How to teach a guy how to deep throat

[4nick8er]

I would like to be able to to do this but not sure what muscle techniques I need to use not to gag. Is the numbing spray really a good tool to use?

 

[MGTG]

I would like to be able to to do this but not sure what muscle techniques I need to use not to gag. Is the numbing spray really a good tool to use?

Practice! Practice! And more practice, if you have a real cock to practice on even better. It depends on the angle it’s going in your throat. So if the guy has a straight forward boner, on your knees or sit down and it will be easier to open your throat this way. If he has a boner that goes more upwards lay him on his back and climb up from between his legs and take him that way.

You can get yourself a nice size dildo to practice on too! Take it has deep as you can then that’s when you learn to open that throat muscle, try and get past that gag and when you do, hold it there, keep it nice and wet with your saliva. Practice hard on yourself! Because men love to go hard, same with anal, practice HARD on yourself!

 

[4nick8er]

Thanks for the advice. I will definitely put that into practice.

 

[LAHomedog]

There will be a lot of suggestions and techniques shared with you. This is how I was taught and it is foolproof:

If you want to deepthroat a cock, pretend you are yawning. That's right, yawning.

Try it now: Open your mouth as if you are yawning. Your mouth will open fully, stretching the muscles and joints at the pivot of your jaw. Your tongue will go down into your mouth and instinctively shove itself down deep towards your esophagus opening your throat on the bottom.

Simultaneously the top of your mouth will pull up and your soft palate and uvula with it to go upward crunching up into your nose and into your sinuses and opening the top of your mouth as wide as it can go.

Your mouth will be completely open and receptive and as long as the head of his cock is wet enough -- like in any sex act -- then it will easily go down and into your throat.

Try it with a dildo a few times. It works! It really does.!!! Good luck

 

[4nick8er]

Thank. I've heard about that. Wasn't sure if it was just an old wives tale or not. I Really appreciate you taking the time to write the details. I can't wait to try it.

 

[mgrif024]

There is a technique that helps with gagging

While I’ll never have the opportunity on the real thing, I did try to deep throat my wife’s dildo after seeing a brief video about on tumblr. Though I have a strong gag reflex, I was able to take it all in which shocked me. The technique is quite simple and the process appears to successfully suppress the gag response on a very temporary basis.

Here’s the basics:
1) using only your left hand, wrap your thumb tightly in your fingers hard for about five seconds. Then,
2) take your pointer finger on your right hand and press it hard upon the dimple of your chin for about 5 seconds. Then,
3) pinch the web of skin between your thumb and fingers on your left hand hard for about 5 seconds.

Your gag reflex should now be, at least temporarily, suppressed allowing you to push forward.

I will also note that I’m able to successfully deep throat the dildo without employing the technique. In fact, I think I could take something longer than the 6.5” long and 2” diameter dildo without much more difficulty, though my gag reflex remains.

Trying on the real thing will have to remain something over which I’m curious, but I know I could do it!

Please report back on whether or not this works for you.

 

[4nick8er]

That's interesting. I'll try it and let you know.

 

[Goldenfinger]

 

[4nick8er]

Very informative. Thank you

 

[4nick8er]

So far, the yawning technique has introduced me to how I can control my throw muscles. If I take the yawning part away from it all and pay close attention to and mimic what the throat muscles I found that I can adjust when I experience discomfort or gag reflex triggers. I've gotten my wife's dildo gradually a little farther each time I've done it, which is daily. I'm almost there. I think I need now to get over the fear of actually having it plunge down my throat. Going to take some getting used to. Excited about the progress I've made. Just really wish I had a real one to practice on. Any takers? ☺

 

[LAHomedog]

So far, the yawning technique has introduced me to how I can control my throw muscles. If I take the yawning part away from it all and pay close attention to and mimic what the throat muscles I found that I can adjust when I experience discomfort or gag reflex triggers. I've gotten my wife's dildo gradually a little farther each time I've done it, which is daily. I'm almost there. I think I need now to get over the fear of actually having it plunge down my throat. Going to take some getting used to. Excited about the progress I've made. Just really wish I had a real one to practice on. Any takers? ☺

As the guy who turned you on to the yawning technique, I'm glad it's working so far and happy to be able to help. Let's get you over the final hurdle.

I know this is going to be simplistic, the trick is: Just do it! That's the secret. Just do it.

The best and easiest first time is in a moment of passion. Is you wife an active participant in this or is it something you are doing on the down low? I ask because if she is she can give you a blow job on your back while you give one to the dildo. (If not, find some porn and start to jerk off while you give a blow job to the dildo.)

Love the cock. Lick around the head as it rests on your lips. Wet the shaft with your tongue, take it into your mouth and suck it, move it in and out like a real, live cock. Give it a blow job. Mean it. All the way to the back of our mouth as you are getting more and more excited.

When you think you are getting close to cumming start to give your "partner" the same attention, and start to suck to make it cum with you. As you are getting close imagine the hard cock in your mouth starting to pulse and throb.

