How to 'talk' to older [70+] women sexually

[hammer_lane]

Working on creating a story about an older [70+] women/mother who has different values about sex and wants to be hynotized to start enjoying life to the fullest and learn/new things that she never had when she was sexually active .

Very conservative in public ... although i feel she has a burning desire to become 'nasty' in the bedroom

Any suggestions?


Thanks

HAMMERLANE

 

[wicked woman]

I see you've started two threads asking for help in writing stories. Might I suggest you post your questions in the Authors' Hangout. That's what it's for. Also...you might find it easier and more enjoyable to write about something you know.

 

[sparc101]

Any suggestions?

HAMMERLANE

...The End!

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

As an AH regular, I suggest you forget it. First, you have no idea what you are writing about. Second, the story sounds contrived. Third, the idea that anyone would read it is far fetched.

Go back to high school and write about banging cheerleaders behind the bleachers... just make sure they are 18.

 

[Carnevil9]

Talk to her as you would to anyone else, except REALLY LOUD!!!!

 

[shy slave]

As an AH regular, I suggest you forget it. First, you have no idea what you are writing about. Second, the story sounds contrived. Third, the idea that anyone would read it is far fetched.

Go back to high school and write about banging cheerleaders behind the bleachers... just make sure they are 18.

Why do you think its far fetched?

Don't old people have sex or sexual desires?

I always thought they did.

 

[yoshimitsu]

Talk to her as you would to anyone else, except REALLY LOUD!!!!

I thought you had to use old English.

 

[Andante]

Not a big help, but...

.... and learn/new things that she never had when she was sexually active.

Don't have any advice on the "how to" apart from being dignified and tactful about it. But I am puzzled about the quoted part of your post. Don't you think it's common for 70+ year olds to be sexually active? I do think so, for a lot of them, with or without partners, though the are much more private about it than younger people.

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Why do you think its far fetched?

Don't old people have sex or sexual desires?

I always thought they did.

Go and look in "How Too.." and "Story Ideas". This bozo is a freak and he's just fucking with you. He's prolly only about 13 and doesn't even belong here.

 

[cumallday]

That 70's Blow

Whatever you do, make sure the sex scenes involve a lot of Bengay. You should also think of interesting things they can do with her walker. Oh yes, don't forget to have her remove her dentures before she sucks his dick.

 

[CharleyH]

Working on creating a story about an older [70+] women/mother who has different values about sex and wants to be hynotized to start enjoying life to the fullest and learn/new things that she never had when she was sexually active .

Very conservative in public ... although i feel she has a burning desire to become 'nasty' in the bedroom

Any suggestions?


Thanks

HAMMERLANE

While I do not especially enjoy the thought of an older woman being hypnotized? I do get it. Why not just write your desire? Older women are 'oft times kinkier than young men.

 

[matriarch]

Why do you think its far fetched?

Don't old people have sex or sexual desires?

I always thought they did.

Too fucking right !!

I still intend to be making love with my wife when I'm 70....and its not that far away.

As for talking to older women........just the way you would talk to any woman you want to get worked up......find out what excites them, and take it from there.......just like you would with a younger woman....say in her 50s or 60s.

As for "......when she was sexually active"..... you'd better get it out of your head that older women don't have sexual fantasies or desires or your story won't even get off the ground.

Matriarch.........an older woman.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Watch the original "Producers"with Zero Mostel

May I say though, that the women who are over 70 right now- started screwing during the 60's and 70's and many of them have had more sex than you will in your lifetime.

 

[CharleyH]

Watch the original "Producers"with Zero Mostel

May I say though, that the women who are over 70 right now- started screwing during the 60's and 70's and many of them have had more sex than you will in your lifetime.

CLAPS! YES! I worked in an old age home (retirement villiage) at one point and can attest to the fact that there are MORE dirty old women, than men. lol (Matter of statistics, perhaps). Why are women at any older age, so relegated to the realm of the non-desired?

 

[Stella_Omega]

CLAPS! YES! I worked in an old age home (retirement villiage) at one point and can attest to the fact that there are MORE dirty old women, than men. lol (Matter of statistics, perhaps). Why are women at any older age, so relegated to the realm of the non-desired?

I cannot understand why more older women don't explore lesbianism. I think that's a damn tragedy.

