How to Talk Sexy ?

[acer144]

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If you talk like a Sunday school teacher, you'll only impress nuns and grandmothers. The rewards of sexy talk are far greater than the risks. Being sexy and provocative with women really turns them on. It will get them excited about you. So use your sexual lingo and believe me, you'll get slapped a lot less than you think.

Think of it this way: if a woman told you that you had a sexy walk, sensual shoulders or great legs, it would really turn you on. Well women are sexual creatures too. Why do you think they wear skin-tight, revealing clothes? Just to look pretty? Don't be gullible. Women show men their cleavage and behinds to stimulate them because they know that if their bodies are well packaged, men will try to get their hands all over them.

A word of caution: not all women will respond to this type of talk with sexual passion. Some of them have to be warmed up first, while others are as cold as ice and just cannot be thawed. This means that you must discriminate whom you talk sexy to and how quickly you start. Don't be a prude, but if a woman doesn't show any interest, stop pestering her. Respect her decision; you don't want to be accused of sexual harassment

plz how to do it ?
what type of dirty talk would you women like to hear?

 

[SexyChele]

QUOTE
If you talk like a Sunday school teacher, you'll only impress nuns and grandmothers. The rewards of sexy talk are far greater than the risks. Being sexy and provocative with women really turns them on. It will get them excited about you. So use your sexual lingo and believe me, you'll get slapped a lot less than you think.

Think of it this way: if a woman told you that you had a sexy walk, sensual shoulders or great legs, it would really turn you on. Well women are sexual creatures too. Why do you think they wear skin-tight, revealing clothes? Just to look pretty? Don't be gullible. Women show men their cleavage and behinds to stimulate them because they know that if their bodies are well packaged, men will try to get their hands all over them.

A word of caution: not all women will respond to this type of talk with sexual passion. Some of them have to be warmed up first, while others are as cold as ice and just cannot be thawed. This means that you must discriminate whom you talk sexy to and how quickly you start. Don't be a prude, but if a woman doesn't show any interest, stop pestering her. Respect her decision; you don't want to be accused of sexual harassment

plz how to do it ?

I'm a little confused by what you are asking here. Do you mean when do you talk dirty to a woman? Well, that would vary. Okay, I'll give a few examples of myself.

If I'm out in a bar, and I've had a few drinks, I'm more inclined to appreciate risque comments in a flirtatious manner. And I'll reciprocate.

If I'm in a grocery store, trying to decide which cat litter to buy, I will probably think the guy is a freak if he starts talking dirty and give him a piece of my mind as well.

Now, if I'm dating a man, and we are driving to a party and he starts to tell me all the things he wants to do when we leave, I'll be begging him to skip the part entirely!

If we are going at it like bunnies, I love talking dirty and being talked dirty to.

So, if the comments are coming from some one I am dating, I'm totally turned on. If the comments are coming from a complete stranger in a flirtatious way when I'm tipsy, I'll have some fun and smiles. If a total stranger in a non-sexual place starts in, he's lucky he won't be arrested!

 

[Chicklet]

hrm...

this is difficult.

i would say it's not so much the words as the tone - use words that are comfortable to you, one way or another, or else they're going to sound corny.

chicklet

 

[Soblue]

Right on SexyChele. The only thing I can add is that sexy whispers really do it for me.

Whisper, close to my ear about all the sexy things you like. That just melts me.

And compliments, compliments, they are just the thing for making me feel sexy and turned on. For me personally, I like more subtle compliments, rather than too crude...Well, graphic is good if we are going at it, but like SC said, it depends on what we are doing at the time.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

acer144,
First make sure you know the difference between sexy talk and just saying obscene things. Sexy talk falls under the art of flirting, for which there are simply no pat formulae.

Talking sexy requires intelligence, perception, and--most of all--sensitivity. You go up to a girl in a bar and whisper, "Nice fucking rack, baby." and I don't think you'll get very far. However you come over and tell her that you noticed her from across the room and wonder if you could buy her a drink, while not being especially sexy, has a lot more to recommend it.

I worry about all these books and "how-to's that treat women as if they're some sort of machines: you press this button and pull that lever and say such-and-such and she falls into your arms. That kind of stuff works with men--a woman can just go up to a man and ask "how about it?" and he'll follow her anywhere--but not with women, or at least not with any woman worth having.

So there is no magic formula. And remember too, that just becasue a woman gets dressed up in revealing sexy clothes does not necessarily mean she's looking to get laid. Women enjoy showing off just as much as men do, and, in case you haven't noticed, driving men nuts is a favorite female passtime.

---dr.M.

 

[huskie]

Re: Re: How to Talk Sexy ?

I'm a little confused by what you are asking here. Do you mean when do you talk dirty to a woman? Well, that would vary. Okay, I'll give a few examples of myself.

If I'm out in a bar, and I've had a few drinks, I'm more inclined to appreciate risque comments in a flirtatious manner. And I'll reciprocate.

If I'm in a grocery store, trying to decide which cat litter to buy, I will probably think the guy is a freak if he starts talking dirty and give him a piece of my mind as well.

Now, if I'm dating a man, and we are driving to a party and he starts to tell me all the things he wants to do when we leave, I'll be begging him to skip the part entirely!

If we are going at it like bunnies, I love talking dirty and being talked dirty to.

So, if the comments are coming from some one I am dating, I'm totally turned on. If the comments are coming from a complete stranger in a flirtatious way when I'm tipsy, I'll have some fun and smiles. If a total stranger in a non-sexual place starts in, he's lucky he won't be arrested!

pussy......

 

[SexyChele]

Re: Re: Re: How to Talk Sexy ?

pussy......

You little dickens - are you trying to make my heart beat faster?

 

[AardRiven]

I would love to have a chick approach me in grocery store while my mind is on cat litter. (ok, I dont have a cat, not anymore, but something similar).

 

[Angeline]

Use your imagination

Dr. Mabeuse said:

Talking sexy requires intelligence, perception, and--most of all--sensitivity. You go up to a girl in a bar and whisper, "Nice fucking rack, baby." and I don't think you'll get very far. However you come over and tell her that you noticed her from across the room and wonder if you could buy her a drink, while not being especially sexy, has a lot more to recommend it.

Doc is a smart man: he understands that for any woman with >3 brain cells, it's about imagination and sensitivity. I once had a conversation about the film The English Patient and the scene in which Juliet Binoche sees the ceiling frescos in the ruined Italian villa (if you saw it you know what I mean; if not, no worries ). The man I was talking with said he loved Juliet in that scene because "her eyes were full of wonder." He then said "It's the way I want you to look at me."

Uh huh. I'm still with him. That was natural and perfect and, to me, incredibly sexy.