cum and leave kind of meets.
Have had a few TVs which really gets me off. I sucked my first cock last year and loved it.
Have found now Im versatile and love it.
Enjoy what you are and find what your confortable with.

 

[robbie_boy1]

all I have to say about this thread is, "Yes I am!"

 

[SilkyDave]

43% pure on the 200 questions quickie purity test

 

[satchx]

HOW TO TELL if you're a bicurious man:

Would seem to me that overwhelming urge to suck dick might be the tip!

 

[robbie_boy1]

I would have to say that I am not curious though. I am bi and loving it.

 

[Chrissi]

You know I saw this post several days ago and am pretty mixed about it.

I know Minx didn't post it with any malicious intent, and it is a little humorous, but to guys who are struggling with and questioning their sexuality, this is a serious question. Taking this step (posting) in an open public forum...even though they are anonymous...is a big part in accepting their sexuality. Coming out to oneself is the biggest step sometimes.

Society has enough negativity toward homosexuality, (...bisexuality, or anything that is not straight heterosexuality), I don't think we, within our own community(ies), need to be displaying any of it too.

Just my 3 1/3 ¢ worth of opinion.

Topher

 

[HarlotMinx]

You know I saw this post several days ago and am pretty mixed about it.

I know Minx didn't post it with any malicious intent, and it is a little humorous, but to guys who are struggling with and questioning their sexuality, this is a serious question. Taking this step (posting) in an open public forum...even though they are anonymous...is a big part in accepting their sexuality. Coming out to oneself is the biggest step sometimes.

Oh I fully agree, it's a very serious topic and I think male bisexuality should be fostered because I think it receives quite a bit of attack from both the het community as well as the queer..... however that said, you haven't been here long enough yet to see the 20+ threads that pop in every month where men are basically looking for some confirmation of their bisexuality and I feel it's a bit ridiculous. We don't need a new thread every time someone wants to be told that liking cock doesn't make them gay. The amount of space devoted to it is staggering and I wouldn't mind if their was some type of conversation springing from these threads but they're dead threads.

Society has enough negativity toward homosexuality, (...bisexuality, or anything that is not straight heterosexuality), I don't think we, within our own community(ies), need to be displaying any of it too.

Just my 3 1/3 ¢ worth of opinion.

Topher

I completely disagree, their are aspects of the GLBT community that should and is held with negativity and re evaluated.... not necessarily bisexuality but some of the other facets of the community.

 

[jim69jim]

Enjoy what you are and find what your confortable with.

This +1
Sound words of advice. now if we could all just take it!

 

[littlegrizz02]

I'm a bi want to be!

 

[Chrissi]

Oh I fully agree, it's a very serious topic and I think male bisexuality should be fostered because I think it receives quite a bit of attack from both the het community as well as the queer..... however that said, you haven't been here long enough yet to see the 20+ threads that pop in every month where men are basically looking for some confirmation of their bisexuality and I feel it's a bit ridiculous. We don't need a new thread every time someone wants to be told that liking cock doesn't make them gay. The amount of space devoted to it is staggering and I wouldn't mind if their was some type of conversation springing from these threads but they're dead threads.

HarlotMinx I have been here a lot longer than what my name implies. I recently changed my name, so am starting over. I used to be gaymm and that one goes back to Feb 2006. But that is beside the point, I have seen the plethora of related posts. I am not put off by them. I also have no objections to the sticky either. I just suppose that a bit more compassion and understanding of the difficult and fragile state some of these folks can be in could have been expressed. To be honest I laughed the first time I saw it last week, but it sort of stuck with me, and thus my post.

I completely disagree, their are aspects of the GLBT community that should and is held with negativity and re evaluated.... not necessarily bisexuality but some of the other facets of the community.

I don't disagree with this as a blanket reference to all things gay (or non-straight). I agree that there are many issues involving the GLBT "community" (whatever that is) I don't agree with. "Community?" It should be: "communities;" as feelings and mores change depending on geographic region too. My post was just referring to this one specific issue, about the feeling of looking down on those who are struggling with their sexuality. Maybe "looking down" is too strong, but making light of the situation could perhaps be better handled with (more) compassion and understanding. Give the reader a feeling that "no, you are not alone with your issue, there are many more like you, see...." I think you nailed that with the fact that there are many common posts with the same set of background circumstances...thus the form responce. However, to people posting, they don't know that.

That is all I was trying to convey. Maybe I am too sensitive, but I was just throwing out my thoughts that were bugging me over the last several days. Again, I don't think you tended any harm (and I don't think the post is harmful, either, so don't read that in to my posting), Of the post of yours that I have read, I generally like and find them helpful and informative.

Topher.

 

[jboggy]

bi curious - count me in

I am a long time reader. I loved this post - it described me perfectly. I do not even know how to go about my cravings. I would love to feel hard body next me me. I would appreciate any help and advice about good/safe way of meeting men.

Update: I have transitioned and it was a ride, I am enjoying now who I am.
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[BoredBankerBoy]

I am a long time reader. I loved this post - it described me perfectly. I do not even know how to go about my cravings. I would love to feel hard body next me me. I would appreciate any help and advice about good/safe way of meeting men.

I'm wondering if recently I have been having thoughts of a shemale with big fake tits makes me bi-curious? lol. I also have thought of what it would be like to get sucked by a good looking cross dresser, but I don't have desires yet to be fucked up the ass......All input is appreciated

 

[SilkyDave]

you my friend are a very bi curious young man !

 

[Phun4u2]

Easy

Easy, it was when I realized that I was more aroused by the thought of giving a BJ than I was over getting one. MY wife and I would be watching porn videos and I'd get more and more horny watching men getting oral sex. I knew that I was imagining myself sucking the cock and swallowing the cum; what I didn't realize, was that my wife caught on pretty soon. My first indication was when she started saying things like "you would like to do that wouldn't you?". The real give away was when one night she followed up a comment like that with "would you like to suck that, wouldn't you like for it to cum in your mouth?". Since then, thanks to her, I am no longer bi-curious, I am bi. I love to suck a cock and swallow it's load and my wife loves to watch, direct and sometime participate.

 

[namron711]

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Easy, it was when I realized that I was more aroused by the thought of giving a BJ than I was over getting one. MY wife and I would be watching porn videos and I'd get more and more horny watching men getting oral sex. I knew that I was imagining myself sucking the cock and swallowing the cum; what I didn't realize, was that my wife caught on pretty soon. My first indication was when she started saying things like "you would like to do that wouldn't you?". The real give away was when one night she followed up a comment like that with "would you like to suck that, wouldn't you like for it to cum in your mouth?". Since then, thanks to her, I am no longer bi-curious, I am bi. I love to suck a cock and swallow it's load and my wife loves to watch, direct and sometime participate.

You are one lucky guy!