how to start
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cymbidia
unrepentant pervert
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Hello dulcie,
I moved your other post because it was, essentially, a personals ad and we don't allow those here. Please read this thread to learn our rules and conventions.
Welcome to the BDSM Forum
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81138
I'd advise you to read the threads we have here, and try to find some of your answers yourself before asking someone else to give the answers to you. "The answer", in any case, is really different for each of us.
You need to refine your question a little and ask something we can answer, not just a big wet shapeless "how do i do it?" kinda thing. We have no way to answer that. We don't know you. We don't know what you need or want. You're a stranger to us.
Take some time and become a member of the community here and we'll help you as we get to know you. That's the best advice i have.
Oh, that and please do not post anything else that violates the Forum rules.
Thank you,
cymbidia
Forum Moderator
I moved your other post because it was, essentially, a personals ad and we don't allow those here. Please read this thread to learn our rules and conventions.
Welcome to the BDSM Forum
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81138
I'd advise you to read the threads we have here, and try to find some of your answers yourself before asking someone else to give the answers to you. "The answer", in any case, is really different for each of us.
You need to refine your question a little and ask something we can answer, not just a big wet shapeless "how do i do it?" kinda thing. We have no way to answer that. We don't know you. We don't know what you need or want. You're a stranger to us.
Take some time and become a member of the community here and we'll help you as we get to know you. That's the best advice i have.
Oh, that and please do not post anything else that violates the Forum rules.
Thank you,
cymbidia
Forum Moderator
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MissTaken
Biker Chick
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Welcome to the boards, Dulcie.
There are many ways to meet people in the lifestyle. But first, you need to go into any relationship with a Dom with a clear head concerning what you hope to experience, offer and gain from the relationship.
Yes, contacting the local munch groups is a good start. I do believe there are groups in Ottawa and Toronto, but am not sure about other areas of Ontario. To be sure, you can do an internet search for Alternative Lifestyles or Munch Groups.....
Now, when you are asking about how to become a sexual slave, I wonder what exactly you mean. Again, some research and self exploration will help you to decide what it is you are looking for.
There are numerous web sites and checklists that you can look over to help make some decisions about what interests you. Castlerealm.com is where I found my start.
Ask questions here, pm me if you like. We were all in a period of wonder in the beginning. REading the stickies at the top of this forum will also shed a bit of light into what might be involved in starting out....safety being key.
How to dress? Well, however HE tells you too, dear! *smirks*
Good Luck
and once again,
Welcome.
There are many ways to meet people in the lifestyle. But first, you need to go into any relationship with a Dom with a clear head concerning what you hope to experience, offer and gain from the relationship.
Yes, contacting the local munch groups is a good start. I do believe there are groups in Ottawa and Toronto, but am not sure about other areas of Ontario. To be sure, you can do an internet search for Alternative Lifestyles or Munch Groups.....
Now, when you are asking about how to become a sexual slave, I wonder what exactly you mean. Again, some research and self exploration will help you to decide what it is you are looking for.
There are numerous web sites and checklists that you can look over to help make some decisions about what interests you. Castlerealm.com is where I found my start.
Ask questions here, pm me if you like. We were all in a period of wonder in the beginning. REading the stickies at the top of this forum will also shed a bit of light into what might be involved in starting out....safety being key.
How to dress? Well, however HE tells you too, dear! *smirks*
Good Luck
and once again,
Welcome.
How to dress...
However He or SHE may tell you my Dear. LOL
Welcome to the forum Dulcie. There is a treasure trove of wonderful information here. For many learning about the lifestyle is a discovery of self. You may find that the more you read the better defined your own sense of submission will become. You will be able to personalize what you read and see how an idea, action or fact fits for you. Another great place to find out about the lifestyle is in the stories on Lit. Excellent reading.
For many of us being submissive is more than how we dress or act, it is at the core of how we self identify.
Enjoy your journey.
However He or SHE may tell you my Dear. LOL
Welcome to the forum Dulcie. There is a treasure trove of wonderful information here. For many learning about the lifestyle is a discovery of self. You may find that the more you read the better defined your own sense of submission will become. You will be able to personalize what you read and see how an idea, action or fact fits for you. Another great place to find out about the lifestyle is in the stories on Lit. Excellent reading.
For many of us being submissive is more than how we dress or act, it is at the core of how we self identify.
Enjoy your journey.
