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[Nikki22]

Hi everyone!

I am one of the editors at Literotica (editgirl123.)

I wanted to post a challenge to anyone who would be willing to send me a story that would tell me how to "be more aggressive" with my boyfriend. He has asked me to be more aggressive in the bedroom, but not to the point that he would be in pain. He likes me to take the lead. I have always been very submissive, so this is a change for me and I am not sure how to go about it.

If you are a guy, let me know exactly what you would like if you wanted a woman to take charge in the bedroom.

If you are a woman, how would YOU go about being more aggressive in the bedroom?

Feel free to send "submissions" to Christa46@cs.com

Thanks!

 

[lexium]

Think about this. If you are just trying something out, you may feel awkward in doing so. Do the things you normally do, but try to do something else that you want. If you wear pajamas to bed, don't go out and get a teddy, just sleep in your undies. When you kiss and you put your arms around his neck, try putting them under his arms, and reach around and grab his butt. If you feel like giving him a blowjob, just do it. I never met a man who would refuse to have his cock sucked. The most important thing, I believe is not being a dead fuck. Don't just lay there and let him fuck you...you fuck him, or fuck him back. I'm not assuming anything here, nor think I know everything, because I don't, but I do feel better when I'm trying to get something out of it for me, and not for him. Believe me, he will satisfy himself, as long as he is not bored.

Lexium

 

[peterpan]

Its a cool subject, but I am afraid to enter an opinion in the form of a story because I am moderately sure your boyfriend wouldn't want you using someone elses ideas. Maybe he does just want you to PLAY at being aggressive, in which case you have to figure out what he specifically means, but more likely he wants you to really feel more agressive, to show you want him in an intense, gluttonous sort of way. So acting out a fantasy that is not yours, and you are only doing to please him would be the opposite of what he wants.

Plus what Lexium said.

 

[Nikki22]

Thanks Lexium and Peterpan!

I kind of devised a little game that he and I played that he found quite exciting. I called his voice mail and told him that he was to meet me at my house at 12N. He was to NOT wear underware, and was to meet me in my bedroom. I met him wearing a matchng (black) bra and panties set. He was excited when he hit the door (I could see it. LOL)
I told him to strip in front of me. He gladly did so. While he was stripping, I opened and began to suck on a popcicle. I licked and sucked it like it was a cock. Then, I told him to come over to me. He tried to touch me, and I told him no. I touched the popcicle to his left nipple, then sucked it. Then I did his right nipple and sucked and licked it longer. I trailed it down his chest to his cock. I then moved back up and told him that it had been so long since I had sucked his cock that I forgot how to do it. I put the popcicle to his mouth and told him to show me how to suck him. He gladly licked and sucked the popcicle. I then got on my knees and ran it all over his cock and then deep throated him. Needless to say he loved it. I sucked the popcicle a little more, then put it aside and kissed him deeply, grabbing the back of his head and hair.
The next thing I knew, I was being pushed back on my bed, and he began to lick and suck my clit and slit. He then wanted to do it, but I still said no. I kneeled down and sucked him, then let him have me. My grand finale was to let him almost get to the point of cumming and then tell him that I wanted him to cum all over my tits. Needless to say, he left with a smile on his face. LOL

 

[Axeltheswede]

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The last thing you need is advice, Nikki22. You are cookin' with the whole damn stove!
Write the story already.

 

[Nikki22]

Well thank you very much Alex! =)

 

[julian 1]

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Nikki,
Please read my post from submissive to Mistress in this section.
With a major exception -your Master is not deceased- your
dilemna sounds very similar to the one I am planning to write
about. If a sub is commanded to be a Domme what delicious
tension/conflict will ensue.
You, my dear, sound like a natural born "switch."