How to stimulate the prostate?

[Beniger]

Okay all, As you can tell I'm new around here and this may have been discussed in the past (in fact Im sure it has) but my question is how do you get your girl friend to stimulate your prostate?

I mean the technical aspects (she's already totally into it). Im also curious as to what a prostate orgasm feels like.

Is there such a thing?

Thanks for the tips!

 

[BirdsWife]

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657&pagenumber=1

It's a long read, but well worth the effort.

 

[Limbhugger]

Humm...Well my first question would be, have you found and stimulated your prostate on your own during masturbation?

If yes, it will be easier for you to "direct" her. If not, do it, simplifies the entire process. And as a side benefit, the exploration feels pretty good...lol.

If you're on your back, you would want her to curl her fingers toward your balls. Every guy is different but you or her should be able to find the glad with the finger about at the second knuckle. That said, it takes almost full insertion of my wife's finger to reach mine. Like I said, we're all different. Her finger size and the exact location of your glabnd will dictate. Just remember the glad is at the front of your anus so the finger should explore toward your balls.

You'll know when you or she finds it. For me it isn't some magical bell-ringing sensation but rather a subtle but deep pleasure. Completely different than having say the head of your cock teased. Different but extremely pleasurable. In fact it took me a while to really enjoy the sensations. Not meaning they weren't pleasurable from the start but, I don't know, it was just different.

I had to learn what made it feel good and made it feel right. It is a completely different orgasm for me. For me, the stroking of the gland has become far more the pleasure than the orgasm (not to say the orgasm isn't good). But even long after (and I'm talking a couple hours) my prostate has been messaged RIGHT I can still feel subtle deep pleasures in the region.

I have never been "milked" and doubt I could cum from just this stimulation as others can but it is a wonderful thing when I'm in the mood for it. I have (ot she has) actually made my prostate sore on a few occassions. Kinda freaky to have something deep inside you subtley sore...lol. But that was just exploration.

For me, the orgasm itself while having my prostate stimulated is deep and long. It isn't the intense orgasm you get from masturbation or a blowjob. It is different. It throbs and pulses and my cum actually spills out rather than shoots. I'm a strong shooter when I cum so this is a completely different exprience for me. It drools out over and over and over. Thick.

It really is a great experience but may not be what you expect at first. If you're thinking touching your prostate will send you into some body-wracking explosion, I doubt that is true, at least not for me. But it is a warm, wonderful, wanton experience.

Find it, rub it gently, explore it.

 

[pogogirl]

I used a finger in my boyfriends ass to stimulate the prostate before but what I like to really do is use my tongue to lick the flesh between the balls and the anus which is stimulating the prostate. I also like to suck on the flesh as well as just licking it. Every man I have done this to has always said the feeling was incrediable. I have heard a lot of women won't do this because they think it is gross to lick down there. I have asked all my friends if they licked down there to please their partners and they tell me they would never ever do it. Ladies if you want to please your man and keep him happy I would try it on him.

 

[Beniger]

Thanks for all the tips.
Birdswife, I saw the thread but didnt read it as I thought it was something else, but obviously it's related. Im looking forward to having a look at your (and others) posting on this. Thanks for directing me to it.

Limbhugger: I have used my finger myself and I would agree with your assessment of it being different. Not necessarily good or bad but different. I take your point that I need to practice by myself (not such a bad idea!) before getting a partner involved. Im looking forward to the "body wracking explosion"!

Pogogirl: I love having the part between my balls and ass licked. In fact I love having my ass licked as well and have had women who enjoy rimming me. It's an erogenous zone that men and women sometimes dont think about but for me is one of the hottest areas that guaranteed to get me off. In your anal play do you rim your partner as well?

 

[pogogirl]

No, I have never rimmed before. I don't think that is something I could do. I just can't get over my timidness to try it. I think it might taste bad. If I ever did try it my partner would have to shower and wash really good down there before we havve sex. Then I might try it.

 

[Beniger]

Its Grrrrreaaaatttt!!!

Hey pogo

I dont think Tony the Tiger had this in mind, but you never know!

Cleanliness is, of course, important. But if you ever want to drive him nuts -- or have him drive you nuts, there are few pleasures that beat it. It's not just that there are lots of nerve endings down there, it's also the taboo nature.

You should try it -- and let us know how you make out!

 

[N8Dreams]

There is another thread about "milking a man" Look for that