You want his cum down your throat. Make sure the head and shaft are soaking with your saliva. Using your yawning technique, open it and start to fuck your throat with the cock. You want his cum as you cum. Shoot all over yourself (or your wife) as the hard cock now in your throat and mouth does the same thing in your imagination.

There, you've done it. First time's the charm. Go for it.

 

[cocktaildress21]

There will be a lot of suggestions and techniques shared with you. This is how I was taught and it is foolproof:

If you want to deepthroat a cock, pretend you are yawning. That's right, yawning.

Try it now: Open your mouth as if you are yawning. Your mouth will open fully, stretching the muscles and joints at the pivot of your jaw. Your tongue will go down into your mouth and instinctively shove itself down deep towards your esophagus opening your throat on the bottom.

Simultaneously the top of your mouth will pull up and your soft palate and uvula with it to go upward crunching up into your nose and into your sinuses and opening the top of your mouth as wide as it can go.

Your mouth will be completely open and receptive and as long as the head of his cock is wet enough -- like in any sex act -- then it will easily go down and into your throat.

Try it with a dildo a few times. It works! It really does.!!! Good luck

This sounds right. Never heard it described in precisely these words - but, sure, this sounds legit.

Also, swallow.

I think the two are mutually exclusive - you can't yawn and swallow at the same time, so when the cock hits the back of your throat, swallow as you push it past the opening. That works for me.

 

[4nick8er]

Got it. Felt weird and a little scary at first. But once I got a rhythm going it is effing amazing. I love feeling my throat bulge. I'm hooked. Now all I need are guys to practice on. Any takers?

 

[tristantrotsky]

A Not-Entirely-Serious Suggestion

Practice! Practice! And more practice, if you have a real cock to practice on even better. It depends on the angle it’s going in your throat. So if the guy has a straight forward boner, on your knees or sit down and it will be easier to open your throat this way. If he has a boner that goes more upwards lay him on his back and climb up from between his legs and take him that way.

You can get yourself a nice size dildo to practice on too! Take it has deep as you can then that’s when you learn to open that throat muscle, try and get past that gag and when you do, hold it there, keep it nice and wet with your saliva. Practice hard on yourself! Because men love to go hard, same with anal, practice HARD on yourself!

To properly learn how to deep-throat you should arrange to get yourself locked up in prison, any minor crime will be sufficient for the purpose, until you find yourself incarcerated with a dominant well-hung and sexually aggressive cell-mate... you'll learn all you need to know about deep-throating in no time at all...

 

[ericrodman101]

To properly learn how to deep-throat you should arrange to get yourself locked up in prison, any minor crime will be sufficient for the purpose, until you find yourself incarcerated with a dominant well-hung and sexually aggressive cell-mate... you'll learn all you need to know about deep-throating in no time at all...

Only one cell mate?

 

[Goldenfinger]

As the guy who turned you on to the yawning technique, I'm glad it's working so far and happy to be able to help. Let's get you over the final hurdle.

I know this is going to be simplistic, the trick is: Just do it! That's the secret. Just do it.

The best and easiest first time is in a moment of passion. Is you wife an active participant in this or is it something you are doing on the down low? I ask because if she is she can give you a blow job on your back while you give one to the dildo. (If not, find some porn and start to jerk off while you give a blow job to the dildo.)

Love the cock. Lick around the head as it rests on your lips. Wet the shaft with your tongue, take it into your mouth and suck it, move it in and out like a real, live cock. Give it a blow job. Mean it. All the way to the back of our mouth as you are getting more and more excited.

When you think you are getting close to cumming start to give your "partner" the same attention, and start to suck to make it cum with you. As you are getting close imagine the hard cock in your mouth starting to pulse and throb.

You want his cum down your throat. Make sure the head and shaft are soaking with your saliva. Using your yawning technique, open it and start to fuck your throat with the cock. You want his cum as you cum. Shoot all over yourself (or your wife) as the hard cock now in your throat and mouth does the same thing in your imagination.

There, you've done it. First time's the charm. Go for it.

I agree 100% sometime it’s easier to get past something if your all worked up. It’s better with a partner but I’m sure you can get excited on your own.

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[tristantrotsky]

Maybe

Posted by tristantrotsky
To properly learn how to deep-throat you should arrange to get yourself locked up in prison, any minor crime will be sufficient for the purpose, until you find yourself incarcerated with a dominant well-hung and sexually aggressive cell-mate... you'll learn all you need to know about deep-throating in no time at all...

Only one cell mate?[/QUOTE]

Well... one at a time please Gentlemen!

 

[Goldenfinger]

Posted by tristantrotsky
To properly learn how to deep-throat you should arrange to get yourself locked up in prison, any minor crime will be sufficient for the purpose, until you find yourself incarcerated with a dominant well-hung and sexually aggressive cell-mate... you'll learn all you need to know about deep-throating in no time at all...

Only one cell mate?

Well... one at a time please Gentlemen![/QUOTE]


I’m not thinking prison is a place you want to develop any skills.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Practice, practice, practice.

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