Men don't want you any more? I know who does, and will for a very long time to come.

 

[CharleyH]

Men don't want you any more? I know who does, and will for a very long time to come.

Damn you changed your answer I am sure.

 

[CharleyH]

I cannot understand why more older women don't explore lesbianism. I think that's a damn tragedy.

Men don't want you any more? I know who does, and will for a very long time to come.

I am quite intimidating and charming when I walk into a room and care less who wants, well ok, with exception of me and what I want.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I am quite intimidating and charming when I walk into a room and care less who wants, well ok, with exception of me and what I want.

I'd feel the same way- if you walked into a room

(I didn't mean you, Charlie, I was thinking of some of the unhappy lonely women that I know that want a BOYFRIEND- regardless of the fact that they have nearly everything, relationship-wise, in one or another of their women friends- and if they'd only learn what they could have together in bed- They could have it all. It's fucking heartbreaking.

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Hmmm... I don't think I could really get into a "Blue Hair" old lady, frankly

 

[Stella_Omega]

Hmmm... I don't think I could really get into a "Blue Hair" old lady, frankly

You will be one, eventually, though- unless you choose the only alternative, and who wants that?

 

[minsue]

Hmmm... I don't think I could really get into a "Blue Hair" old lady, frankly

Yes, but Jenny, you seem (based on previous posts) to consider anyone over 40 to be an old lady and no longer attractive.

 

[Grushenka]

Blue hair, Ben-gay, "talk loud", etc.

What a silly bunch of ageist ninnies.

No-young-thing, Gr.

 

[TheEarl]

(I didn't mean you, Charlie, I was thinking of some of the unhappy lonely women that I know that want a BOYFRIEND- regardless of the fact that they have nearly everything, relationship-wise, in one or another of their women friends- and if they'd only learn what they could have together in bed- They could have it all. It's fucking heartbreaking.

Err... maybe they don't want a woman. Maybe they're not sexually attracted to women?

I'm sorry, but to me, that post reads just as silly as if someone claimed that lesbians would have so much fun if they would just open their horizons and accept dick.

The Earl

 

[Stella_Omega]

Err... maybe they don't want a woman. Maybe they're not sexually attracted to women?

I'm sorry, but to me, that post reads just as silly as if someone claimed that lesbians would have so much fun if they would just open their horizons and accept dick.

The Earl

We are talking about OLDER WOMEN here. The ones that men don't care to dip their wicks into any more.

you're right, of course. Most women do NOT want sexual relations with another woman, can't imagine a fulfilling life without a man. But, The Earl, You can't imagine how many women I know that are past that magic number "42" which seems to be the cutoff age (at least in the states) for attractiveness. Men who say, in the personals, that "age is not important" mean age up to forty. Women who say that they are 26 get very few responses. I am speaking from not my own experience since I am lucky enough to be in an enduring relationship- but from watching other women go through this, hand-holding and letting my freinds cry on my shoulder- women that any dike would be grateful to lay beside- Myself certainly.
Case history;

"K" who has not had a boyfriend for six years now- is younger and prettier than I am- posted on Match.com. She used her real age of fifty-one. In the entire time she had her ad up, she got a whiopping five responses, and from men who were ugly- like missing teeth, unwashed ugly. The three she responded to told her she was... too old for them, sorry.
This beautiful woman calls me in tears because she is so lonely. Meanwhile, she and her equally single female neighbor meet each morning on the patio for brekkie, swap clothes, cuddle together to watch movies, console and encourage and do errands together- but that penis is missing and neither of them would think of moving this friendship into anything more satisfying without one.

There are so many women in this country who are absolutely presentable ,and desperately lonely for a MA-YUNN. No, they do NOT want a woman, and no, the men around them do not want a woman of their age, either.

Don't you think that's a heartbreaker? I do.

(edited to say; The lesbians who get invited to "broaden their horizons" are thirty years younger than I am.

 

[CharleyH]

Err... maybe they don't want a woman. Maybe they're not sexually attracted to women?

I'm sorry, but to me, that post reads just as silly as if someone claimed that lesbians would have so much fun if they would just open their horizons and accept dick.

The Earl

I get what you are saying, Earl. I may not agree, but get what you are saying.